After a lifetime of hesitant struggles, self confidence can change the future, who can do it?

The road of life is to walk by yourself, no matter which path you choose, don't regret it, you can only go on confidently, if you are not confident, it is difficult to complete this road. When I was in high school, I was divided into arts and sciences, but I didn't choose the path I should take, and I once spent it in regret. My advantage is liberal arts, my liberal arts grades are very good, and I am ranked high in the grade, and the teacher also told me that if I choose liberal arts, I can be assigned to a key class, but I don't know what I thought at that time, I actually thought about some irrelevant issues, I thought that the original class was science, and I would be assigned to other classes if I chose liberal arts, and my classmates who had a good relationship with me also chose to stay in the class, and if I left, I couldn't be with them often, and the relationship would be estranged.

This unexpected idea left me in the original science class, although I had a lot of fun fighting with my classmates every day, but I was less and less interested in schoolwork, I thought that as long as I worked hard, I could accept that I didn't like things, but I couldn't help it if I wasn't interested. My interest is still in the liberal arts, science is not attractive to me at all, and my academic performance is also terrible, and when I realize the seriousness of the problem, I find out that it is too late, do I want to repeat the year of study, I don't want to waste time, I don't want to be a joke for others, I start to regret my choice, I blame myself for being a pig brain, why didn't I think about my strengths clearly, the results that were enough to make me confident before have become history, and I can never get it back. Gradually, I was no longer happy, my classmates saw my unhappiness, they all cared about me, gave me encouragement, and Meizi, who was sitting in front of me, also gave me a wish bag, she said that the wish bag was opened, and it would definitely help me regain my confidence and happiness.

The wish bag was found by Meizi in the store that helps you get rich, and the shopkeeper Fan Fei and Yuan Ying said that many people who are not confident and unhappy can get confidence and happiness from them. This is what Meizi told us later, she said that she bought one for herself a long time ago, and since she had the wish bag, she has always been in a good mood, there are almost no worries, and lucky things still happen often, so she hopes that with the power of the wish bag, I can be as lucky as her. I carefully tucked away the bag of wishes that Umeko gave me, and before I knew it, my troubles disappeared, and I no longer felt that my choice was something I regretted, and I suddenly figured it out.

Thinking about it from another angle, if I don't choose to stay in the class, I won't have such good sisters as Meizi and them, good academic performance does not mean that there will be a good life, life is not only about studying for exams, as long as you maintain a positive attitude, life will not be bleak, and if you have self-confidence, you are not afraid that the road of life will not go well, and the loss of friends is the most regrettable. Many years have passed, we have been working at the beginning, our relationship is still so good, I still keep the wish bag sent by Meizi, it is she and it allows me to continue my self-confidence to the present, I don't know if it is really the power of the wish bag or the power of friendship, so that my life has always exuded the light of self-confidence.

I have some knowledge of psychology here that helps me with my thoughts about changing the future, and I'm going to share it with you.

One school of thought in psychology asserts that past experiences determine who you are now.

Every bit of you seems to be under your control, but it's not. For example, what you say when you're angry may be different every time, but it's all limited to a scope, and it's almost impossible to suddenly think of one you've never heard before.

Your current self is all made by the bits and pieces of experience in the past, how can you completely get rid of the past because of your momentary efforts, and it won't be long before you will return to the original shape.

Only now to shape a new self bit by bit, have a clear consciousness, to cut off the past.

Hope it helps you a little.

People will win the day, although it is good, it is difficult to do.

You are someone I will never forget no matter where I am in this life, I may not love you very much, but there will never be such a person again, and I will be sad to shed tears just thinking about it. You will find someone better than me, and I, will never be so good to a person again.

Why are you asking for the lyrics of the band Beyond's "Glory Days"?

1.When you are young, you are prone to mood swings, you don't have to pay too much attention to it, after 10 years or 20 years, looking back, all this is nothing.

2.What you need to do now is to plan your future path and implement it, not to think about what to do if you succeed, because you still have a lot of time to spend with you.

3.Do what you like as much as you can, even if it may cost you something, active effort will bring out all your potential, and having to do what you don't like will make you depressed.

4.Will and ability are the key and guarantee of success, don't be afraid of failure, that is just a stepping stone to success, youth is your capital.

5.Do your best, listen to the destiny of God, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard, your life is meaningful, in fact, the process is as important as the result, it is also a valuable asset.

Wishing you a safe journey!

Believe that you are excellent and look in the mirror to encourage yourself.