Help me! How will my life go on?

I've often encountered this kind of thing before, which is very annoying, but as you said, you can't hide from him, and you can't do anything about him, so you have to find a way to adapt.

It's like the saying that you can't adapt to society, you have to adapt to society, in this case, why not see it as a ladder for your life improvement.

First of all, we should know that no matter how much a person is annoying, he should also have his merits, although he is very annoying, but why should we seize on the disadvantages of others? Isn't this making yourself uncomfortable? I often ask myself this, to be a man should be an open-minded person, to live a chic life, good at discovering the advantages of others are popular wherever they go, not only will not be troubled, more importantly, they have improved, at this time, you will be very strong, very optimistic, your life seems to be full of flowers, every day is a sunny day, what you do will be a little successful!

ps: You can try to be friends with the people you hate, think about the people you hate have become your friends, how can life not be smooth sailing.

In this case, don't ask to change others, but to be happy!

Don't bother about him, if you see it and you're disgusted, you can be transparent to him. As long as your heart is not in him, how can he bother you?

The most important thing is to be happy!

Every person, every family, has a difficult scripture to read. You think he's annoying, and you're disgusting when you see him, but you can actually live separately. But you said that you can't let him go, which is really difficult, and it seems that you still have to live together every day, which is very difficult.

It is true that the purpose of our pursuit of life is to live happily every day, but your life seems to have reached the state of living like a year, but there is no separation, I suggest that you just treat him as air, no matter whether the person you hate is by your side or not, you don't want to be his existence, so that your heart may be a little better. Another way is to force him to disappear automatically, and you often do things that he hates, so that he can't accept it, and take the initiative to push out this living environment.

There is no other way than to start from your own mentality.

It is useless to say more.

That's true, hone it slowly.

It's good to savor life.

Quickly adjust one's own psychology, complain about others, and blame others for all the faults is the most incompetent manifestation. People in the rivers and lakes can't change the society or the country, only the part of adaptation, adaptation to the society, adaptation to the present, learn to face, learn to take responsibility, and have responsibility. There are thousands of ways out in the world, find the one you like, stick to it, and you will definitely succeed.

In addition, you must do things with your brain, not with your hands, and you can get twice the result with half the effort. Think about what else you are doing wrong, see how others have succeeded, and reposition yourself for what you should do. But don't be too ambitious, you may not be able to afford to fail many times.

Don't find reasons for failure, just find ways to succeed! This kind of mentality problem is also up to you, if you have the backbone and ambition, then prove yourself, if you succeed, you will solve the problem! But if you always like to blame the reasons for failure on the factors around you, then even if you are given a rich second generation, you are just a waste of this society!!

You're just a complaining piece of garbage, you know.

Horses to success, a horse in the lead, bull head horse face, Tian Ji horse racing. Hope for extra points.

The head of the horse is to see the water and the mountains.

Take the lead and fish in troubled waters.

The bull head and the horse face are exhausted.

Childhood sweethearts look through the autumn water.

Can I take another one? Can't see clearly.

Horse to success will not be the first to succeed.

Input method input horse is not there.

Well, it's up to you, and living is to be born and live.

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It's actually very difficult, and I think it's hard for others to help. It all depends on whether you want to have a positive heart, dance again, fill up the time, and it will be better if you don't have time to "do your job".

I don't know if it helps you, hehe!!

You're just bothered by life's problems! You need to ask yourself: What is wrong with your life or work, and why?

What are the solutions? Do I have to accept the facts? Can I change that?

No! You'll be able to fix it all! Most importantly, don't look at what is blurry in the distance, but do what is clear at hand!

You don't have to indulge by smoking.

You have to have faith in life, there are more miserable people in the world than you, you have to be self-reliant, find a good girl to start a family, everything will be there.

Although you sometimes let yourself go, but you still have self-control, it's not impossible to relax occasionally, but you have to master the fire, once you do it, don't regret it, it's not a bad thing to devote yourself to work and life after relaxing, pay attention to good proportions, bless you.

I recommend you to read a book by Yu Dan "The Analects of Thought" to take a good look, I hope it will be useful to you!

We are of the same age, and as a young person in a modern society, it is really difficult to challenge this cruel society! However, as long as we have ideals and goals, life will be wonderful in front of you. 1What do you live for?

2. What kind of life do you want to live3. Set goals according to your ideals and stick to them as long as you think it will bring you the right path you want. When you accomplish something, no matter how big or small, do you feel a little sense of accomplishment? Don't be anxious, don't be pessimistic, learn to make yourself stronger, and bring hope to more people as the starting point!!

No, a lot of people are trying to change their lives at this age, and you still have a lot of time.

First of all, you have to understand that your current life is determined by how well you know yourself. Only by knowing oneself can we discover our strengths and weaknesses.

Secondly, it is very important to build self-confidence, don't blame yourself too much, everything made me, it has given me enough wisdom and ability, I can do everything.

Finally, you should affirm yourself more and cheer yourself up more.

It's only over 20, don't be too pessimistic, how many people broke out after the age of 30.

It's still so small, why can't there be hope? Everything can be done all over again.

Do a good job and want to earn money now in order to marry a wife later.

And I just want to say that you're not old yet. Q 567 2573

Then try to find your partner!

What do you want to change? There are many ways to live life, and that's up to you.

First: change jobs, change environments, second: change places, the world is very big, go everywhere, and third: change mentality, which is the most difficult and easiest to do.

What do you want your life to become?

Lend me your money and your life will change!!

Be confident, life will be full of hope, and if you have a goal, you will move forward!

In fact, the landlord is a girl with a very clear mind. Very well written.

You can meet, know and love each other, which is the fate that God gives you; You stuck to the original choice, and the two of you worked together to keep this love, which is a share. The so-called fate but no part means that in the end, one of them chooses to give up and is unwilling to insist on it. If the landlord feels that the other party still loves you, and you still love him, and there is no way to change the other party, then you can only change yourself appropriately.

Be someone who makes him feel that you are worthy of his love.

Every girl wants to marry someone who is really good to her, and she hopes that the other party can hold her in the palm of her hand. It's just that most men now prefer that they can be held in the palm of each other's hands, loved and spoiled. Unwilling to give too much.

So girls often have that feeling of gain and loss. Guessing if the other party doesn't love himself enough. Should I continue this love, and insist on it again.

He even had doubts about himself. In fact, this all stems from the mentality of not being confident in oneself and longing for love.

This mentality is even more serious when an older girl meets a more suitable man. So I think the most important thing is not to put all your mind on the other person, you should have your own life. The tighter you grasp something, the faster it is lost.

At least love yourself well before you love each other with all your heart.

I don't think I can think about this thing in detail, and the more I think about it, the easier it is to get entangled. Hit n ** every day, and the person who says he loves you may not last long; People who only contact once in a few days don't necessarily mean that they won't last long. Therefore, the landlord must first adjust his mentality, and then find out where the crux of your problem is.

There is no problem that cannot be solved, unless you are unwilling to solve it, or you are afraid of facing the consequences of solving it. But to be a man, you should still live bravely, whether it is for feelings or many things in life.

I hope that the landlord can open his heart as soon as possible.

The easiest thing is to leave, close QQ for a month, ignore anyone, and naturally calm down. I was the same at the beginning, and then I forced myself to turn off QQ and not go online for a month, and then I went back to see that girl, although I liked it too, but I was not as attached as I was at the beginning to affect my life.

Abandon the Internet, do more outdoor sports, chat more with classmates, and communicate more with parents.

When you really have someone to chase and someone to love, you will understand. Online dating is not practical.