What is the importance of being a groomsman, and what is the importance of being a best man?

First of all, the unmarried man cannot be better looking or taller than the groom.

It's best to wear a suit.

When the best man is exquisite:

1. Don't look for a man who is married or has a big family event.

The best man needs to find an unmarried man, so married men are excluded first, and it is not recommended to be the best man if there is a recent happy event in the family, which will collide with the marriage of the newlyweds and have an impact on the newlyweds' marriage.

2. The best man should have the vision to take the initiative to help.

The role of the best man in the wedding is very important, after all, it is a wedding once in a lifetime for good brothers, so it is best for everyone to have an eye to see a little, take the initiative to take the initiative when no one does the work, help your good brother solve problems, and actively coordinate on the spot, so that it is the best man in the real sense.

3. The best man should master the scale and grasp the demeanor.

Now the phenomenon of groomsmen harassing bridesmaids is repeatedly prohibited, and this custom will inevitably discredit the wedding scene, so everyone needs to grasp the scale at all times, pay attention to gentlemanly demeanor throughout the process, and don't do impolite things because they are happy, these behaviors are not beneficial to the wedding scene.

The best man should always be mindful of his words and deeds and accompany the groom after the ceremony.

1.You need to be familiar with the wedding process, and it is best to ask the couple to find a wedding company to ask for a copy of the flow chart yourself.

2.Leave the contact person of the bride's house** to arrange the departure time of the groom's motorcade and the time of arrival at the bride's house, and ensure that someone will greet you when you arrive downstairs at the bride's house, and the cameraman will be in place.

3.Leave the person in charge of the wedding site of the wedding company** or the host**, so as to arrange for the guests to be greeted when the couple arrives at the wedding site, and the cameraman will be in place in advance.

4.The groom basically has no tasks at the wedding scene, holding the ring pillow, handing the candle gun, holding the wine glass, and holding the bouquet of flowers, which are generally the work of the bridesmaids.

5.After the ceremony, he accompanied the groom to help keep the wine away. When the groom toasts, the best man should hold a plate with wine, a pair of wine glasses, candy, cigarettes, matches, and a lighter.

Precautions.

1. The best man reminds the couple not to forget the ring, or keeps the ring for the couple and ensures that it is handed over to the designated person by the stage before the ceremony.

2. If the bride and groom are going to hire a professional wedding planner, it doesn't matter whether the groomsmen and bridesmaids have experience or not. In addition to arranging the trivial matters of the wedding, the wedding planner will also guide and remind the groomsmen and bridesmaids of their work, position and etiquette during the ceremony, and even arrange for the bridesmaids and groomsmen to perform some of the duties of the bridesmaids and groomsmen.

3. Toast. The best man is responsible for the toast at the wedding reception. A toast is one of the elements that enliven the atmosphere of a wedding reception, and the basic content of a traditional toast is:

Introduce what kind of person the groom was before he met the bride, the emotional things the groom experienced, and make some timely jokes. A short description of the groomsman and groom and relationship. Finally, a blessing for the newlyweds.

Sometimes the bridesmaids will take care of the red envelopes, so please prepare a delicate but large enough handbag in advance and give it to the couple's designated treasurer or parents before the ceremony begins, so that they can keep it.

Remind the couple not to forget the ring, or keep the ring for the couple and make sure it is given to someone named at the stage before the ceremony.

Holding the ring pillow, whether it is the best man or the bridesmaid to take on this job, you must remember to pay attention to your position, so as not to become the "third party" in the **, and then there is the gloves that help the bride pick up the bouquet and take off. If it is a flower girl with a ring pillow, ask the bridesmaids to take good care of him or her.

The groomsmen and bridesmaids pass on the couple's voice on the wedding day. Don't hesitate to find the relevant staff in time to help the newcomer convey his or her wishes to them, so that professionals can provide services to the newcomer. Don't call the shots.

When the best man is exquisite:

1. Don't look for a man who is married or has a big family event.

The best man needs to find an unmarried man, so the married man is excluded first, and it is not recommended to be the best man if there is a recent happy event in the family, which will collide with the marriage of the newlyweds and have an impact on the marriage of the newlyweds.

2. The best man should have the vision to take the initiative to help.

The role of the best man in the wedding is very important, after all, it is a wedding once in a lifetime for good brothers, so it is best for everyone to have an eye to see a little, take the initiative to take the initiative when no one does the work, help your good brother solve problems, and actively coordinate on the spot, so that it is the best man in the real sense.

3. The best man should master the scale and grasp the demeanor.

Now the phenomenon of the best man harassing the bridesmaids has been repeatedly prohibited, and this custom will inevitably discredit the wedding scene, so everyone needs to grasp the scale at all times, guess the first to pay attention to gentlemanly demeanor throughout the process, and don't do impolite things because of happiness, these behaviors will not do any good to the wedding scene.

Duties of the best man:

1. Wedding day: On the wedding day, the task of Yoshiro Mori is to tell the groom and the bride's relatives, friends and parents that the groom is such an excellent young man, not only a good friend, a good son, and a good student. It's best to have both emotional memories and jokes about the past.

2. Opening: The first thing is a brief introduction, telling the guests how long the best man and the groom have known each other, how much the best man knows, and the best man should let everyone hear that the friendship is yes, and let the groom choose the best man as the best man. If you were friends as children, tell more about that time so that people know the depth of the friendship between the best man and the groom.

3. Frolic: Once the best man explains that the best man is the groom's best friend, the best man can take the opportunity to engage in some humor, dress up and tell the story of the best man and his friends. The short story should be short and funny, reflecting the affectionate friendship between the best man and the friend from start to finish.

For the older generation, the number of times you should be the best man should not be too much, preferably no more than three times. Because there is a saying among the people, when there are too many groomsmen or bridesmaids, women will not be able to marry, and men will not be able to marry wives. In fact, this is just a folk saying, don't be too entangled, it is a very beautiful thing to be able to help your good friends bless their marriage.

1. Number of people. The number of groomsmen should be equal to the number of bridesmaids. There are no special rules for choosing a groomsman, and the groom can choose the best man from his cousins, colleagues, and old classmates.

However, as a matter of convention, although there is no set number of groomsmen, the number of groomsmen and bridesmaids should be consistent.

2. Be responsible. Only a good buddy with a sense of responsibility can be the best man. At a wedding, it is difficult for the bride and groom to juggle everything, just as the bride has a think tank of her girlfriends, the groom should also have a group of brothers and groomsmen who are ready to solve problems for themselves.

Therefore, the lower standard for choosing the best man is not to annoy the groom, although it can't help, but at least it won't cause trouble for the groom. If the groom knows that the buddy is prone to mistakes when he gets drunk, and insists on inviting him to be the best man, it can only be said that he is asking for trouble.

3. Be active. If the groom's brother is active, he is a good candidate to be the best man. At least the groom can talk to the groomsmen, and the best man can come forward when the groom is nervous, or the wedding atmosphere is not enough, to liven up the atmosphere.

When the best man is exquisite, he needs to be unmarried, there is no red and white affairs at home, he can't dress too handsome, he can speak well, he acts in a low-key manner, he has sufficient physical strength, he is careful and cautious, he is a gentleman and polite, he has a good eye, and he has a good grasp of the scale

1. Unmarried is required.

The best man needs an unmarried man, that is, a man who has not yet been married.

2. There is no red and white thing at home.

The best man does not have any affairs at home during the groom's wedding, so such relatives and friends can invite him to be the best man.

3. Don't dress up too handsome.

Remember not to dress up too handsome, including the bridesmaids, you can't dress up too beautifully, otherwise others can't tell which is the groom and which is the bride.

4. Be able to speak well.

At weddings, the best man has to greet the guests with the couple and needs to say some polite words. Therefore, as a best man, he should be able to speak well, which can heat up the atmosphere of the scene.

5. Keep a low profile.

The protagonists of the wedding are the groom and the bride, and the best man must not steal the limelight, so he should keep a low profile. Do your own things well, give the groom things that are in the limelight, and hide your strength appropriately.

6. Sufficient physical strength.

When picking up the bride, the groomsmen have to help the groom through the level, and there are likely to be some physically demanding games. The groom needs to conserve his stamina, so the groomsmen have to help through the level, so the stamina must be sufficient.

7. Be careful and cautious.

The best man needs to help the groom keep important belongings such as rings, red envelopes, and mobile phones, so be sure to choose someone who is careful and cautious. Weddings are already chaotic, and it's not good to lose them.

8. Gentlemanly courtesy.

The best man represents the groom, behaves politely and behaves as a gentleman. The best man also has to open the door for the newlyweds and serve the newlyweds intimately. When you encounter some disputes, you can't argue loudly, and you have to deal with them properly.

9. Have eyesight.

The role of the best man in the wedding is very important, after all, it is a wedding ceremony once in a lifetime for good brothers, so it is best for everyone to have an eye to see a little, take the initiative to take the initiative when no one does the work, help your good brother solve problems, and actively coordinate on the spot, so that it is the best man in the real sense.

10. Master the scale.

Now the phenomenon of groomsmen harassing bridesmaids is repeatedly prohibited, and this custom will inevitably discredit the wedding scene, so everyone needs to grasp the scale at all times, pay attention to gentlemanly demeanor throughout the process, and don't do impolite things because they are happy, these behaviors are not beneficial to the wedding scene.