The confusion of remarriage, and the best way to do it if you regret remarriage

What are you kidding, you are weighing your selfishness everywhere This is not what a mother should think You can't be nice to your own child That's your own It's your own It's your hard work to conceive in October It's God who gave you So have you thought about your child's feelings The most wronged is her Then why should she suffer such a grievance She is no longer the same as other children What you should do is to love her with all your strength to make up for the injustice brought by your unsuccessful marriage Make up for the love she lacks.

And the other thing is that blood ties can't be broken, and legally they can't be broken, emotionally speaking, when the child grows up, she knows who her relatives are, and neither of you will give up on you or leave you, on the contrary, when you get old, she will be your sustenance, and if you continue to be cold to the child, the tragedy of your imagination will come true.

Do you know that cause and effect are planted by yourself, and if you are good to your child, your child will be good to you, and if you are bad to your child, he will be good to you, but she will also remember that you were not good to her.

I'm also a child of a single parent I lived with my mom My dad didn't have a sense of responsibility Later my parents divorced but he was still my dad When he was in trouble I hid it from my mom I helped him first I didn't want my mom to be angry Second, it was my dad Both of them are my relatives I have to take care of both of them I always think that it's his fault that he doesn't raise me and it's his fault that I don't raise him then it's my fault so I don't care whether he raises me or not.

This is the blood relationship, which can never be parted with at any time, and now my father regrets it, because in the end, she only has me, a daughter, and in the past 20 years, he has not verified my growth, and our memories are all stuck in childhood, and when we met, he didn't even recognize me, and when he saw me, he cried, I guess it was repentance.

The sea of bitterness is endless, and it is the shore when you look back, and people always start to remember and regret when they get old, and that kind of taste should be very bitter.

So you don't think so much, you have to take the child as your hope and tell her that she has a father and a mother, both of whom are her relatives, and both of them are the people who love her the most.

The reason why people suffer is because they pursue the wrong things, and when you really want to open it, you get everything.

If you are afraid that your marriage will fail, you will not remarry, since you remarry, it proves that you are still full of hope for marriage, be confident, and be yourself for your marriage, you will get a different harvest.

After the failure of the first marriage, many people will be more cautious in the second marriage. Many people will regret after remarriage, and if they find that they are not suitable for each other after their second marriage, in fact, both parties should think about managing their married life. So, what is the best thing to do if you regret remarrying?

If the remarried person has a disagreement between the three views, it is very painful for both parties, the soul cannot reach an agreement, and there is no tacit understanding in the mind, and the daily life is also very unpleasant and insecure. Especially after the previous marriage was hurt, they will become more timid, for fear of being hurt again, so they will choose to plan well in terms of material money, protect themselves, and become more cautious. They don't want to believe in feelings, so it will cause two people to become materialistic and their feelings will fade.

However, as an adult, you have to be responsible for the choices you make, and now that you are married again, you have to live a better life. It is not good for the other party to put the debt of the previous relationship this time, so in this marriage, the choice must be borne, and both parties have support for each other. The most important thing between husband and wife is to build trust, which is the cornerstone of a stable marriage.

The most important thing is to manage the marriage well, learn from experience, and exchange sincerity for sincerity. Therefore, if you regret remarrying, you must think carefully about it and make a good decision if you choose to continue or separate.

If you remarry, don't have any dealings with your ex, if you really can't help it, you can go to your ex with your current partner to solve some problems, and if you go to find it alone, the impact will not be too good.

After experiencing a marriage, each other should learn to cherish the current married life, so two people should love each other more, learn to face many problems in the second marriage, and learn to work together, and do not bring the problems in the previous marriage to this marriage.

Look forward, try not to recall the original life, don't mention your ex in front of your current side, since you are already going to live together, you have to learn to let go and live well with the current people if you have some reluctance in the past.

When remarrying, you should also be honest with each other financially, don't hide it, since they have both experienced a marriage, and now that the two have come together, you must achieve absolute trust and don't be suspicious.

Treat the children of both parties like their own children, don't be partial, sometimes remarry and have their own children, and now they come together, they may have more children of the other party, we must know that the children are innocent, so we must try to be fair to the children in life, and let the children feel happy.

Treat the parents of both sides, but also fulfill our filial piety, just like when we were original, since two people came together, we must learn to abandon the past life, live the present life well, take care of each other's parents, for couples, wait for the understanding and support of each other's parents, life together will be happier.

Learn to give each other some personal space, we are both in the second marriage, so some things may not be mentioned again, so we all have to know this, some things, the other party does not want to say, do not ask to the end, leave each other a space for independent thinking.

If the remarried couple can do it, life will get better and better, two people together is mutual respect, forbearance, understanding, and also wish the remarried couple a happy life forever.