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1. How to talk to others skillfully.
When you're talking to someone, choose the topic they're most interested in. What topics are they most interested in? It's themselves!
Take these words out of your dictionary – "I, myself, mine". Replace it with another word, one of the most powerful words in human language – "you". It doesn't matter if you're interested in the conversation or not, what matters is whether your audience is interested in the conversation.
When you talk to someone, talk about them and lead them to talk about themselves. This way you can become a popular conversation partner.
2. Understand people and human nature.
The first step to improving interpersonal communication and mastering successful interpersonal skills is to understand people and human nature, which can be simply summarized as "identifying with people according to their essence" and "putting yourself in people's shoes", rather than looking at others through your own eyes, let alone imposing your will on others. People are first and foremost interested in themselves, not you! In other words, a person who pays attention to himself is better than you ten thousand times.
Recognizing that "people care about themselves first, not you" is the key to life.
3. How to subtly make others feel important.
One of the most universal characteristics of human beings is the desire to be recognized, to be understood. Are you willing to thrive in your relationships? So, try to make others aware of your importance. Remember, the more you make others feel important, the more others will reward you.
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With a pious heart.
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In fact, it is not difficult for people to communicate with God. As long as the heart is sincere.
The form in which words can be paid homage to God is chanting. Chanting consists of two parts: chanting and chanting. The role of chanting is:
Chant the gods. True immortal treasure zirconium to show the pious heart of reverence and godliness.
Worship the gods, true immortals, to prolong life and security, and die in the super-yin.
Through chanting, in order to enlighten the scriptures, maintain the harmony of the Yuan, and help the Tao.
Therefore, Taoist chanting has certain etiquette and strict regulations, such as chanting in the upper hall, using bells and drums as trumpets, and burning incense and worshipping before the opening of the scriptures. Taoist priests are required to fast physically and mentally, dress neatly, and speak in unison, and must not talk to each other, and miss inattentively.
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It's impossible for all sentient beings, and I have to fight them to the end.
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This is innate, some are false gods, there is only one true god, it is a woman, there are some people who can communicate with false gods, but they don't say, if there is a person in your life who behaves strangely, he may be this kind of person, give him three pieces, the meaning of the meaning, you can apprentice.
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Have you ever heard of Wang Shouren Gezhu? Grid it.
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Pray, read the Bible, sing hymns, meditate. There are many ways.
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