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I can't do it, I feel so embarrassed, I can't do it! At least I can't!
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Vary! If you love deeply, then it is impossible to be friends!
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Let go of her, and let go of yourself!
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After a breakup, it's absolutely impossible to be friends again, that's for sure.
Everyone has a little bit of heart, especially if you break up with her, but you're just friends, and you see her kissing me and me, you can be especially sad.
So you must not be friends again after a breakup. Neither nor no. Take care!
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Yes, just let it go.
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I don't think I can't, I can't stand it anyway.
As the saying goes, out of sight is pure, and if it's me, go and see who else is possible, and leave her alone, do what she should do, and don't waste time and energy on things that don't make sense.
Purely personal opinion.
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Of course not! Because they have hurt each other. But you can't be enemies, because you love each other deeply. You can only be the most familiar stranger.
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In fact, no one can say that this is a good thing, because this is a matter of two people, if you really love her, then why break up and be friends, then if she proposes to break up with you first, then it is impossible to be friends, because she must not love you either!
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No, so you can't start your new life. I agree with a third friend.
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If you really love her, then you can't be friends.
If you want to be friends, you can wait until a few years later
When you see her, it's like you've seen a friend you haven't seen in years.
You've made it
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Yes, but are you sure you really love her?
Are you sure she can talk to you so selflessly?
If it doesn't work, give up.
But you're a boy.
So. Be proactive first.
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Summary. 1) Never loved.
Even if you become friends, you won't affect her. In fact, for her, you don't have to make a friend, maybe it's just polite, maybe it's because you have the same circle of friends for fear of embarrassment, or because of the sense of indebtedness in your heart, I want to give you a face and make you feel better.
Characteristics: When you are together, you don't take the initiative to express that she loves you.
No possessiveness, no jealousy for you.
Rarely pay for you, take the initiative to ask you.
Emotions are calm and flat when they break up.
2) You still have value in you.
She doesn't have a sense of "love" for you anymore, but because you can be an excellent person, a useful person. She still wants to keep in touch with you so that when you ask for help in the future, you can think about the old feelings.
There is also a possibility that you are too good to her, and although she does not want to be in love with you again, she still wants to enjoy this goodness.
Features: Often praise you when you're together.
In some ways, you and she are particularly complementary.
She will often ask you to do her a favor or take you out to a party.
When you break up, you are more decent and generous, and you care about your emotional feelings.
The true meaning of being friends after a breakup for a woman.
1) Never loved. Even if you become friends, you won't affect her. In fact, for her, you don't have to make a friend, maybe it's just polite, maybe it's because you have the same circle of friends for fear of embarrassment, or because of the sense of indebtedness in your heart, I want to give you a face and make you feel better.
Characteristics: When you were together, she didn't take the initiative to express that she loved you, she was not possessive, she didn't be jealous of you, she rarely paid for you, and she was calm and flat when she took the initiative to ask you to break up2) You still have use value. She doesn't have a sense of "love" for you anymore, but because you can be an excellent person, a useful person.
She still wants to keep in touch with you so that when you ask for help in the future, you can think about the old feelings. There is also a possibility that you are too good to her, and although she does not want to be in love with you again, she still wants to enjoy this goodness. Features:
When you are together, she often praises you for being particularly complementary to her in some aspects, often asks you to help her, or takes you out to a party, is more decent and generous when you break up, and cares about your emotional feelings.
3) During the run-in period, I love you too much to leave a way out for the compound, but I am too tired to get along with you. At this time, breaking up is often a disappointment and exhaustion for you, which is an evasive behavior. Maybe she still cares about everything about you, but she doesn't want to be there for you as a partner anymore.
Characteristics: When you are together, she always says "too tired", she gradually decreases her initiative towards you, and the other party has clearly expressed her dissatisfaction with you, and has a relatively clear reason for the breakup4) The temptation after the emotional breakup may be to get your attention by breaking up, but she is afraid that you will give up completely, so she says to be friends first. In fact, this situation is often that the other party cares too much about you, and it is often a fake breakup to see if you can get used to such repeated temptations.
Characteristics: She is insecure, emotionally repetitive, she always expresses her love for each other in an uncomfortable way, and often breaks up to blackmail you, and the scene is more tragic when you break up.
Hope it helps.
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I think there are two possibilities for girls to be friends after breaking up, one is that the girl doesn't like you, and the other is that the girl doesn't want to hurt you, if the girl doesn't want to hurt you, she will be friends with you, if it's the first case, then you have to reflect on your own behavior. If it's the second case, it's that there's hope between you. If it's the second case, then you can give it a try.
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It's best not to be friends again after a breakup, it will add a lot of trouble to yourself. Unless you still love each other and want to go back to the past.
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According to common sense, you can't be friends anymore, which is also a responsible attitude for your future life.
If you have to ask this question simply, the answer is, of course, yes, but in Wen Qing's opinion.
The probability of this kind of thing happening in college is very high, and everyone has different ways to face it, and they have all come over, but you make me feel funny, of course, what is really funny is that he is not you, I appreciate your character, it belongs to the kind of person who can afford to take it, can put it down, and has a charm and generosity that only boys have, so you choose to face him generously like a friend, what I didn't expect is that he had such a reaction, maybe you are too kind, thinking about him, So I don't know how it's supposed to be when we meet every day, and it feels like you're asking this question for him, because you've already found your way, haven't you? So, that's good, you treat him as he is, find a time to talk to him, tell him your thoughts and your current environment clearly, let him know how to do it, if he doesn't want to talk, then you write him a note or send a message or something, tell him that you want to be friends with him, don't be a lover, you must get along like an enemy, use your mentality to drive him, and use your identity as a friend to understand why he is like this? Maybe he has some misunderstanding about you in some way that makes him want to break up, or does he ignore you?
I think you're still young, you shouldn't fall in love, good boy, when you get into a good high school and then a good university, how many better men will there be? Besides, you are still young and don't understand love, and simple love is not love, I hope what my sister said will help you. Later, when you grow up, you will find that liking and loving are really two different things. >>>More
Theoretically, it's okay.,But it's too difficult to really want to deal with it so well.,After all, people who used to be in love.,Suddenly become friends.,It's a little unaccustomed.,The most difficult thing to control is your own feelings.。。。 However, if you handle it appropriately, don't contact each other too much at first, and then consider being good friends when you have a new lover on each other, or when you have been able to treat each other as ordinary friends from the bottom of your heart.
Don't do it, there is no point in hope.