How I drove my parents to the point of being quiet

Defection does not take into account the feelings and worries of parents.

It was an unspeakable pain.

As children, no one can afford their parents to grovel and beg in front of others.

Everyone has their own special circumstances, and my principle is to prohibit all criticism, to prohibit all empirical preaching. Because you haven't walked other people's paths, you don't understand other people's mentality, and you don't have the right to speak.

But what is certain is that they want to try to get out of that poverty situation and live a decent life. If you can be a little more self-capable and develop better in the future, it is understandable.

According to the article, it can't be completely seen that the two people are not filial, do you dare to guarantee that you haven't done a little scum to your parents? I hope that parents and children can have a better way of communication, and parents can give timely care in the face of various changes in mentality.

Then you are really amazing, enough scum, you know that it has become even worse, you are ruthless and you are light, you should ask yourself to think about it, do your parents owe you or,

I'm afraid you won't be able to find a job! So help you find it, arrange you properly, I didn't expect you to like to go, try it first, and then plan how to change the environment later.

Will think a little! Friend! They are for your good! I want you to learn some survival skills or earn money! If you are not happy with that factory, you can find another factory and job you like!!

You can find a factory to work in by yourself.

That's not true. They want you to learn a trade.

1. First of all, there is a problem with your parents' education methods, and they will scold their children for "waste" and violence at worst, which is extremely detrimental to your own growth. Once a child's self-esteem is destroyed, he will have an inferiority complex and a rebellious psychology towards learning. Encourage your children more, believe that your children are the best, and often give your children a positive learning attitude, so that children do not have the psychology of boredom in school, so that children can slowly improve their abilities.

2. In this society, reading is not the only way to change life, having knowledge is not the same as being cultivated, and not learning well certainly does not mean that there is no IQ. From your question, it can be seen that your academic performance is regrettable due to the way of education, but this does not prove that you are worthless, having a healthy body is the most important thing, and having a hard-working character is the mother of success.

3. Don't be harsh on your parents, it may be that they carry too much on their own lives, so they put too many expectations on you as a minor. It can be seen that you still maintain an optimistic attitude, which is very important, although you come out to work too early, but the grinding of society can still cultivate a person, I believe that you can change your parents' views through your own efforts, I wish you well!

Objectively speaking, the background is given by them, and the class is also given by them, and the more progressive a society is, the more serious the state of class solidification! You can blame them, you can vent, but you have to have a bottom line, after all, you have to know that this is the difference that culture makes, so it's not right to call you rubbish! But learning is a must, and no one likes hard education, but I have to be brave enough to persevere, and when you cross over hard education, you choose to learn.

There are two kinds of people in the world, one is depressed under pressure. One grows in scolding. I hope you're the latter. When you start a family, you may understand your parents' intentions, and you can learn from the experience and lessons to educate the next generation patiently.

The love is deep, and the responsibility is keen. Don't blame them, the starting point is good, it's just the wrong approach.

First of all, calm down, start from the basics, and think about what parents will get by doing this. Is it just venting, because you are not successful, they have no face? Maybe you don't agree with the approach, but the age distance of more than 20 years is indelible, and the conflict of views is certain, and they can't be changed, so you can only change it, and you can reconcile the relationship between the two generations.

I won't let my parents apologize in a low voice, can you stand it? Actually, you all have the same purpose, take a step back and think about it, maybe you will understand. is young and vigorous, and it is also the easiest thing to regret.

Think a lot.

They want you to be successful, but you should not use it in the wrong way.

Therefore, people can only rely on themselves and take advantage of others.

Don't listen to these nonsense, they don't understand at all, and they still hate iron and steel? Your parents don't have this concept at all, what they think is why are you so stupid, so stupid, you don't have the ability, it's better not to give birth to you, if you want to prove your worth, just do a good job, don't rely on them, naturally there will be a day when they are afraid Remember, parents have more children, and they can't even remember the names of their children, and there is nothing to complain about.

Hello, your experience is similar to mine, I think you can ignore them and make a plan for yourself, be a better version of yourself, and be a cultured person.

You can't blame your parents, they want their son to become a dragon, but you are the result today.

The road in the future depends on your own efforts, start again, and be a self-motivated and successful man.

The road to success is very apprehensive, and you set your own goals for each year!

If it's because it's your fault if it's not working hard, if it's because it's not smart enough, it's their fault.

Some time ago, chatting with a friend, he accompanied a younger brother on a trip in Hokkaido.

I asked him if he was having fun. He told me that he and his brother were not all the way, so the journey was not very pleasant.

He told me in detail that my brother was pestering his parents to go to Japan to play, and his mother was not at ease, so he invited my friend to follow my brother over.

His younger brother is not from a wealthy family, and he has just entered college and has no ability to make money on his own, but he has the ability to spend money. Let's take a small thing, the price in Japan is very expensive, and a piece of cantaloupe costs about 30 yuan.

A friend asked me, "Can you agree that a child who can't earn money yet, who doesn't blink at home, who doesn't blink just because he's thirsty, refuses to buy water, but eats three slices of cantaloupe in one go?" ”

This kid reminds me of a very impressive sentence: your parents are still in trouble, but you are showing off poetry and distance.

There are a lot of people like this around me.