The child cries, and the mother does not pay attention to whether it subsides or punishes

Depending on the situation, the child sometimes deliberately makes trouble, and is used to playing with adults, so at this time, ignore him first, and then ignore him when he stops making trouble, so that he will be obedient in the future.

When parents are faced with their children's crying, parents should choose to ignore them instead of always pleasing their children. Parents should be aware of the reason why their children are crying, and Ichimori must have opened his eyes because he wanted to ask his parents for gifts. Especially when some children go out to the supermarket with their parents, if the parents do not meet the children's shopping needs, the children will just splash and roll.

As for parents, they should ignore it directly, ignore the child, and realize that their emotions are very wrong after the child cries.

When today's young people are educating their children, if they see that their children have to ask for a certain toy on the street, they will directly educate the children that they think that the children should not do so. If when educating children, children will just splash and roll, they will just ignore it and turn around and leave. Parents are very rational about this approach, and they must not develop their children's habit of buying something.

When some parents today educate their children, they should think that they must not please their children. Because once you please your child, it will be difficult for your child to break such bad habits in the future, so you can't make your child feel favored. Especially when the elderly at home take care of their children, they will always meet any conditions of their children for no reason, as long as they like things that children like, they will buy them for their children, in fact, the elderly are allowing their children to make mistakes.

Nowadays, some elderly people will always spoil their children very much when taking care of their children, especially when they go to the supermarket with a little boy, if they don't buy toys for their children, the children will lie directly on the ground. If other staff in the supermarket see the little boy in such a situation, they will think that the parents are very picky and unwilling to buy toys for the child, so they will look at the adults with alternative eyes.

I think that when the child is crying, parents should ignore the socks and let him calm down, so that he will want to open up and close some things, and don't give him too much care at this time.

I think we should choose to ignore it so that when the child is tired of crying, he will not cry anymore.

When the child is crying, parents, should ignore it or immediately please the first thing to find out the reason for the child's crying, if it is the kind of unreasonable trouble, then the family is in trouble or do not please him, but to educate well.

When the child is crying for no reason, the parents should ignore it. Of course, if the child has a reason to return to the right time, it should be done immediately. Listen to your child. Opinion. Do something according to God's ideas.

Parents should ignore it, because the child Oak Jianzi is crying like a stool now, and he can't listen to what others say, he is immersed in his own world, so he won't listen to reason now.

You shouldn't shoot it with a ruler, you can't completely ignore the child, and you can't please it right away. When the child cries, he first ignores the child. Wait until the child is calm. Reason with your child again.

I don't think it's okay to ignore the child's crying, after all, the purpose of his crying is most likely to attract the attention of parents. However, it is not appropriate to please me immediately, and if the child pleases him as soon as he cries and meets his requests, he will see crying as a means to an end.

I think that when a child is crying, the first thing parents should do is to comfort him, let him vent his emotions quietly, and then understand why he is crying.

The above is mine, I hope it will be helpful to you.

When the child is crying, it is the most emotionally unstable time, parents can temporarily ignore it, wait for the child's emotional calm and general state to finish, and then communicate with the child well. If you please immediately, it will encourage the child to abuse this practice in the future, and in fact, it is even more detrimental to the child's growth.

Parents should first calm down and patiently analyze the reasons for their children's crying, and they can't immediately coax because their children are crying, nor can they be irritable because of their children's crying.

Hello, when the child is crying, parents should wait for the child to cry before arguing with him, because when the child is crying, he can't listen to what you say.

When a child is crying and sleepy, should parents ignore him or immediately please him What if he is crying? You ignore him first, after he finishes crying, you can talk to him, why are you crying, let him talk about his heart, communicate with him, and communicate with him, he will talk to you.

Look at the situation, if it is for health reasons, take the child to the hospital, if it is not for health reasons, just be unreasonable, just ignore him, pretend not to see it. If he makes enough trouble, he won't make trouble, he makes trouble to attract your attention.

It is normal for children to cry and vent their emotions, and parents should not forcibly stop their children from venting their emotions. Parents are a little overwhelmed and annoyed when they find their child crying, and they feel that their child is an abrasive. In order to calm the child, they will use scolding to make the child stop crying.

However, crying itself is an instinctive reaction of the child to vent his emotions, and if the parent forcibly stops the child, the child will not be able to vent this emotion.

When parents do not allow their children to cry, they will make their children depressed, and there are many detrimental effects to their health in the future. At the same time, in the process of forcibly stopping it, it is implied to the child that the mother does not like to be afraid, and being afraid is also a bad behavior, so it also leads to the child's fear of not daring to show fear. But children who are able to please their parents will give up crying, and more importantly, they will lie after making mistakes.

And when they are bullied, they will hide it and not tell their parents, and they will wear masks when facing their parents. Then the child will not be able to find his true self, and the child's psychology will slowly become distorted. In fact, the child's understanding of himself is a long process, and every emotional catharsis is an opportunity for the child to grow, and parents must have a good grasp of the child's emotions when facing the child.

While accepting your child's emotions, you should communicate with your child correctly. Use words to let the child express his emotions, so that the child will not cry and make a fuss, so that the child will not panic when encountering things. Only with such performance will the child become stronger.

Parents should support their children's healthy growth and communicate with them in a healthy way as they grow. It is necessary to allow the child to have a temper, but also to allow the child to be able to quickly control the temper when he has a tantrum, and also hope that parents can take the right way to deal with their child's crying.

No. Because forcibly stopping the child's crying behavior will affect the child's physical and mental health development, will cause a psychological shadow to the child, and is not conducive to the child's education.

It should not be forcibly stopped, because it may harm the child, and it is not conducive to the child's character development and character building. Children should be guided in the right way.

It should not be forcibly stopped, because if it is forcibly stopped, the child will be very sad, and even his inner emotions will not be able to vent.

If the child is crying, parents should not stop the child from crying, because the child's emotions, whether good or bad, are a normal emotional response. Many parents will be overwhelmed when they find that their baby is crying, and then they will be particularly annoyed. I feel that the child is like grinding people, in fact, at this time, you can find some special ways to let the child slowly calm down.

Because sometimes it is better to calm the child's emotions first, but the child's crying is not a bad thing, crying is a reaction that the child uses to vent his emotions. And when you instinctively vent your emotions, let them vent their emotions in place.

If the parents blindly stop the child when the child is crying and tell the child not to cry, then the child will be asked to suppress his emotions. For example, if a child says that he is afraid of the dark, then the parent will say that there is nothing to be afraid of. But if the parents say this, the child will feel that the parent is unacceptable, and he is afraid of something, then he will hold everything in his heart in the future.

If you blindly suppress your child's emotions, then in the end, your child will have a kind of cognition.

That is, they can't express their emotions, so they don't dare to show themselves truly, and they will pretend that they are in a state in front of their parents, so this is not conducive to the development of children. When denying a child's emotions, it is a bad behavior to imply that fear is a bad behavior, and this bad behavior will not be approved by parents.

Every time you experience emotions, it is actually an opportunity for your child to grow. It is also a very long process for children to understand their own emotions, and under the experience of this emotion, children will grow better. When the child learns to communicate, it is necessary to accept the child's emotions correctly, and then teach the child how to communicate, so that the child can vent his emotions.

From the perspective of us adults, children crying are not strong, and tantrums are not well-behaved, so they can't help but stop it. In fact, allowing children to control their emotions is against the laws of children's growth.

In reality, children are not carefree and will encounter a lot of problems that cause emotional changes. For example: he doesn't want to sleep and is forced to sleep, his behavior is restricted, and he will get angry.

When you see strangers in a new environment, you will be shy if you don't know how to socialize. When you see that your companion is stronger than you, you will inevitably feel jealous. When you are sick, you have to go to the doctor, you are afraid of injections and medicines, and you will be anxious.

When you sleep alone, you always think of some scary scenes and get scared. Without their parents by their side, they are saddened by their loss. Abound.

Physiologically, the child's brain is not yet fully developed. The human brain is divided into "instinctive brain", "emotional brain" and "rational brain". The "emotional brain" is responsible for various emotions such as joy, anger, sorrow, and happiness, and the rational brain is responsible for abstract logical thinking.

The child's emotional brain reaction speed is 50 times that of the rational brain, and it cannot control emotions in time, so it can't cry and lose its temper at every turn.

In terms of ability, children have limited experience, almost everything they encounter is fresh, and they have not accumulated enough ways to relieve their emotions, so they can only vent their emotions in the most primitive and instinctive way. Hundreds of years ago, Wang Yangming said: "If you are in a bad mood, you are not wise enough." ”

From this analysis, children simply have no ability to control their emotions, and our deliberate requirements are difficult for strong people.

Don't beat, scold, don't coax, just teach him to say goodbye to "bad mood".

It is normal for a child to have emotions, so we cannot stop him from venting his emotions by beating and scolding or coaxing, but guide him to learn how to say goodbye to "bad emotions".

When a child is crying, parents should not stop you, of course, they should stop it, but they should not use violent means to stop it.

Hello, if the child is crying, the parents should observe it in time, if the parents do not deal with it, the child will be insecure.

If the child is crying, as parents, we should not stop it and let him find out for himself.

If it still happens to be very noisy, the parents should coax her by themselves, saying that there are things he is interested in will he forget.

Parents should block. In such a situation, parents should ask the reason for the child's crying in time, and then should also prescribe the right medicine, help the child solve the problem in time, and comfort the child.

It should not be stopped, the child's crying is actually a release of pressure in the child's mind, so don't stop the child.

Parents should not stop it, if parents stop it, it will make the child develop a bad habit, and the child will also threaten the parents by crying.

First of all, let the child release his emotions to the fullest, and then guide the child softly when the child's heart is stable, so that the child can understand the truth.

I think that by diverting the child's attention or not stopping the child's unreasonable crying immediately, let him have a buffer time, and wait for the child to calm down before educating the child.

The child cries unreasonably, and it cannot be that his unreasonable needs are not recognized by his parents. Therefore, parents should not indulge their children at will, once the child cries, immediately meet his needs, which will make the child think that as long as he cries, he can get what he wants, and will meet his needs in this way in the future, if the parents do not agree, the child will become even more troublesome. When dealing with children crying unreasonably, parents must take the right way to deal with them.

1. Stop your child from crying unreasonably by diverting his attention.

When the child starts crying, parents can give up crying by attracting his attention by the things that the child likes. When a child is attracted to something he likes, it is easy to forget what he just cried for, so that parents will not feel upset. When the child grows up, the demand will come more, so parents should treat his unreasonable crying correctly when the child is young, otherwise it will affect the healthy growth of the child.

Second, you can also ignore the way to make the child cry enough, and wait for him to calm down before educating.

There are many parents who do not know how to deal with their children's crying correctly, if the parents have a bad temper, they may scold the child and stop the child by intimidation, which will make the child psychologically hit, although he will not cry, but the child will become less and less confident. There is also a layer of parents who can't stand the child's crying and feel that they can't treat the child badly, so as long as the child cries, they will unconditionally satisfy the child, so as to achieve the purpose of coaxing, and this will spoil the child, make the child's temper become more irritable, and the character is arrogant and unreasonable, and it is difficult to discipline. Therefore, when parents face their children crying, they don't need to stop him immediately, they can let him cry in the same place, and the parents sit aside, wait for the child to stop crying, and educate him.

When the child stops crying, you can occasionally meet the child's needs appropriately, so that the child can know that crying is useless, you must learn to communicate with your parents, and let your child feel the love of her parents. <>