It s really sad that I can t be treated differently than others

Updated on educate 2024-02-09
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This is how the world is, and so is reality. But what is there about it? The important thing is to be yourself and have a clear conscience.

    Let me ask again, in today's world, how many people can really have a clear conscience? How much? Not much.

    Caicai and Quanquan don't worry, she just has a little advantage over you in terms of appearance, but in other aspects, can she be better than you? Don't you have what you're good at? It can't be, right, since that's the case, then it's okay.

    At least you're better than her in some way. It doesn't matter if others don't pay attention, obscurity is what people lack now. Stick with it, and you'll see the light!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Don't be discouraged, after all, this world relies on strength to eat! The beauty of youth is only temporary! A skill that will benefit you for life! Defeat them with your own strength!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Then you have to accept the reality, try to use and highlight your strengths, and if you don't, accept your fate.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    That's life!!

    Learn to face it!!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Being beautiful does have some advantages, but it's not irreparable, work hard to do your job well, let others see it, and you will be recognized.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    A man must eat a peck of salt with his friend before he knows him! Do your duty, and slowly someone will care about you, and like her, if you do a good job, others can see it, and if you do it wrong, it will be in the eyes of others!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you don't want to eat youth, continue to take one step at a time and do your best in a down-to-earth manner.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Haha landlord, don't be discouraged, I have the same experience as the landlord. In fact, as long as you calm down and do your own thing, what do you say?

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Yes, the reality is cruel, you have to open something. Good-looking people are not all over the street.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Let's make 1 volume. If it's really that important.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    But this sentence is still very reasonable, because sometimes it is unfair to stimulate people's potential, that is, everyone often says that heroes come out of troubled times. There is no absolute standard for beauty and ugliness, although some people say that turnip greens have their own love, and there is no harm if there is no comparison, obviously many people's looks are ordinary.

    Just like good-looking girls are very popular, so are boys, because you look like you can make you a star, but if you are mediocre and have no talent, who cares about you? Although there is not much direct relationship between good looks and your career, but if you are good-looking, according to today's people, even others will have a much better attitude towards you, if you don't look good, others won't even look at you.

    It is precisely because of other people's contempt for you that everyone wants to get the attention and recognition of others, but often good-looking people will receive everyone's attention since childhood, and if you are mediocre, it is difficult for everyone to notice you. In general, you are good-looking, easy to be blinded by your own advantages, because you have received the attention of others, you mistakenly think that this is your greatest self-confidence, because you are young, you can't see the long-term, narcissism for many years, superficial for many years, waste time and youth, and it is easy to develop the habit of being high-eyed and low-handed.

    For people with an average appearance, in order to attract everyone's attention, since childhood, I have honed my character, can work hard in some understanding, fight strength, know how to seize opportunities at the right time, and finally become a person, but this is not like this for everyone, it is just that many people are affected because of this probability, and everyone must understand that everyone is a potential stock.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    In the workplace, being good-looking is a great advantage. But everything has two silver faces.

    For some professions that are based on first impressions only, such as receptionists and greeters, appearance may indeed be important; After all, good-looking people are indeed "eye-catching". But appearance alone is not enough, even if it is a short contact, if it is indifferent, stiff and hard, even if it looks as beautiful as a fairy, it will not be praised.

    This is especially true for other professions that require further contact, those that require professional skills, rich experience, and proficient conversation, no matter how good-looking they look, if they have "a bag of grass in their stomachs", they have no advantage.

    Therefore, mature professionals don't care whether they look "good-looking" or not. More important than appearance is the smile, the mannerism, and the professionalism.

    Have you noticed that there are always some people around you, they always treat everyone happily, and everyone likes them very much, but if you look closely at their appearance, they are not good-looking.

    There is a good saying, "People who love to laugh will not have too bad luck". That's true.

    Mannerisms are also important, but a smile is not 100% useful.

    Negotiations will not succeed if they are "unable to speak", behave inappropriately, annoy the opponent in their speech and behavior, or inadvertently cause unhappiness to the opponent.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Because such a combination tends to have fewer quarrels, people will be more comfortable together. Or maybe it's just a different aesthetic view from outsiders. But it's a wonderful chemistry.

    Some people will feel that the person they are looking for is very handsome, and the lover is in the eyes. She likes this model, but from the outsider's point of view, she is a beautiful beauty, and she is indeed dating an ordinary-looking person. And some people are full of hurt after experiencing another good-looking person, and feel that it is better to find someone who looks average, and the relationship will be more comfortable and down-to-earth, because it will give her some sense of security.

    I think the skin will eventually grow old, and no matter how good-looking it looks, it won't have any other abilities. There will also be domestic violence and temper tantrums, and there is a tendency to be a mother's boy, or even their parents are not filial, what is the use of such a good-looking person. When people become partners, they don't just live by their looks.

    What is really needed is for two people to get along for a long time, run in for a long time, and the person's internal standard, of course, everyone has found someone who is pleasing to the eye.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Because the criteria for choosing a mate are diverse, especially for good-looking girls, they are more likely to be loved by better men because of their good looks, but the quality of these men is distributed in many aspects such as ability, personality, economic level and appearance.

    And for these girls, the appearance of those excellent men can be said to be a relatively less important item, so there is naturally a picture of your so-called mismatched appearance. You must know that a person's excellence is not ranked by appearance, unless the other factors mentioned above are no longer meaningful one day.

    For boys with high appearance, their partner's appearance is much higher than that of ordinary boys, because the appearance of men accounts for a large part of their mate selection, and handsome boys have more capital to pursue high-quality girls, and this kind of high-quality appearance will account for a large proportion.

    And the reason why the public thinks that handsome boys often find ugly girls is mainly because we are deeply impressed when we see the moment when handsome boys and ugly girls are together, and then we will generalize these cases.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    People are not divided into three, six, nine and so on by their appearance, good-looking people are not good-looking when they interact with good-looking people, and they are average-looking and average-looking.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Dating is not entirely based on appearance, there is also personality and the like, maybe good-looking people have a lighter view of appearance.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Good-looking people generally do not have high requirements for appearance, they do not need to satisfy themselves through the appearance of the opposite sex, they generally pay more attention to the connotation, and the most important thing is the three views.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Looks aren't everything. Long-term getting along is mainly about looking inside. So don't feel inferior because of your looks.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    They will appreciate the life of another type of person, or everything but their appearance.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Because when two people get along, the important thing is temperament, and appearance is not the decisive factor.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    There is no mandatory rule for this, of course, you can associate with whoever you like.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Because true love, true love has nothing to do with looks.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It has nothing to do with appearance, the main thing is that the personality is suitable.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    This is called complementarity, and this is how the combination is perfect.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Therefore, this copy is a world of faces, good-looking people are often more popular, and people who are not good-looking are always considered by people to not even care about their appearance, and they want others to like you. That's probably it, but it can't be said that if you don't look good, you don't have any hope in life at all. A beautiful person will pay attention to his appearance, so he will treat himself with high requirements, and he can be regarded as a self-disciplined person, so he will be more successful.

    I have several friends around me, the ugly duckling has become a white swan, and it was really not good-looking when I didn't pay attention to my image before, but since I started to pay attention to my appearance, I have changed to a different person. People like good-looking things, and people are the same, good-looking people will be more accepted by people. No one is too good at believing that someone who doesn't even care about their appearance can do anything.

    The question of future cannot be determined only on appearance, it can only be said that he will influence, it is a factor. I think when I encounter this problem, everyone will generally think of Ma Yun, is he good-looking, isn't he good-looking, but is he successful, too successful. These are just a few extreme examples.

    However, appearance greatly affects a person's self-confidence, and the inner changes caused by self-confidence will affect a person's steps in the future.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Today's world is no longer the kind of good-looking people who only rely on their faces to eat, but those who are good-looking also have their own skills and skills, so that they can give full play to their advantages. This society is progressing, and those who are good-looking have learned how to run themselves and how to sell themselves better. People who don't look good have the same skills as people who look good, so people will give preference to people who are good-looking.

    Because good-looking people have their own advantages compared to those who are not good-looking.

    People are getting smarter, so those who are good-looking know how to give themselves the icing on the cake and give themselves an edge. So even if we don't look good, we must learn to clean up and look good, so that we will have more advantages.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Now this society is toward.

    The power is on par. Then it is to keep up with money, and finally to keep up with appearance. Like us, some good-looking dogs will really buy a person's goods because he is good-looking.

    If the little brother who delivers food is very handsome, will you order his takeaway every time you order takeout? If the little girl who sells clothes is beautiful, will you often go to her house to buy clothes?

    The milk tea sister who was popular on the Internet a few years ago is a female college student with a very pure appearance. The netizens who went to buy milk tea found that this little girl was very innocent, and after taking a ** and posting it on the Internet, it aroused a huge response. Everyone said that they wanted to drink milk tea and milk tea, which is the charm of appearance.

    I turn a product which was originally unsalable and becomes a hot seller.

    Good looks are a big asset, and many service industries have strict requirements for facial features. It's like the flying industry, all of them are at the level of handsome men and beautiful women. There is also the waiter industry, all of which are leaders.

    What's more, good-looking people are the easiest to be looked at by the rich and handsome. Marrying into a wealthy family, or marrying a wealthy family. A carefree day of a lifetime, of course, has a future.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Life is more realistic, and now bai is also an era of looking at faces, everyone likes to appreciate those who are good-looking, so that they can feel a kind of happiness in their hearts.

    During the interview, in fact, your ability is one thing, and your appearance is actually a very important aspect. Don't complain about this face-looking society, after all, this is everyone's psychology that is about the same. A good-looking assistant or colleague will bring a little face to himself when he goes out to work together.

    Who doesn't want to put a splendor on their face, isn't that normal?

    I believe that there are many such examples around us, those who are good-looking are more likely to get the attention of other people, and they will take the initiative to find them, because appearance is another pass. In fact, three points depend on appearance, seven points depend on dress, as long as you find a suitable appearance for yourself, you will also have a good change, and the future is naturally immeasurable. Looks are born and can't be decided, everything depends on fate!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    First of all, it's because people who look good can be.

    to choose to be a star.

    bai, but the ungood-looking du people can only rely on their strength to fight and be a star.

    DAO is enough to make a lot of money, and the salary for filming a drama is a reward that many ordinary people need to work hard for many years to get, although stars are also very tired, but stars can indeed be easily liked by people, so they can have a market value that people who don't look good and don't have.

    Secondly, because good-looking people are more likely to be appreciated by superiors than people who are not good-looking, and when several people go to the interview together, we will find that the interviewer will be more inclined to the good-looking side, or when promoted, good-looking people will also be more likely to be promoted by the boss, and in many other things, you can also see such unfairness, making good-looking people have a future than those who are not good-looking.

    Finally, because good-looking people can be easily forgiven and supported for everything they do, they can get more material and moral support, so that they can be more comfortable in what they do.

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