When I was a freshman in high school, I suddenly felt depressed and asked for help

To join a circle is to let go of yourself.

If you try to clench your hands into fists and hit them hard, it hurts, right?

Then you try to let go of a pair of hands, a fist and a cloth.

It doesn't hurt that much, does it?

Why? Because if both of you close yourself with your fists clenched, you're going to hurt each other.

If a person is honest and lets go of himself, accepts his friends around him in a friendly way, and integrates into the group amicably, then he will not get pain.

If both of them let go of themselves, do not close themselves, like two pairs of open hands, then they will get applause.

Integrating into a group is friendly and brave to try.

Don't seek a solution in words, what I say can be treated as a good word or as a bunch of nonsense, the real thing is that you have to be brave.

You may be subjected to bad words and cynicism, which are all self-preservation of people in a strange group, a normal reflection, not too serious.

I hope you can gain a sincere friendship and don't miss out on lifelong friends.

Superficial, must be pure hand. 】

Use the experience of someone who has come before to tell you what to do in high school life.

1. Don't fall in love, a group of men in our class pursued a girl, forming an ethnic group. As a result, all of these men didn't get into college. The girl who was chased went to a university in Guangzhou, and now she is a person with an annual salary of 100,000 yuan, a car, a house, a husband and children.

Which chased her back then. There is a second year of continued intrigue. There are those who will be strangers in the future.

Don't give up studying for the sake of a man. Later, I will fall in love again in college.

2, as long as you don't fall in love, you can find two or three classmates who can talk together. Usually we have nothing to do and chat together, but we can study together again. It's also good to develop an interest in learning together.

Networking doesn't waste much time unless you indulge in relationships. Zhiyong is mostly trapped in drowning. You have to keep this in mind.

3. Don't put too much pressure on yourself in the first year of high school. The main key to getting into college is the second and third years of high school. The key to the key is the senior year of high school. As long as you are smart and willing to learn. You'll have a good time when you get to college.

Said a lot very wordy, I hope it helps you. Have fun.

In fact, there is no need to deliberately be good with whom and who is not, everything is natural. High school is a turning point in life, so as a person who has come over, I think I still need to pay attention to it; Secondly, everyone has to be competitive, as long as you are down-to-earth and do your best, you will be worthy of the people who care about you; Friends are what everyone needs, because no one can stand the feeling of loneliness, but a dead friend will appear when you need it most, not to say that you are forced to be good with her, so you can only be called a playmate, not a dead friend; Finally, a friendly reminder: don't talk about any so-called love when you feel empty, then you can only hurt yourself.

FYI.

Actually, I'm a sophomore in high school.

Well, I used to feel the same way as you.

Because after all, the environment is different, once you get into the focus, you will find that your results may not be as ideal as you expected. The gap may be significant.

At this time, you must not give up. It doesn't matter if you find yourself a goal. (Specifically, in your own situation), the point is to take the class seriously.

As for making friends, face everyone with a sincere heart first, don't care about returns, you will definitely make many friends. Choose a few of them that can be discussed, and the habits of life and study can be combined. (I've experienced this for a lifetime.)

It's important to remember if you feel that there is a gap between your friends and you can't make up for it.

Then leave, and focus on your studies. After all, time is gone!!

Of course, these are my personal opinions. (Hee-hee.)

It's up to you. However, the decline in high school girls' grades is not necessarily!

In fact, the best friendships generally come from junior high school. Because we were the most innocent at that time. In high school, my personality will become more and more obvious.

In fact, it is estimated that it is difficult for you to make friends in high school. Like some of my friends, they can only be considered playmates. If you want to study hard, don't worry about anything else.

Although you are only in your first year of high school, the college entrance examination seems to be more important. You have to know that after graduation, friendship is a floating cloud.

I want to make good friends.

First of all, you have to be sincere to others.

You are sincere to others.

Sooner or later, others will find out what is good about you.

I want to make a friend to my friends.

It's not very easy.

It depends on fate, only like-minded people will become real friends, and you are not necessarily in that circle, and it is better to meet people who are like-minded with you, or go with the flow.

I'm in my second year of high school now, and I haven't met a real friend, maybe it's because of values, they always like to talk about celebrities, gossip, idol dramas, I don't like celebrities, so I pay less attention to it, and I obviously feel that there is less common language, which is also because of different aspirations.

Hopefully, you'll meet someone in your new environment who shares your interests, and you have to deliberately approach certain people, and you're sincere to others, and others will feel it.

At the beginning, I too, especially in the high 2 class may be more so, in fact, relax your mind, you can learn well with your normal heart, but it may be difficult to get to high school science, which is more to ask your classmates and teachers, and you will slowly integrate into the pull, if you will be reluctant to go to the high 2 class, cherish it.

Give and give is always.

proportional. Although you want to call the best friends.

But you won't put in the effort.

I always feel. It's a hassle and a waste of time.

I suggest you that.

Start with the people around you.

Take action. Get to know them a little more.

ideas. If you don't like waiting for someone.

But if you have to wait.

Don't you love to learn?

While waiting for someone. You can take a book.

That's a good solution.

The point is that you haven't integrated yet.

this environment. problems.

Hope my words are right for you. Useful.

Finding a dead friend also requires fate, and you can't panic. Moreover, there is nothing wrong with being alone.

A strong personality is not a bad thing, and successful women have a strong personality and charisma.

..Let it be, society is made up of many kinds of people, live well.

Heart, you have to learn to control it, not that he controls you.

Hello classmates, I tried to talk to you about the problem of studying, maybe it's not right, please correct.

The problem you are encountering now is the problem of learning methods, you did well in your original school, and you should be very relaxed, it is your learning methods that match your way of thinking, plus the praise of teachers, the envy of classmates, and you are also very confident.

Now that you're in high school, it's still a key high school, your classmates are new, the teachers are new, the curriculum is new, you should make adjustments in your learning methods, and you still use the old way, of course, your grades have also declined, and your self-confidence has been severely hit.

I used to study for a while, but I had very poor grades as long as I worked hard. I once failed an exam! I guess what's wrong?

After thinking about it for a few days, I understand! It turned out that I didn't understand the basic concept! I started from the first section of the textbook and made the basic concepts clear.

Later, I was at the top of the list again in this course.

The problem you are having now is a small problem, but if it is not solved in time, it will become a big problem. Adjust your approach to build confidence that you will get good results if you work hard.

<> other people are also worried, the point is that there is no real problem, just blind worry.

Be confident and get used to it slowly.

This uneasiness will gradually subside over time, and you will meet new friends in the new environment, become familiar with your classmates, and it is best to meet your former classmates or friends, and slowly expand your social circle.

High school can be a bit tiring. But if you master the scientific learning method, you can enjoy the joy in the ocean of learning! First:

Be confident. Many scientific studies have proved that human potential is great, but most people do not effectively develop this potential, among which human self-confidence is a very important aspect. Whatever you do, whenever and wherever you do, with this self-confidence, you have a belief that you will win, and it will enable you to quickly get rid of the shadow of failure.

On the contrary, if a person loses his self-confidence, then he will achieve nothing and can easily fall into eternal inferiority. Second: With scientific learning methods, you can achieve twice the result with half the effort in learning.

In terms of improving efficiency: there are learning links, learning attitudes, and learning methods. As long as you change your studies from now on, and you study hard, of course, it will be simple, and your grades will improve.

Everyone's foundation is different, and their learning attitude is different, so the methods to be adopted are also different. In order to learn well, you must find a learning method that suits you, and you must choose a suitable method according to your own characteristics. You can make progress.

The method of learning should be "a hundred schools of thought contending" and "a hundred flowers blooming". Third: the key to the exam is your mastery of the subject.

Basic disciplines account for 60, mid-range questions mainly test skill application accounts for 25%, and high-end questions account for 15%, which are mainly the examination of comprehensive ability and application ability, mainly to distinguish high-level students. Everyone is nervous about the exam, but don't be afraid, don't be nervous. Fourth:

The most important thing in high school is not to be too nervous. As long as you look at the score, otherwise you will be too nervous and you will not be able to review. 1.

A comprehensive review of the basics. 2.Analyze the existing problems in detail, and do a good job of reviewing the gaps.

3.Review in sections. Do the same in the differences, the same in the differences.

4.Thematic review. Cultivate comprehensive ability and expand your application ability.

I'm going crazy, I think of my brothers and sisters.