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Friends are easy to find, but confidants are hard to find. Friends make friends, confidants make friends. Knowing oneself in adversity is not to abandon oneself, and one confidant is enough in life.
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Summary. He Qin, a famous gold and stone seal carver in the Qing Dynasty, wrote a couplet for the text of "Lanting Collection Preface": "It is enough to have a confidant in life, and the world should be the same."
See. This couplet is a pair of prose style, "life" and "Si Shi", "confidant" and "Tonghuai" nouns opposite, "矣",
The "virtual words are relative, neat and appropriate, and the rest of the text is relatively loose, flat and harmonious, which is a masterpiece in the couplet.
What does it mean to have a few confidants in your life.
He Qin, a famous gold and stone seal carver in the Qing Dynasty, wrote a couplet for the "Lanting Collection Preface": "It is enough to have a confidant in life, and the world should treat it with the same heart." This couplet is a pair of prose style flowing water, "life" and "Si Shi", "confidant" and "Tonghuai" noun opposite, "矣", "zhi" virtual words opposite, neat and appropriate, the rest of the Bitong Tsai text battle is more relaxed, flat and harmonious, is a masterpiece in the couplet.
Generally speaking, this sentence is to lament that people rarely have a few bosom friends in this life.
In fact, I feel that it is enough for people to have a confidant in this life.
It's hard to find a messy book, it's hard to find a bosom friend, and it's very difficult to make a few sincere friends in life! Need to cherish the friendship in front of you even more! There is a way, it is rare to have a confidant in life! It's not easy to know yourself and your opponent!
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I feel that I am fortunate to have my brother who is really kind to me, and now I have not cherished the person I cherish the most as much as before, and the experience of a series of events has made me see many facets of the person. In the past, every time you shouted to your brothers and brothers, when you really needed help, there were few people who really wanted to help you.
That was when I got married, and this year I was old enough to get married, but I didn't feel that I had to be proud of my achievements. At that time, the things and affairs to be prepared for marriage were almost the same, and then there was a little accident, so it was really difficult to take a small amount of money from time to time, and I wanted to play as much as I wanted, and I should have borrowed more and less, but after a few calls, I realized that you are usually the best group of people, and everyone is so realistic when they are the most difficult. But it doesn't mean that I didn't borrow it, and I only had a brother who borrowed it from Zen.
He said a sentence that made me cherish him after I made up my mind, and he said: "If you want to be less, you can say that there are many people who have a good time working outside the home, and if it weren't enough for me to help you borrow some."
After the wedding ceremony. I returned the money to the other party for a while, everyone has their own life, so I think I know better when he is in trouble and wait to pull me to mean something, I cherish very much this time in front of me when there is nothing to do, although I don't have much contact, but I will actively help each other's brothers when there is anything, and I am really heart in exchange for sincerity. After experiencing this incident, I have also seen a lot of things clearly, friends and friends really don't need a lot, just one is enough, the people who add flowers are far from the preciousness of the people who are sent to the charcoal.
It is a great blessing to meet a sincere and righteous friend in the midst of hardship.
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A person's life can be touched.
One or two confidants are already good. Confidants don't care about the length of time they've known each other, and they don't care if they see each other every day. A confidant is a person who will stretch out his (her) hands to help you with him (her) when you are in trouble, and share pain and happiness with you.
When you are injured, he (she) will be by your side silently to help you heal, when you cry will be by your side, but when you have something on your mind, he will quietly listen to you.
There are a few confidants in the world, how much friendship can last forever, today parting with you and shaking hands, friendship is always in your heart, today and to say goodbye, he will be able to get together, even if you can't meet, always be friends, said that there are thousands of miles of mountains to separate the two places, do not need to meet in the heart of the heart, friendship can not change. "
After participating in the work, the former good friends separated the world and went to different places, recalling the previous time, how simple and naïve and lovely we were, now, everyone has their own life, even if they get together, they always feel that the distance between them is getting farther and farther, and the distance in their hearts is getting farther and farther.
People often say that confidantes and confidants are blue, and there are a few people who do not have feelings between men and women. Therefore, it is difficult to find a confidant, and it is even more difficult to find a confidant of the opposite sex!
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Because there is only one person in the world who can understand himself in this life. If you have the fate to meet, then cherish it, and if you don't have the opportunity to meet, don't leave any regrets. The person who really understands himself may appear in the future.
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How many confidants do people have in their lives? I think it can be several, one is work, one is life, and one is spiritual. It's just the feeling of self, and of course everyone thinks differently.
The first is at work, of course, it is a colleague who works with you all day long, before you did not work together may be no one, but there is a fate to work together, from the initial acquaintance to acquaintance, this is also a process, but also need a fate, if there is no fate to work together for a long time will not become a bosom friend, the confidant at work can share the happiness and unhappiness in your work, what can provide you with a lot of valuable advice in the unit, so that you can progress more smoothly in your work. Of course, a confidant at work can become a confidant in life, because after working together for a long time, many things are willing to be shared with her, so this kind of confidant is for life. But many people say that it is impossible to become close friends with colleagues at work, because of personal interests, but I don't think so, if you are a confidant at work, I think he will never worry about you because of work matters.
The second is life, in life in addition to colleagues, you will also have classmates, friends, classmates or friends with a long time of contact, you can become confidants, you can share all your happiness and troubles. From childhood to adulthood in a person's life, you will have many good friends at all stages of life, some may change over time, and the relationship will fade, but some friends will get closer and closer with the change. This kind of confidant can be similar to your personality or opposite to you, sometimes there may be little contact, but it is close in the heart.
The third is the spiritual friend, this kind of friend is hard to find, if you are lucky to meet this kind of confidant, it is your blessing. She knows you very well, probably better than yourself, she can give you an analysis of everything you have to do, whether it is life, work, psychology, she can give you a clear analysis. This kind of friend can be in real life, but it can be someone you have never met on the Internet, and you are willing to share it with her when you are happy or troubled!
So I think it's enough to have these three kinds of friends in my life!
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Friends are good and confidants are hard to find, and it's good to have one.
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Confidants are actually another self, as for the person's bai life can meet du
A few confidants, this zhi depends on your own fate, some people may not meet one in their life, and some people can only meet one confidant, that's all, confidants can be desired but not sought, not everyone can be so lucky to meet a confidant, I personally think that a real confidant is enough as long as one in his life!!
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The so-called "confidant" can be met but cannot be ......
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There are all kinds of emotions in this life, and friendship is an indispensable part of life. I have a problem, that is, I take friendship more seriously than any feelings, and those who are familiar with me know that in love and friendship, I will definitely choose friendship without hesitation, and friendship is precious.
Now that everyone is in the world, it's really funny to recall those crazy things together. I admire how I was so brave at that time and was able to do such a state for my friends. I remember it was winter, and when the second phase was close to the Chinese New Year, fireworks were popular in our area.
At that time, we were only in junior high school, and my best friend had a boyfriend, and every time she went out to play, she would use me as a shield. Every time, she told her mother that she was going out with me. Then that night, the mill and the others were going to set off fireworks together, and at nine o'clock in the evening, let me go with her, and I was a good girl at that time.
I don't usually go out at night, but luckily I didn't live with my mom at the time, and I was the only one in the house, so I rushed over to find her. There was another reason why she didn't want him to send him home, and if I went, I could go back with her. At that time, it was really crazy, and I still went to be a light bulb, but now, I definitely won't go straight to it without any recklessness.
Before the high school entrance examination, several of us were very willful, really, never so crazy with that honor. The day before the start, we took a group leave of absence. The teacher didn't give leave, but a few of us made an appointment and left directly, and the result was that all of them hit our parents**, and our parents were also very helpless.
Not only that, but a few of us actually went to dinner together in the afternoon, and then went to sing after eating, and didn't go home after singing. I also went to play mahjong together, and it rained that night, and a few of us also showed no umbrella in the light of the tour, so we simply went home in the rain together, and it was already the middle of the night when I went home, and it was almost twelve o'clock.
Several of us were in the same class, and once, several of us agreed together not to hand in the language homework, because he had too much homework and it was useless. Then we went to ask the Chinese teacher to reduce the homework, but it didn't work, and we were punished. But since then, we just don't do Chinese homework, the teacher really has no choice, so let our parents come to the school to talk together, and finally we succeeded in getting the Chinese teacher to reduce the amount of homework.
After graduating from junior high school, we also played a group disappearance. In fact, it's not missing, a few of us went to the mountains for a picnic together, and went to play with one of our classmates, but at that time our mobile phones were out of battery, and we couldn't send messages to our parents, so it was just like this, but in the end, they were all in a hurry, and this time it really scolded a few of us very badly.
Youth is really stumbling, but there is a lot of joy in it.