My mind is feeling lost? Feeling lost on yourself?

My mind feels confused, I think this method is not good, you have to be mentally focused every day, you can't spend every day in confusion, if this is the case, you will be decadent.

Your mind is confused because you don't have a goal and direction in life at all, and you don't have the motivation to struggle, you can set a long-term goal for yourself, and then divide it into short-term goals, and work hard step by step.

Everyone's life is not smooth sailing, and we sometimes feel very lost on the way forward. We feel disoriented, and we must think calmly. Define what you want to strive for.

The reason why your mind is still confused is because you don't have a rational working relationship or a relationship with others, so you should pay attention to strengthening your self-cultivation in the future.

Be sure to calm down, since you are confused, you have to communicate with Jiajia, especially your friends' parents can also do it!

Hello friend, I think there may be a period of time when everyone's mind may be more confused, full of confusion about the future, but I think we must be calm.

I think it's normal, because everyone's attitude towards life will change differently, so in this case, the mind and feeling very confused are actually encountered by everyone, so in this case, as long as you are firm in your own words, there is still a good path.

Brother, I saw the first sentence, I thought my friend wrote about my experience, and then looked back, it turned out to be about the same as me, I failed in high school, I went to the self-exam, four years of computer and application, I learned computer science, I graduated and went to do computer science for a year, and I also felt that I didn't learn anything, (now I understand, why I didn't learn, it's because we are too narrow-minded, just see this small circle around us, can't see things outside, don't know what to study, just know how to ask for money, and now I understand), Then I heard that Zhejiang Yiwu did ** more hanging, abandoned some, with a few months of salary, came to Zhejiang, after coming, I didn't know what to do, so I learned what kind of work ** have, the most basic packing, good, then pack, leave face, go to I said I was a primary school graduate, honest, work fast, did 2 months, during the period, in addition to the leadership of their company, understood the general e-commerce ** operation needs to do, and then resigned, went to a **tp company, After studying for 8 months, and then came out to do operations, during which the salary was only 1500, which is really not enough for this coastal place, but the first job I came out of was 6000, because I was confident, from the end of 10 years to the present, I made money, and then I felt that I was strong, so I did it myself, lost, at work, earned, at loss, well, I didn't go to work now, and I didn't do it myself, I reflected for two months, what should I do next, I saw you, we can't lose the original goal, What do we do this for, why do we keep failing, we don't give up, do you like this job? 95 people don't like what they want to do, if they like what they like to do, change them all, and they will find that they are not as good as before, and they are committed to doing something, and they like it, and they don't devote themselves to it, and the more they look at it, the more they do it, the more disgusted they are.

Could it be that when you find something that interests you and excites you, all your problems are solved? No.

If you feel lost, you have lost your bearings.

I think if your mind is confused, you can read more books, or make more friends and ask the teacher, so that you will not be lost.

If your mind feels confused, you can calm down and think about what makes you so confused, and you will be fine if you come out quickly.

If you feel lost, then you can talk to your elders or friends about why your confusion comes from, and let them help you solve your worries.

When you are very confused, you can read more extracurricular books to broaden your horizons.

Release yourself, think more about happy things, go out for a walk more, or listen more, and your thoughts will be slowly released.

I think if you want to feel lost right now, you should find a friend you trust the most at this time and talk to him about your confusion, so that it is convenient to enlighten you on this aspect.

If you feel very lost, then you can talk to some people, such as some elders or your teachers, so that you can answer your questions.

Establish your own goals in life and keep working towards them. That's fine, you won't get lost.

People sometimes experience some confusion, so it's understandable.

Sometimes when you feel lost, you can ask a friend to talk to and ask your friend to give you pointers.

Don't have no confidence in yourself, you have to know that successful people are lonely, so ah, study hard, enrich yourself is true, you must know that your current age is the most precious, the most beautiful age, miss it for a lifetime, know the truth, knowledge changes fate, study hard, and when you are excellent, you will naturally have more friends around you.

Everyone will be confused sometimes! Know yourself correctly.

Accept yourself and develop hobbies.

1. Learn to self-solve and give yourself confidence.

This is very important, a person's self-confidence still has a great impact on a person, whether it is in study, life, or in the vision of the future. So, when you feel lost, try to give yourself more confidence to feel that you are not the kind of person who is good for nothing, and that it is not particularly bad.

It's equivalent to autosuggestion. Confusion is mainly people who have nothing to do as a whole, do not know what to do and what they can do, have low self-esteem in their hearts, and have no confidence in their own abilities. Therefore, the first step is to be confident in yourself.

2. Find something for yourself.

You have to do it conscientiously, make a little achievement, comfort yourself, and tell yourself that you can do well and be responsible for your future. It's also a straightforward approach. As we mentioned earlier, most of the people who are confused are the kind of people who don't know what they should do and what they can do.

So, if you can prove that you can do something well, then you will have a lot less of that kind of thinking. In the same way, this practice can also give you a lot of encouragement and make yourself positive to get out of the confused mood.

3. Be your current self.

Try to keep yourself from thinking about the things that are too far away from you, and be your current self, as the saying goes, the boat will naturally go straight to the bridge. At that stage, you'll slowly know what to do. It's important that many of us live in the present moment and think aimlessly about what will happen in the long, long future.

When you think about it, you feel like you're so useless, you can't do anything. It's not healthy, and it's very harmful to you. You have to remember that being who you are is is your greatest responsibility.

If you can't even do it now, how can you support yourself in the future and make yourself successful? So, don't be too greedy, and don't too much of an unnecessary heart.

Although you feel like you are worthless now, life is always moving forward and changing, and whether you can get a job or not is not something you can know by thinking about it. Be your current self and live every minute and every second of your life, that's the most important thing.

4. Study hard.

In the end, it is to learn a little more things, some skills, many times the confusion is because their job is not easy to find, or can't find it, at this time if you have a little more talent, you will find that your employment is very wide, you will no longer be in the confusion.

One. Calm down and organize your thoughts.

Confusion and anxiety make me uneasy, and occasionally I lose control of my emotions, and whenever this happens, I know that I need to calm down. I will listen to some soothing **, find some famous books related to my interests on Douban to try to read, like to read, if you don't like it, change it, don't force it, don't force it. I will go to the gym to sweat, drink coffee in the café in the afternoon when the sun is just right, listen to my favorite **, write and draw to sort out my thoughts.

Do things that make you relax, and if you don't know what will make you relax, then go listen to the ** sweat.

Two. Write down a goal plan, 3-5 things.

After calming down, you can first think about what your dilemma and bottleneck are. For example, if you are not satisfied with your job, what soft skills will help you? From easy to difficult, 3-5 things, this thing can be to read a few books, you can go to a painting class, you can consider some relevant certificate exams when you are confused at work, big and small things.

However, this plan should not only be an empty and broad goal of reading books, exams, and writing articles, but also digitize and precise the goal. For example: reading 5 books, sketching an apple, traveling to three cities, etc.

If you just get caught up in your emotions and then self-loathing day after day, it's just a vicious circle that won't help you now. If you can solve this matter, then you can solve it, grit your teeth, and you can get through anything.

You need calm solitude. One of the things I've come to understand over the years is that a lot of times, being able to "don't do" is more important than "what to do".

When people are confused, it is often because they have lost their direction to the future, they don't know where they should go, and they don't know what they should do.