Excuse me: Do you choose to be with people who like you or people you like to be together

Updated on psychology 2024-02-08
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If the person you like also likes you, of course, choose the former, how good it is to be happy with each other.

    And you can try to socialize with guys who like you and cultivate affection.

    Over time, maybe he will influence you, so that you can be happy.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The happiest thing in life is to have the right to fall in love, whether it is in love or entering the palace of marriage, follow your feelings, even if you can't be together in the future, you will not have regrets. Because I did what I wanted to do, I loved the person I thought I should love. Personal opinion, for informational purposes only.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I will choose people who like me and I like to be with. That's how you can be happy.

    Love is consensual, and one-sided liking is not true love.

    The person I fell in love with didn't love me, so why should I be in love? I don't love the person I married, so why should I get married?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It depends on what you want.

    Also, many people will choose to like their own.

    Because in this way, I will be happy and comfortable.

    But I thought, if we can really be together.

    I'll pick what I like.

    With him I will be happy, happy.

    I will also do my best to bring him happiness.

    That's enough.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I chose what I liked, there were joys and sorrows, and I really became very emotional because of him, and now, I don't dare to send messages or disturb him, for fear that he will hate me.

    And now I really want to find someone who likes me and makes me feel warm.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I like people who love me, but it's better to be happy with each other so that it won't be very tiring.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    When I fall in love, I choose the one I love, and when I get married, I choose to love me.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You like it, feel tired.

    Like yours and feel warm.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Is it true that I can't find someone I love and love me at the same time? Is this the relationship between fish and bear's paw?

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I want to choose the person I like, but it's obvious that she doesn't like me, and for the person who likes herself, we also don't have feelings for her, and finally emphasize, anyway, both options make us unhappy, so it's better to let us change to someone we like, so that a miracle will happen.

    Loving someone who doesn't love you can be tiring and a very unfair situation. He doesn't care about your contribution at all, on the contrary, a person who loves you will care about you everywhere, don't say anything that you don't feel for him, there is no love. Eventually, you will understand that the so-called love is really ethereal and illusory, and slowly you will know what life is.

    The so-called love will become extremely fragile in the face of real life, in the case of a person who is very good to you and thinks about you everywhere, as long as you don't hate him very much, and like him a little bit, then there will be a good life between you.

    Choose someone who likes me, so that you won't be too tired, like your person you have been in contact with him for a long time, and you will naturally slowly like each other, although it is said that you will be happy to find the most powerful person you like, but the more you like the person, the more you can't get it, and in turn the person who likes you is much easier, not too tired and too hard.

    If you have to choose, I choose someone who likes me, as long as I don't particularly hate him, as long as he looks pleasing to the eye, his appearance and economy are not too bad, it's OK, finding someone who loves him or her is happier than finding someone you love him (her), at least it won't hurt or be sad, and when you slowly fall in love with him, that's happiness.

    If you find someone you like him, and he is cold to you, so that your suffering will be suffered, don't bet your youth on tomorrow, do you want to be so tired every day?

    The perfect ending is to find someone who loves you and you to spend time with, now see if you can turn one party into a person who both loves you through time and your own efforts, if you can, then of course it's best, if you can't, give up, don't leave the pain for later. If it's the latter, give yourself some more time. Go find the right person.

    You may think that it is cruel to refuse to love, but long pain is better than short pain. And if the person you love will not fall in love with you, with him, you will be very miserable in the future.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I will choose someone who likes me, because liking someone is too exhausting and will cause me to suffer a lot of grievances.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I will choose someone who likes me, in the relationship between two people, I am the one who is taken care of, and I will slowly like each other.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I will choose people who like me, because there is a good chance that someone I like will not like me, and then if I make an effort, I may be hurt, then someone who likes me, I can try to accept him, and then we may become like each other. I choose the one that is less likely to be hurt.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I will choose someone who likes me because he will take care of me in every way. And they also care about my emotions and make me feel loved.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If I get married, I will choose someone who likes me. If you're in a relationship, you'll choose someone I like.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If I had a choice, I would choose to be with someone I like.

    Carefully scrutinizing the topic, we can confirm that this relationship is not just wishful thinking, but two feelings are happy, but the weight of the two people's feelings for each other is different. Personally, I think that we can take the initiative in the things that people are looking for, such as work, wealth, knowledge, status, but the difference is that it takes people to acquire them. And the relationship is different, even if you are very good, sometimes throughout your life, you may not be able to find the person you love deeply.

    The reason for choosing the person I like more is: first, I like the other person, it is my own business, then I am willing to give everything I can to be good to you. For me, love is not an exchange, and you don't need anything in return.

    Because you are the person I like, I am willing to pay for you, just because you are the person I care about.

    Secondly, because I like you, then I am willing to be better for you. From the outside, I am willing to learn skin care & makeup & dressing, keeping in shape, and paying attention to good manners. Internally, I will work hard, and at the same time, through reading, traveling, watching movies, etc., I will improve my life experience and broaden my horizons and pattern.

    Make yourself better and better, and also give you a better and better partner.

    Thirdly, for me, love is a very precious gift from God, and it is very sacred and precious in my heart. If the other person is someone I like very much, then every day of my life is full of joy, happiness, and blessings. This will make me more empowered and more excited about life, so I will be more motivated and energetic to live each day better.

    So, I will firmly choose who I like more.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's better to like each other, and if it's an ex-girlfriend, it may be dependent. And for several years, it may be really liked.

    Whether you are a boy or a girl, you still have to choose the one who loves you! If you are a boy, choose a girl who loves you, she can take care of your family and your life chores, and you can work hard for your career wholeheartedly, after all, a man's career is more important! If you are a girl, you must choose a man who loves herself, a woman's youth cannot be wasted, if a man does not love you at the beginning, can you still expect to fall in love with you in your old days?

    So, whether you are a boy or a girl, for your own good, choose someone who loves you!

    If you are 26 years old, you will choose the person you love before, and you will choose the person who likes you later. With different ages and different moods, you may slowly know that life is not only about the present, but also about the future.

    Someone who likes you, of course.

    People who like me! If only I don't particularly hate her!

    It's really not easy to have someone who really loves you in today's society!

    The person you like, she doesn't like you, what's the use of how hard you try?

    In the end, you lose more than just the people, time, and energy that love you!

    When I was a child, I would choose what I liked, when I was older, I would choose what I liked, and when I was old, I found that men were the same, so I still chose what I liked.

    Is it more likely that someone you like will be with you? Ask? If there are many possibilities, you must be with her. Do you like the girl who is kind to you and cold?

    Give me some bounty. Hee-hee, for the person you like, if you don't have to be persistent, then choose the former. If the former you also like it a little.

    Life is so long, choose someone you like to spend the rest of your life with without regrets coming to this world.

    Choose what you love, because even if he doesn't love you, at least you have fought for it, and you won't regret it in the future. If you choose to love you, I think even if he loves you more, but by the time you fall in love with him, he may no longer love you.

    The person you like is preferred ...

    If the person you like likes also likes you, then you will be the happiest person in the world.

    If you like people who don't like you, then you can only let him (her) like you, if you can't do it, you can only let go, because there is no happiness in reluctance.

    The person who likes you is the second choice, because he likes you, so he (she) will be good to you wholeheartedly, if you can live with him (her), then you are also a very happy person.

    Sometimes it's happier to choose someone who likes you than someone you like, but the other person doesn't like you...

    But my personal opinion is different ... See for yourself ...

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