I quarreled and broke up, why did I keep crying

Updated on parenting 2024-02-08
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The road is walked out by people, the choice is in your own hands, some people will have no hesitation, and some people will withdraw to seek perfection, who is right until the end no one can say clearly. Both of you have such a temper, which proves that you are still young, there are always some thorns in your body, whether you can tolerate it, whether you can run in, it takes time, and it takes the efforts of the two of you, and if you persist in the past, you can be happy, but there is too much bitterness in this kind of happiness. Quarrel, that's just pain.

    Scattered, it was pain and suffering. Of course, you will gradually get better in the future, you will meet someone who is more suitable for you, and you agree that you can get happiness, but there are too many regrets about such happiness.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think although you love each other very much, but your personalities are too discordant, so it's okay, if you break up, you may miss him too much to keep crying. He often quarrels with you, you just think more about the things you quarrel with him, don't think about those sad things anymore, you can also find another man, start over, forget about him, you really don't match it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    To be honest, you two are really similar to us, but we have been together for almost 5 years, and we have experienced a lot of everything, and we have seen the truth in adversity, and after going through ups and downs, I firmly believe that what you love can never be changed, and no one can replace it, and you cry very sadly when you break up, because you are reluctant, because you are still in love, don't think about so many so-called reasons for separation, as long as you know the reason why you shouldn't be separated, because this reason is "still in love", and when you feel that you don't love anymore, just wave your hand in a chic way, I hope you can understand what I said.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you really like each other that much, will personality be a reason for you to break up?

    If that's really the case, it's better to break up early, and you can be less sad than if you only know after you get married, isn't it?

    But if you feel that you still can't let go, you can't do it without him, then you are giving each other a chance to sit down and have a good talk, in fact, the fault is not entirely you, a slap does not make a sound, there must be a problem, you should talk together.

    If there really is no drama, then let it go, maybe in the future you will meet a more suitable person for you, maybe you and your boyfriend are suitable to be friends.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Tell you that if you really like him, you will cry, if you don't really want it, then don't cry, after all, tears are the reflection of your heart.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I'm pretty much the same as your boyfriend. I got into an argument with my girlfriend. I often burst into tears.

    I didn't see him for two months. No matter how bad the situation. .

    She even slapped me several times. I swore I would break up with him. But we're still together.

    I got married on October 6, 09. Actually, what do I want to say? Inclusive.

    Generous. If neither of you is willing to make a sacrifice, ask for the long days ahead. How do you live.

    How to get along. How to solve troubles! To think of husband and wife and.

    Husbands are afraid of their wives! A lot of good men are like that!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    In fact, I believe that you are really very affectionate towards him, but I think that the reason for the quarrel must be that you are extremely unable to understand each other's feelings in your hearts, listen to his heart, and your feelings will be better.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You're about the same as me, but I'm a man, and I've been with my partner for 4 years now

    There are too many reasons why we can't get married, and there is a lot of pressure from our parents, and we quarrel almost a lot, but it's okay to fight for a while after each fight

    Since the Spring Festival in 2010, I figured out some things, and then I said a word to my partner, and most of our 4 years of troubles were resolved

    A tacit understanding, a warmth, a plainness, an understanding, a tolerance, this is happiness

    To love him is to love all of him, believe me, call him **, beg him to forgive you, and then tell him, a tacit understanding, a warmth, a plainness, an understanding, a tolerance, this is happiness

    Believe me, don't regret it, go to him, he needs you now, I believe you need him now

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Really、I sympathize with you、As a girl、Understand this pain、、Self-comforting well、Forget about him、Try to accept a new relationship、、

    That's how I came 、、、

    Hehe、I'm going to cry again、、、

    Be strong!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's hard to love someone. It's harder to let go of someone you love. If you break up and you don't have tears to accompany you, then it can only prove that you love her at all!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Because you care about him in your heart.

    Since your heart hurts, don't break up.

    Calm down for a few days and see.

    I don't think he's feeling good either.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's all your fault, you cry, I'm gone.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Love is not child's play.

    Good luck.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It may be that the wind and the sand are blind, it is purely an excuse

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It is difficult to determine whether two people who often quarrel should continue or break up. Take a blank piece of paper and write the disadvantages on the left and the advantages on the right.

    Write down his shortcomings one by one, and write down his strengths one by one. Be objective, not emotional. Compare which of his strengths and weaknesses is more?

    If there are more advantages than disadvantages, then take another blank piece of paper and write down the reason for your quarrel. On the left is his reason, and on the right is because of you and the reason for the quarrel.

    If it is you who caused the quarrel, or if you are the one who is at fault, then the relationship can continue, and what you need to do is to correct your shortcomings. If it is his fault that is greater than yours, then you know what to do.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Do you think you still like him? You're still in a relationship. The days to come are still very long, and small quarrels are inevitable. There is no one right or wrong in life, only mutual tolerance, understanding, support, forgiveness, understanding and trust.

    If you like it, don't break up, two people still need to communicate calmly when they encounter problems, express each other's thoughts, understand each other's thoughts, be considerate of each other, always quarrel, and no matter how good the relationship is, it will be polished.

    If he can take the initiative to apologize to you after a quarrel, it means that he still loves you, so there is no need to divide. Of course, it's really unforgivable if it's too many times.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    My boyfriend and I have been quarreling before, and then we were separated for a year, and the two of us had a miserable time for a year of separation, and now that we are reconciled, I feel that those previous quarrels were completely unnecessary, but that the lost time could not be remedied. If you like that person, you can communicate with the two of you to see what the root cause of the quarrel is, what are the respective demands of the two people, make a little compromise, a little concession, don't wait for the loss and then regret it, I hope mine can help you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Break up, because if you keep arguing like this, there's no need to be together all the time.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's normal for couples to quarrel. No couple quarrels for different reasons. There are many reasons why you want to break up after a fight.

    It may be that the other party brought you such an idea. It could be your own fault. Because I feel that the other party doesn't love me, I don't want to be soft if the other party doesn't apologize right away.

    It's just giving us time to calm each other down. The result is certainly not worth it. You may feel that if someone loves you, they won't give you that much time for you to think cranky.

    The more you think about it, the less the other person loves you. If you continue to continue, there will be no result, so it is better to break up early. Short is better than pain.

    1. The man didn't comfort you right away After the quarrel ended, the man made you angry, and the two started a cold war. Men also don't take it personally, don't apologize, and don't speak. I think you're getting angry.

    I think it's better to break up. You might be more handsome when you spend it alone. He thinks he'll only make you angry, but not coax you.

    He must not love you. Moreover, you thought about it a lot and finally felt that it was not worth being with him. It's best to break up early.

    So you want to break up as soon as you quarrel. 2. I can't feel the love of men Women actually have always had concepts in their hearts. If a man really likes you, he will definitely not hesitate to make you sad.

    After you and your boyfriend have a fight. Your boyfriend knows you're sad, but he's sad and can't do anything about it. He knows it, but he doesn't come to comfort you.

    I refuse to let you soften. It's just looking at you coldly and feeling sad. You can't feel his love for you either.

    I could only feel his desperation. So, you don't think there's any need to continue the relationship. Men don't love anymore.

    If you drag it any longer, you may resent it. You also don't want to keep yourself sad. So you want to break up as soon as you quarrel.

    3. Too sensitive People who are too sensitive can't actually fall in love well. Because you are always at a loss, insecure, and have low self-esteem. After a man quarrels with you, he can't make you feel that he still loves you.

    Not feeling the other person's love is fatal to you. If something is wrong with the other person, you will want to run away. At the same time, I also care about the attitude of the other party.

    Because most men choose the cold war without saying a word after they quarrel. Sensitive people are most afraid of the Cold War. The person you are arguing with, because he gives you enough time to think about the value of the relationship.

    Think about whether you're overdoing it. Until the end, I wondered if I didn't deserve to be loved. Or you don't deserve to love others.

    As a result of thinking like this, I became more and more inferior. I'm getting less and less confident in myself. There is also no confidence in the other party.

    I didn't dare to continue my relationship with two people anymore. So I decided to run away. Parting is the best way to escape.

    So you want to break up as soon as you quarrel.

Related questions
23 answers2024-02-08

In fact, you are already a habit in his life, but he is not willing to live with someone like you for the rest of his life, and at the same time, he has no new love to start, only to find you to vent!

19 answers2024-02-08

Because since you choose to be together, you must love each other, and you can't erase your feelings with a breakup, so you want him to explain that you show that you have given him your feelings.

29 answers2024-02-08

It's okay to quarrel, don't cold war.

My wife and I have been arguing for a year and a half (of course, she apologized to me). >>>More

7 answers2024-02-08

The man was all written, like a professional writer, and I'll tell you a hundred ways to do it. Use red potion, which is easy to buy in pharmacies, smear the wound with red potion, and dry it up, don't get any more water, and heal in about a week.

17 answers2024-02-08

There must be a lot of noise when you are together. As a man, he is born to be a woman. It's not noisy, it's not noisy, although it can be said that the girlfriend has a mature idea. But after a long time, it gives you the feeling that she doesn't care or doesn't care, just like you yourself said.