Wedding Preparation Questions! Help give some reference

The two, there is not much difference in time, buy first and then knot, will make you have a goal in life, to repay the loan, first knot in the buy when you are afraid that you have no determination, there are small contradictions who will have, not an excuse for emotional stability and instability, not that you are not optimistic about your feelings, you can discuss buying a second-hand house as you said upstairs, the quality of life is not all at once, we are not as good as you,

I am a woman, but I am very considerate of my husband, because now the pressure of competition is high, buying a house is not a small problem, I did not buy a house when I married my husband, I think this should not be a stepping stone to marriage, my husband is in the army, I just lived in my mother-in-law's house when I got married, and then I got married not long after my husband's holiday came, and I went back to the army, I lived in my mother's house (pay living expenses) I do not advocate that my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law live together, as for the reason, it is difficult to say, we are ready to buy a house after my husband is discharged from the army, if you can't afford to rent a house, I don't want to affect our relationship because of my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, you should be considerate of your wife, you can live with your parents when you get married, but you should solve the housing problem as soon as possible, or rent a house.

I got married this year, and my family is only about 6w, but I have a provident fund to take out a loan, I don't know what your situation is.

I'll just tell you my situation, we also don't have the money to buy a house, and 6w is only enough for a down payment, so we bought a second-hand house, 18w, half of the down payment, borrowed tens of thousands, and borrowed 80,000. That's it.

Husbands and wives will often quarrel, and it's normal to disagree, so you can't care too much, otherwise you'll regret it impulsively.

As for the woman's desire for a house, it's understandable.,There's a longing for home.。。 Hehe.

Discuss more, overcome more.

If not, learn from me to buy second-hand. Hey, it's hard to be a man.

It depends on the situation, nothing is dead, it depends on your ability, how can you discuss it with her.

When it comes to getting married, I think everyone will consider and choose very carefully.

Definitely prudent.

The essence of marriage is far from love, and the reason why marriage exists is not because of love, love is used to beautify marriage.

Marriage is a choice made under multi-dimensional considerations, it is not an impulsive choice made under the impact of the so-called love, "I have to be inseparable from you for the rest of my life", it is a rational choice based on the recognition of each other's feelings + the measurement of various social conditions.

I was very influenced by a book about marriage, as mentioned in the previous article, David Bass's "Evolutionary Psychology", 10 years ago, I read this book, this book talks about the criteria for human mate selection, and I was very impressed.

Evolutionary psychology believes that human mate preference is also an important psychological mechanism formed in the process of evolution.

There are three common and very obvious tendencies of women to choose a mate, which is that they tend to be rich and powerful, older (the age of men is often related to the number of resources at their disposal), and strong men.

In primitive society, the only way for women to obtain resources for raising children was to rely on their spouses, and to pursue economic and status security through mate selection was written in women's genes.

Similarly, in ancient times, when a man chooses a long-term spouse, he mainly considers the fertility of a woman and whether the child is his, and one of the key factors is undoubtedly age.

In their eyes, healthy, more fertile women usually have qualities such as sleek **.

With the development of society, women come out to work and their economic status is getting higher and higher, which has changed, especially in first-tier cities, where women do not need to rely on men to have a better life and have more marital autonomy.

If you are very strong yourself, you don't have to care about the financial conditions of the other half at all, just to be happy, which is okay because you have the right to choose.

We are at such a stage, the traditional concept of marriage and the changes of the new era, it depends on what you want and how to choose.

But I still think that don't fall in love, let alone regard love as everything, because the relationship is really a matter of two people, so it is easy to suffer from gains and losses, and expectations are disappointed.

In marriage, feelings are very important, but having food is even more important. Sleeping in your own home is still different from sleeping in a rented house.

I'm best suited for this question, so as a man, I can give you some honest advice.

No matter what kind of man you meet, in the courtship stage, in the love stage, it is very normal to be good to you, not to mention good to you, when you are in the brain, if he has the ability to pick up stars, he will also pick them for you, so good to you, very good to you, especially good to you, this can not be a factor in judging whether you can marry him and go through your life, it can only be a reference factor. But many girls don't believe in evil, although he is an alcoholic, although he is addicted to smoking, although he plays games without moderation, although he has nothing to do all day, but he is good to me, this understanding is too naïve, and in the end it can only be himself.

We have to focus more on the man himself Usually from external analysis to internal analysis, from the objective level to the subjective level, it is not easy to get the right conclusion, but as long as you observe carefully, there will always be good gains, of course, you yourself must also have strong observation and analytical skills.

External refers to a man's external conditions, education, work, friends, family, and love history.

You can also talk to him about elementary school, junior high school, high school, in order to test whether his academic education is continuous, some people are studying in primary school in this city today, and tomorrow they are studying in primary school in that city, and they are changing elementary schools.

Secondly, work, this is very easy to judge, is there a serious job to do, or go to some messy companies every once in a while, this one will not do it for a few days, and that one will not do it for a few days.

Friends are very important, the so-called things gather people in groups, what kind of people are with what kind of friends, it is absolutely impossible for a serious person to mix with the bastards in the three-religion and nine-rate society all day long, and if he mixes together, then he himself is not a good person.

There is also the family, family harmony is very important, how is the relationship between the parents, whether the parents get along well, whether the close relatives get along well, and whether there are any contradictions between them? Wait a minute.

From the perspective of common sense, if you have no feelings or the relationship does not meet the standards for marriage, it is better to be cautious.

I think everyone will be very cautious about getting married, two people should have a common topic together, and if there are endless words, they can know each other's thoughts with a glance. I'm not going to go to a very casual woman to marry, it's better not to get married.

I think you must be cautious about getting married, because marriage is a lifelong thing, so you must be cautious and cautious.

Marriage is a lifelong event, and you will definitely be cautious.

The probability of not getting married is high, and I feel that marrying will make me feel uneasy to go out to work.

Marriage is a lifelong thing. I think most people are very cautious about getting married.

The bride has to give the man's parents a pair of shoes, and those who have grandma and grandfather also have to buy a big box.

Money comes first, and you need money for everything.

Clothes, hotel (bring your own cigarettes and alcohol), invitations (don't miss anyone).

This year, according to the old yellow calendar, you shouldn't get married. Because there is no beginning of spring. Popularly known as the Year of the Widow.

But there is a solar term that does. Let's make a suggestion.

According to the ancient Chinese law, the beginning of spring belongs to the opening of an account, and the new beginning to the end. Marriage and marriage should follow the ancient system. From one.

And the end, the implication has a beginning and an end. But not in the year of the widow. Therefore, it is generally not the beginning of the spring to get married in ancient times.

There is little marriage education. Now people are open. Didn't bother about it that much.

Why do you choose the ancient dwelling to explain that the number is combined, and the number is one. 20 is a multiplier of ten.

Number. It is a two-phase family. The suture is double ten into one, and the head is broken. The mantissa is higher. into a united trend. It means prosperity. (Jane.)

It alone means that after counting three and ten on 20, it means climbing high every year).

Say too much, you may not understand it very well, 20 Double Ten get married. Not bad. But taboo zodiac gram attributes. Fire and water are invulnerable.

If you don't pay attention to it. It's fine. I have to get married this year, and I have a good life. Complete.

To be honest, I don't know about it, but I think it's a little bit hot, and it could be a little later.

Bless you all

Mid-Autumn Festival and National Day are good days, and August 8 and September 9 are very good.

My girlfriend's household registration is in Dujiangyan, and my household registration is in Guang'an, please ask if I need to issue a marriage certificate to prove that I am unmarried, and whether I can have the household registration books of both parties.

1. Conditions for marriage registration.

1. Both men and women must marry voluntarily (independently).

2. Marriage age: 22 years old for men and 20 years old for women.

3. Neither party has a spouse (unmarried, divorced, widowed).

4. There is no direct blood relationship between the two parties and collateral blood relatives within three generations (independent prompting).

2. Documents submitted for marriage registration.

1. My permanent residence book and resident ID card (one generation and two generations are acceptable).

2. I have no spouse.

3. The parties submit 3 2-inch recent half-length bareheaded color photos** (can be taken on the spot).

3. Procedures for marriage registration.

1. Both men and women who require marriage registration shall jointly apply to the marriage registration authority of the district or county-level civil affairs bureau (or town people**) of one party's permanent residence with the required documents.

2. Both parties shall apply in person to the marriage registration authority, and each shall fill in a "Declaration of Application for Marriage Celebration Deferral".

3. Both parties must sign or fingerprint in person in the "Declaration of Application for Marriage Registration" in front of the marriage registrar.

4. The marriage registration authority shall examine the documents and declarations submitted by both parties, and if the conditions for marriage registration are met, the registration shall be approved.

4. Time limit and fee standard for marriage registration.

1. Time limit for registration: If the documents and materials are complete, they will be registered on the spot and a marriage certificate will be issued.

- Happy Mid-Autumn Festival]!

All you need is your ID card, household registration book and money!