After the breakup, he asked me how I was doing

First of all, why did you break up? Is it you or he who brought up the breakup? Was your breakup a trick between lovers or was it really so weak that you had to separate?

Does he still have you in his heart? You have to figure out these issues and see if there is any room for redemption between you. If he is in a bad situation and you are in a difficult situation now, does his concern mean that the remaining feelings are still unresolved?

Or do I feel sorry for you? Or maybe you just take the shoes of a friend and care about your situation, after all, you have loved each other. But he didn't ask you how you were doing, but everyone!

He's talking about everyone, you're just one of the dispensables! If you don't want to show vulnerability and affection for him in front of him, don't tell him that you are terrible now, and tell him lightly that you are still doing well without him. Otherwise, he will be proud and think that you can't do anything without him.

It's all up to you to decide, what is the nature of your breakup, you must figure it out, you also have to understand what he thinks, know yourself and know the other, and then decide, thinking about him is inevitable, indicating that you still have him in your heart, time may wear out everything, I hope you can happily continue to pursue your happiness!

Generally, after a breakup, you will want to look back, this is normal, who was not just playing casually, you held hands, it means that you have really loved him, and he really loves you.

It is not easy for two people to get together, it takes great tolerance to achieve, we don't understand anything at the age of youth and ignorance, and only after losing do we understand how lonely we are.

Do you regret breaking up? Miss him?

He texted to say that he was thinking about you, that he wanted to be able to do it all over again, and that you would be better than before. If you don't text him back, he will be very sad and will ask about you for a long time, which is just an excuse to approach you. He knows through a friend's channel that you are sick, and if you tell him that you are okay at this time, then he will think that you have become disheartened with him and will not hold on anymore.

If you reply to him, "It's okay, it's just a little cold, but it's going to get better soon."

Although he had no emotion, he could see the hope behind the words.

If you don't want to reconcile, then tell him that you are very good, ask him not to worry, or not to text back. If you want to reconcile, then just treat him as a good friend. Your mind is expanding with him, and his text message is just trying to test your mood.

Finally, I still want to tell you that it is best to reconcile if you can reconcile, but let him remember it for a long time, because two people have held hands, and no one will really forget each other. I wish you all happiness.

You just want to talk to someone!

In fact, I understand that you need comfort right now!

But. He's broken up with you! It doesn't matter who mentioned it!

This one doesn't matter!

If you really miss him: just tell him that you are doing well and happy!

Don't let him pity you!

Just show him the best of yourself!

So you have to regain your self-esteem!

Let's just say it's okay. Don't say it's good. Maybe he regretted breaking up too.

If you want to tell him, why do you have to hide your inner thoughts?

To say good! Thank you for your concern.

You say, okay, I know, don't worry, I'll be fine. We're still good friends, aren't we? He will understand you.

You should also be good, don't be sad. I'm sure you'll meet someone who loves you more than I do. He will understand your heart, and you have to believe in Him, in yourself, in your feelings, in His love for you.

If he really wants to break up with you, then it's useless for you to keep it, if it's angry, then it depends on whether he really wants to break up with you, if it's angry, then coax him and let him get angry, if he really wants to break up, you don't have to save it, because there is no relationship between you, no matter how much you keep it, it won't be useful, so you don't want to be entangled anymore, let it be, you don't think about him anymore, because it's not good for you, if you really want to save this relationship, Then you can take the initiative to find him, tell him that there is still a possibility between you, see what he means, if he still loves you, then he will definitely be soft-hearted, if there is no possibility between you, then you don't need to entangle anymore, because it is not good for you.

1.Greet ordinary friends like you, showing your generosity and calmness. How sweet it is when you are in love, and how sad it is when you break up.

The relationship ended in failure, and most of the time the two people who broke up were so noisy that they blushed and had thick necks, and they hoped never to see each other. In fact, love is a sensual existence, and it is normal for people to lose their minds and quarrel excessively when they are in love. Now that the relationship with his ex-boyfriend has ended, he can deal with it calmly when he meets again, and greet him like an ordinary friend, so that he seems to be generous and calm.

2.Show generosity and calmness, how to say the first sentence. First of all, don't be weak when you meet your ex-boyfriend, you should take the initiative to meet him.

The more timid you are, the more you seem to be weak and not calm enough. Take the initiative to find your ex-boyfriend, and then tell him that it's been a long time, don't come to harm. Such words are very plain, but they are calm and unhurried, making you graceful.

Almost every woman doesn't want to make a bad impression in the minds of her ex-boyfriend after a breakup. Then, when talking to your ex-boyfriend, you should show your excellent side so that he can impress you.

3.Talk to him like a loved one and make him more relaxed. When you are in love, the relationship between two people will be very close, but when you break up, the relationship between two people will become very strained.

There are many reasons for a breakup between couples, and sometimes it is not that two people quarrel or the relationship is not deep enough, but pressure from the outside world that makes two people forced to break up. Most of these couples have deep and stable relationships, and even if they break up, they still have no feelings for each other. If this is the kind of meeting of an ex, then the first thing you say can be a greeting like a loved one.

4.How to talk to your ex-boyfriend and let him relax. Since it is a relative-like existence, then, what you say should make him feel relaxed enough, and he will not feel depressed, let alone stressed.

You can ask him bluntly, how are you doing? Such greetings are very common, but they are full of affection and the warmth of a loved one. Only people who really care about you care about you will care if you're doing well.

Your ex-boyfriend isn't a scary creature, and if you want to have a smooth conversation with him, you should figure out your current relationship with him before you speak.

In fact, it is difficult to have a unified answer to this kind of thing, mainly depending on how two people do when they break up?

Tear your face when you break up, and the other party contacts you after the breakup.

Personally, I don't think there is any need to deal with the other party in this situation, everyone has torn their faces, and the other party will contact you, if it is not a very urgent matter, it will never do this, so it can only be asked for you.

The two of them have nothing to do with each other, the other party has a request for you and looks very thick-skinned, it's definitely not a good thing, I don't think there is any need to have too much entanglement with the other party, you can block and delete it or ignore it, you must ask the other party, ask him, who is he to go back.

When they broke up, the two said they would be friends

After the breakup, the other party contacts you again, at this time you have to be generous and communicate with the other party as a friend.

Don't bring up the past, ask the other person what is going on, or if the other person simply wants to chat with you, just chat with him, really treat him as your friend.

Since two people have been together and know each other's personalities better, then he will probably come out and say his thoughts when he contacts you, if he just wants to talk to you, he can chat with each other if he has time, and if he doesn't have time or don't want to talk, he can also directly say to each other that two people have come to this point, so there is no need to twist and pinch and procrastinate, and express their true thoughts.

Two people broke up angrily, the embarrassing kind.

After the breakup, the other party contacts you, in fact, this way of breaking up is likely to be impulsive, not really want to break, not your truest expression of meaning, or have attachment to each other, then at this time the other party can contact you to speak tactfully, don't be angry.

In this case, two people are likely to get back together, so talk to each other calmly, figure out why the other party is contacting you, if you still have feelings for each other and the other party shows you that they still have thoughts about you, in fact, two people can get back together, and try not to be emotional when talking.

After the breakup, the other party contacts you and can make different things according to the actual situation. If you have the desire to get back together, then you can be more cordial. If you feel that the other party is not suitable, then the attitude must be resolute, and you can be cold and blunt.

Ask how you are doing, find yourself what is going on, and avoid unnecessary emotional topics.

After the breakup, you go and ask him, do you regret it now, he said that he doesn't know because he doesn't want to be positive, his heart may also be confused, maybe he doesn't like you so much.

When a man says this to you, it means that he still loves you in his heart:

1. Can we still be good friends? Many people think that it is impossible to be friends after a breakup, either they are deeply in love or they have never loved each other. Generally, after a man breaks up ruthlessly, without a trace of love, he will break off with a woman cleanly, and will not think about being friends after the breakup.

After a breakup, when a man says to you, "Can we still be friends" to test you, he means that even if you are not together for a while, he wants to care about you, chat with you and date, and he still loves you in his heart.

2. Just look for me if you have something. If a man is completely out of love, he will be very ruthless and will not break off the connection with the woman, although the woman may help when she finds herself, but he will not say the words "find me if you have something" to the woman. After the breakup, when a man can't rest assured of you, thinks you're stupid and stupid, and is afraid that you won't do things well, and says to you, "Just look for me if you have something", then he still loves you in his heart.