What skills do you need to talk to a woman?

That is, some things that happen from your side, so that to a certain extent, you can make girls feel that you are well-informed, but this can't be too much, because once a certain degree is passed, it will make girls feel that you are deliberately showing yourself, but it will make girls feel bad. Or talk about some constellations, and then use the relationship between the constellations, and then talk about the two of you constellations, and then you can shorten the distance between you to a certain extent. Or talk about some movies, talk about the scenes in this movie, and then complain about the characters, box office or something.

You can usually talk about a hot drama, or chase a star at the same time, when you see relevant dynamics, you develop the habit of discussing, and she will habitually tell you the relevant dynamics she sees in the future. I have a colleague who is chasing a girl, both of them have dogs, so I asked him to talk to the girl more about pet-related topics, and occasionally send cute pets to the girl, or domesticated pet articles to the girl, slowly, the girl will also send him some similar information. As soon as they came and went, they developed a sense of connection and soon came together.

If a girl asks you a question, you don't have to go very completely, because you are very regular, it seems that the two of you are strangers, and you must give the girl a feeling that you are very familiar, so that the girl will feel that you are really a person she is familiar with, and this can also arouse the girl's interest in you. Don't think that self-blackening is low emotional intelligence, this is a humorous and modest way of speaking in the eyes of girls, and girls will feel very comfortable after listening to it, but remember that self-blackening is not self-deprecation, these are two completely different concepts.

You can be more open when chatting, don't pay too much attention to certain topics, you can be more confident and generous when chatting, and don't squirm like a shy child and don't know what to say. Everyone is an adult, and chatting as a boy is so unresolute will make girls feel very girly, and such men and women will not like it, so you have to change yourself.

It's inevitable to talk to girls about deep topics, but you have to pay attention to your own way, if you want to talk to girls about this kind of topic very directly, then the girl will directly block you and think that there is something wrong with you. But if you talk in a tactful way, then the girl will discuss with you instead of hating you, which is also an important skill.

If you want a girl to have a good impression of you, the most important thing is to be patient and want to attract you instantly, either you are handsome and golden, or honestly take the time to build comfort, so that the girl feels that you are easy to get along with and will not put pressure on her, and the girl will be willing to further investigate you, make an appointment with you, and see if you are suitable to be together.

Many brothers get the purpose wrong when they start chatting with girls, and many brothers think that the purpose of chatting is to exchange information with her and understand each other's living conditions. These are actually just appendages of chatting, and the real girls are all about transforming chat into understanding of the feelings of both parties. Because before you are getting to know each other, you need to have a good feeling, and only after you have a certain feeling for each other, you can exchange information with each other is a more perfect state.

When boys and girls are chatting, have a sense of humor. A boy's humor is equivalent to a girl's good figure, and she has an irresistible attraction to the opposite sex.

The first point is to have a happy mindset and a sense of contentment. Humor is first and foremost about being happy and satisfied with your own life. If you don't feel happy and satisfied with your life, then how can you be humorous?

With a positive attitude towards life and being satisfied with yourself, you have the foundation of humor.

The second point is to accumulate good humorous jokes. Read more joke books, humorous short **, cross talk, variety channels, etc., and watching more of these things over the years can improve your sense of humor. There are also popular words on the Internet, accumulate jokes that suit you, and then show them on yourself.

You can imitate at first, and slowly you will have your own ideas.

The third point is not to be stingy with your expressions. A lot of times your words are not as useful as your expressions, you can appropriately imitate the expressions on the Internet, which can make people feel that you are not very dull, and very funny, and many times the funny effect of these expressions is more useful than what you say.

The fourth point is to have reverse thinking. Unconventional contrarian thinking can have surprising effects. For example, if a girl says hello, the general regular reply is also hello, and the abnormal reply is that I am not good.

It's quite formal, and it's like a blind date. For example, if a girl asks if she has eaten, the general reply is that she has eaten or not, then the unconventional one will have an advantage, I say you won't invite me if you don't eat, or I say I have eaten, do you plan to invite me to eat again?

The fifth point is to have unexpected thinking. Something unexpected, but reasonable. For example, when I went to eat hot and sour noodles, I said to the boss, I am not very good at eating sour, you must not put too much vinegar, just put a bottle.

For example, you tell a girl that your watery eyes are so beautiful, especially those attractive eyelashes.

When chatting with women, don't ask others about their age, work or family situation, otherwise they will be disgusted.

First of all, you have to find out what topic the woman is interested in, so that you have a grasp of the other person's topic, so you can take the initiative to chat with the other person.

Whether you're talking to a man or a woman, you need to make the other person happy so that he will be willing to talk to you.

If you want to have a good chat, you must know what kind of way women prefer.

The key is to understand other people's minds and not talk about things that shouldn't be said.

Tips for chatting and talking with women:

1. Increase your sense of humor

Usually watch more comedy or humor star performances, and try to imitate their fierce performances to enhance your sense of humor.

2. Learn small routines

Watch more sci-fi or sci-fi films, don't just watch them, familiarize yourself with and even remember some of the above pictures and sentence descriptions, and enhance your ability to describe. Read more jokes, all kinds of jokes, get familiar with all kinds of routines, and accumulate some in case you need to use one or two when chatting.

3. Learn to summarize and excavate

Even if it's a small thing that seems insignificant, turn it into a lively and interesting story.

4. Walk into her heart

If you want a girl to be impressed by you, it's not enough to just understand her personality and preferences, you have to go into her inner world and know what color world she is in her heart.

Some girls look cheerful and lively on the surface, with sharp language and boundless pride, but do you know that her heart is sad, and there may be some inferiority, at this time, you have to walk into her heart and listen to the call of her heart. Boys, you have to remember that no matter what kind of girl you are, no one will like a boy who doesn't understand your own heart.

5. Understand the girl's character

If you want girls not to dislike you and remember you, you must understand the girl's personality. She's quiet, she's impatient, she's inward-looking, she's cheerful, or she's sentimental, you have to understand what kind of girl she is.

On the contrary, you don't know her character, you chatter when you meet a girl who laughs quietly, and you show your melancholy talent when you meet a cheerful girl who has no foundation, I don't think many girls will remember you.

Chatting with women, if you want to achieve good communication results, you also have skills. Then there are the following tips when chatting with girls:

1. Don't have a "check the account" type of confession.

It is a variety of inquiries, the other party's personal situation, family situation, etc., which is embarrassing to ask and answer, which will lead to the content and atmosphere of the chat, boring and boring, seriously destroying the good feeling between two people, and unable to fundamentally mobilize the enthusiasm of the other party.

2. Don't talk awkwardly when you can't talk.

It's normal to encounter an awkward atmosphere when chatting, because in addition to each other's minds, it also depends on the situation, environment, mood, needs, and so on. Therefore, the more awkward the conversation, the more you force yourself to find a topic, or continue to talk about something lukewarm, which is not nutritious and fun, it will only backfire.

3. Don't change anything through disputes.

It is normal for people to like and approve of things differently, and two people should respect and accept each other together, including opinions and opinions on a certain thing. You can't always insist that everything you do is right, and affirm that the other person's understanding is wrong, which is contrary to the comfortable feeling.

4. Try to say as little as possible and let the other party say more.

You have to understand that in this world, most people like to listen to people are welcome. The more the other person talks to you, the more you talk, the easier and faster it is to develop a special emotion. And when the other party is talking, don't interrupt at every turn, and show that you are listening carefully.

If chatting is a baton game, it's important to know how to pass it.

5. Know how to respond to each other, don't be perfunctory.

Especially on mobile phones, when chatting through some social software, try to avoid all single-word replies, a "oh" word, and the effect of the word "oh" is not the same. The former will only make people understand as perfunctory, indifferent, impatient, and in the end they don't want to say anything and lose interest.