Sequelae of love. What to do, what to do about the sequelae of broken love

Self-esteem was deeply stabbed.,It's a little depraved before.,Aren't you reflecting now?,But I think you must have suffered a lot of psychological pain.,There's still a shadow of it.,I'm afraid I don't dare to pursue girls easily.。 You don't meet many women like that, you can say for sure, brother, you are very unlucky, generally girls don't like a person will remain silent or refuse in a tactful way, which can only explain one reason, the quality of that girl is very low, whether it is an art school or Tsinghua University, no matter how high the education and knowledge are, it is not proportional to a person's cultivation. I can't rule out another possibility, that is, the pursuit techniques or methods you use are very extreme, which makes people feel extremely bored, and you have to learn more about dealing with people, which is also an art, hehe.

Suggest finding something you want to get outside of your relationship.

Find a new starting point.

This opportunity is that the time will come, and trying to find it will make you forget the pain.

For example: being admitted to graduate school makes that woman regret it for the rest of her life.

Or, find another one you like, and don't give up on yourself.

Otherwise, the woman will say, "It's good that I didn't become your girlfriend."

Then you really don't have anything, you don't even have dignity.

It's okay. High school students.

It's all a bit irrational.

It feels like you can't do it without feelings.

You're going to do something else.

Don't keep thinking that you don't have any relationship sequelae.

Don't give yourself such psychological cues.

It's not a big deal.

yes, I have it.

It's because the love didn't work out and was hit

The best way is to talk more and talk to people you know, only when you say it will you know how to slowly express the meaning of your words after you fall in love.

You'd better not be left alone during this time.

Because if you are alone, you can't say what you want to talk about, you can't say what you just thought, then you won't be able to express what you've just thought about, and you won't be able to get the right understanding.

After you talk a lot, you will find that what you say will be a little philosophical, and then you will overcome the so-called sequelae of love.

Don't worry, I was in love with the same time. Don't worry, it will get better after a while. Falling out of love is basically something that everyone goes through.

Find a girl to chase after you and you'll be able to solve it.

All you need is time, it's easy, but it won't be long before you agree with me.

It's okay, normal behavior after a breakup...

How to get sequelae of broken love**.

The first step is to completely disconnect with the past.

Saying goodbye to the past self, the past relationship, and the past life is the first and most critical step out of the broken love. Erase all memories of your ex from your mind. WeChat can not be kept, ** can be blocked, Weibo can be unfollowed, and the gifts can be lost.

Photos of the two can now be placed at the bottom of the box.

The second step is to go for a walk.

Travel is one of the most effective ways to get rid of emotional wounds. When you go out and see a bigger, more beautiful scenery that you have never seen before. You will find that your sorrows and sorrows, your children's affection, are so weak in front of nature that you can't reach them.

The third step is to divert attention.

It has been said that the most effective way to forget a person, to forget a relationship, is to devote yourself to another relationship. This idea and approach is not necessarily unfair to the other person. So the best way is to divert your attention.

You can devote yourself to your work during this time, or you can choose to develop a hobby. Or maybe there was something you wanted to do, and you used the time of the breakup to get it done.

The main thing is that your liking for her has been brewing for too long, and you will have the illusion that you have been dating for a long time, so that you feel that you are very empty without her, and you have liked it for so long, but before you started, you pressed the stop button, in fact, in the final analysis, you are unwilling!

She's just a stand-in for your ideal love, and it's not her fault that she thinks too well before the love begins, it's liking, that is, good feelings

When you have a crush on someone, after understanding it, invest in love.

Alas, poor baby, you have been poisoned deeply!

If you're sure you'll be able to eat her, go ahead!

Now it's not that you will definitely be able to get ahead after studying, but being uneducated is a terrible thing in the society in the future!

So learn more useful things for yourself, and when you have money and taste in the future, women will chase you!

Hey, I'm sure you'll find a better one, so that you'll fade the one you mentioned in your memory

Feeling indifferent is actually afraid of being hurt again, afraid of the pain of loss; That's why I always want to change again.

I suggest that you don't fall in love now, or if you don't fit to talk at all right now, if you are afraid of being picked off or eager to covet that feeling, it is not the best way to adjust your state.

Break up first, be alone with yourself for a while, I mean psychologically, often be with family and friends, you will not lose family affection, friendship will wipe tears for you.

Feel life, learn a skill that you have never experienced before, fully immerse yourself in it, you will no longer feel bored, you will lose so long, you will always be afraid, re-experience the joy of getting, learn a skill, at least it, you will not lose.

Only when you are no longer afraid of losing can you truly love someone again, let alone be afraid of losing again.

I wish you happiness. <>

It seems that you love the one before you fell out of love so much that you can't re-engage in your relationship. And it's a bit decadent, want to go on a shopping spree, right? It may take time.

If it doesn't fit, change it.

Otherwise, it's just a bitter oneself.

Like me, I haven't been in love with any man since I broke up with my first boyfriend, and it's been five years now, and I still can't let go.

I have also had this kind of psychology of yours before, that is, I have completely antibodies to sweet words. I guess it's probably because of the person who said sweetly, you don't have feelings for him. I think marriage, love is really not so important, marriage is more important responsibility.

Hearts that are willing to take care of each other for a lifetime. Of course, marriage cannot be compromised, since it is married, you must learn to accept and learn to love each other.

Hey, I'm a boy.

I'm 25 years old, and I used to think about getting married after thinking about having my own business. The truth is what I insisted on at the beginning. But I still haven't succeeded, and I want to keep going.

But sometimes when I see my parents' old eyes, my heart aches. I don't want them to be upset, I don't want them to be disappointed in me, so I want to find someone to marry, but I have the same problem as you. I don't know if I will be happy if I find someone for the rest of my life, so I have been entangled for a long time, I think so, if you meet someone who has a good feeling after a while, don't give up casually.

Pursue it for the purpose of being married, if you don't meet it, then continue to do your own business, after all, emotional things can't be reluctant, not picky or casual, it's almost enough.

That's all I can think about, I hope it can help you.

Haven't you forgotten him? Hearing you say this, I feel that you still have him in your heart, and you can't accept others, and you can't rush to get married. It's a lifetime thing.

You have to adjust and find that you really want to marry him, and then you decide to get married. Or you'll regret it.

Adjust your mentality, you have to open everything, there are not so many bad people in the world, you can't waste food because of choking.

You are insecure, when you were young, you felt that you could wait, so you indulged in your insecurity, but one day you are no longer young, you will face the reality and slowly bow your head and compromise.

Find an honest man, there is always a good man.

Why don't you try it first, maybe you'll like it by then.