Why men and women eat together 99 99 cases are paid by men

Then why do men and women live together, and women suffer?

**Ah, I don't pay if I don't have money, I spend her money if I love her, this sentence makes sense, it's not that I'm reluctant, it's better to spend a little once in a while, just say you don't have money! What do you see?

When are you talking about the situation? I want to see where to eat, to see what your relationship is When I used to chase my girlfriend, it was every time I gave it, but when I got it, she didn't want me to spend too much money, so when I went to M Ji or KFC, it was AA I gave it when I went to other restaurants

Unless it's my sister, I will never let a woman buy it. Doesn't seem to be a man enough...

Because if the woman pays the bill, he will feel faceless. What's more, men will think that women are inherently cheap. It's like a woman who wants to carry a bag upstairs, thinking that she is amazing, and you can't help her.

Men will think, how can this woman be like this, like a man, thankless.

But if it's a colleague, it's going to be polite, don't you think?

First, men have a good face.

Second, the social climate.

Third, in general, a woman can go out to eat with a man, and this man is richer than this woman, so.

Fourth, for better development in the future.

Fifth, love.

Because men love face.

Probably this is a traditional concept and custom of the Chinese people, and a manly man should be responsible. In fact, there is no rule that men must pay for meals! The key is to look at the relationship between the two people?

Generally speaking, boys themselves feel that they should have a so-called gentlemanly demeanor in front of girls, and some boys think that when they go out to eat, girls take the initiative to pay when they feel that they have no face. If a boy invites a girl to go out on a date, he is not generous for fear of being laughed at by the girl and gossip, I think that if the two develop into a relationship, it is not good to let the boy pay every time! If AA seems too blunt and unreliable, it is completely possible for both parties to invite each other to dinner occasionally, and couples with a better relationship can put their money together and go out to spend so that the boy can pay, which not only gives the man enough face, but also makes both parties very happy!

Of course, some girls with low emotional intelligence think that boys should pay, so that some boys have to slap their swollen faces and become fat. There are also some thick-skinned girls who think men should be.

If it is an ordinary friend relationship, of course, it should be a turn to invite dinner, and the most basic etiquette exchange must be understood, and it cannot be said that boys should pay.

If it's the first time you meet on a blind date, haha this, it's that the boy has to take the initiative, the girl doesn't have to eat, but mainly depends on your emotional intelligence? In short, whether it is a boyfriend or a girlfriend or a couple, there is nothing worth dating to people who are in and out. Etiquette is also a traditional custom, no one owes anyone, and the basic rules of life should still be there.

In terms of face, the waiter generally sees that the male customer pays for it, and if the woman pays for it, others will think that the man is unproductive, and it costs the woman's money to eat.

It shows the economic status and the importance and respect for girls, but with the growth of women's economic status, there are more and more independent women, and their ideas and concepts have become different. Many women are willing to accept the AA system or the girls are paying for it.

China's fine tradition, men should be generous. Otherwise, you will be looked down upon, so most of the money in China is managed by women. Because the man is too generous, the money will be lost as soon as he treats him to dinner.

Men should be generous, so when a man and a woman eat together, they should show a gentlemanly demeanor and pay the bill, so that they can show the tacit understanding between the two people.

Because men always invite girls to dinner for various reasons in order to coax girls, men are always paying.

When I used to go to school, I fell in love with my boyfriend, because everyone was a student, basically he invited once, and next time I invited him, everyone took turns. Or he asks twice, and next time I will offer to say that I will pay.

A few years later, I fell in love with a boy who was already working, and I was a student at the time. Every time, he pays the bill, it's not that I don't take the initiative, but he doesn't want me to pay.

Once, when I was at school, I fell in love with my boyfriend because they were both students and he invited me once. Next time I'll invite him. Everyone has changed.

Next time, I'll take the initiative to say I'll pay the bill. A few years later, I fell in love with a boy who was already working, when I was a student. It's not that I don't take the initiative, it's that he doesn't want me to pay.

Not necessarily, women also pay.

In the past, when I was in school, I fell in love with my boyfriend. Because everyone is a student, he basically invited me once. Next time, I invited him.

Everyone takes turns. Or he invited me twice. Next time, I'll take the initiative to say I'll pay the bill.

A few years later, I fell in love with a boy who was already working. At that time, I was still a student. He pays the bill every time.

It's not that I don't take the initiative, it's that he doesn't want me to pay.

Why do boys and girls who make friends have to pay for when they go out to spend?

Answer: For the two people who are dating, the man has to be generous when he has a girlfriend, and he has to save face for himself and the woman, most of the friends are just to find a support, and the man pays for it to show himself But there are many people who don't necessarily let the man pay.

2014-02-17 Author: Know 3 netizens.

Why do boys have to pay for going out to eat? If you don't buy it, you don't have the grace? Abroad.

Answer: Boys have to pay for going out to eat, and if you don't buy it, you have no grace, which is a Chinese custom and tradition. In addition, from the perspective of boys and girls.

Boys have to take the initiative to find a girlfriend, while girls can't take the initiative to find a boyfriend. If a girl is not in good condition and takes the initiative to invite a boy to eat, the boy will not want to eat.

2021-07-11 Author: 1 10 in the suburbs of the city.

When you go out to dinner with your girlfriend, is the man paying every time?

A: I think when two people are in love, they should pay in turns. Maybe many boys will feel that they must pay for themselves when they go out to eat with their girlfriends because they want to save face, otherwise they will look very stingy.

So when we first got along, I thought it would be like this, because girls still have to take care of the boys' side a little.

2019-11-15 By: Sichuan Wantong Automobile School 4 7

When couples eat together, should the man pay for it?

A: In today's society where men and women are equal, it should depend on the situation. If you are not particularly familiar with each other, but have only met a few times, you don't have to pay for the boy, and the AA system for both parties is also a reasonable choice.

Although it is said that boys should be more generous in paying, but now that society has advocated equality between men and women, and the economy has developed relatively quickly, and the economic independence of girls is also relatively high.

2020-07-05 Author: Do you eat spicy strips 2 5 pcs.

In China, why are men and women generally paid for dating?

Q: Why do men and women check out when they are dating in China?

A: I think that in the men's and women's dating and laughing calendars, the boys pay more and the girls pay less, because in China, the boys subconsciously pay generously and gentlely. In foreign countries, men and women go out to date the AA system, in their opinion, the equality of men and women is a very reasonable phenomenon, and they don't understand the payment of Chinese men.

The two ideas are different, and the two cultures are also different.

For two people who are dating.

Men, if you have a girlfriend, you have to be generous, and in order to save face for yourself.

As for women, most of them make friends just to find a support, and letting men pay is also to show themselves.

However, there are also many situations that do not necessarily make men pay, and now they are slowly changing, and people are different from person to person, and they vary from person to person. There are many girls who are not only willing to AA system, but even take the initiative to buy gifts for their boyfriends than boys. Of course, there are many girls who think that boys should pay, which is a difference of opinion.

Moreover, most boys are embarrassed to let girls pay, and most of the time, they take the initiative to pay, worrying that they have no grace and that they will be ridiculed. What's wrong with this society now? If a man wants to get married, he has to have a house and a car, and the man pays for chasing girls to fall in love and go out on a date, and AA people also say that you are stingy.

Is this called equality between men and women? To put it mildly, these women's rights in China.

is basically pastoral feminism, which is not at all the same as those feminists who really fight for equal rights between men and women. It's a group of social moths who are incapable of themselves and count on profiting from their gender advantage every day.

One bite of straight male cancer.

screamed, and didn't look at what kind of thing he was.

I don't think it's to say that the man can't spend money on dating, and it's normal for the man to take the initiative to spend money when he goes out to eat or watch a movie occasionally, but this is not a reason for you to buy all kinds of luxury goods and let the guy spend money for you. Falling in love abroad is AA, and if you want to help the woman pay, the woman will feel that you don't respect her. She is also an adult, and she also has independent financial ability, why does Cong Kongxin want you to pay?

I think this kind of value is correct, this is called equality between men and women, and the man who goes out to date pays the bill, which is not equal rights.

And what is happening in the country now? I fell in love with this 2w bag, do you buy it for me, don't you love me if you don't buy it for me? It's called falling in love?

Why don't you just sell it? What's the difference? A friend of mine talked to a girlfriend last year, and his salary was only four or five thousand a month, and now he asks us to borrow money every month, just because his girlfriend is vain, all kinds of luxuries, and his consumption is very high.

I'm really afraid that this will ruin him! He owes 3,000 to me right now, and I don't know how much she owes in total right now. Just because of this, I really lament the distortion of social values now.

Is it the man who is too stupid or the woman who is too vain?

Although now it is a finch to say that men and women are equal. It's just lip service. It's a form of propaganda.

But in fact, this society is still a patriarchal society. It reflects that the hail is early, the man is still strong, some are still weak, and the sex is still weaker. Both physically and psychologically.

Is it unequal between men and women who eat together and default to men paying?

It is often inevitable to go out to eat with friends and lovers in life, and every time "who will pay" becomes a problem.

**。Some people think that of course, it is up to the man to pay, and the man who asks the girl to buy the Jane Sun is picking the door. Just like in "Ode to Joy", Qiu Yingying's boyfriend didn't pay after eating, but Qiu Yingying came to pay, and the boss was complained by Fan Shengmei.

**。But is it really natural for a boy to pay?

Another part of the people said that it depends on the relationship, ordinary friends are AA system, the boy between the couple pays the bill, and the marriage money is put together, and whoever pays the bill is the same.

There are also some people who say that no matter what the situation, it must be AA system.

**。In a society where men and women are equal, it is not appropriate to "genderize" certain things, such as eating.

Boys don't take care of it because of face, of course, they can do their best within the chain of the fan that they can bear, and girls don't think that men should pay for it, and they can also take the initiative to ask for it.

**。In the case of their respective financial independence, should the boy and the girl eat together, should the boy pay for it?

Is it unequal to the social default that men and women eat together and that men pay for it?

Unmarried boys pay. After marriage, it is all paid by the girl. So get married early.

The woman is unconscious! Girls consciously won't let boys pay. Boys don't go out with girls next time.

Haha too, if it's a woman who pays every time, then next time he asks a girl to come out, no one will come out to play with him, and it's a routine for men to spend money.

A way to show affection.

Most men still think that it is normal for men to pay for their meals when they eat with women. This is actually an expression of one's love for women. Most men still don't mind letting themselves pay for it.

On the contrary, there are times when the two eat together, and the woman pays for it herself, and the man will feel hit, that is, he is looked down upon by the woman, and he feels that his self-esteem has been trampled on. Therefore, for this question, in fact, it is also a matter of opinion, and only a small number of people will be confused, and most men will still take the initiative to pay.

Financial capacity. In terms of careerism, women are obviously less ambitious than men, and women will choose to return to the family. In terms of income, most women still have lower incomes than men.

So in terms of the Pichun economy, men's income is higher than that of women.

Therefore, when consuming, men will unconsciously pay the bill, wanting to express their economic strength in front of women, so that women can rest assured about the future of the two. In fact, the man also indirectly shows that I have the financial ability to make you happy and better in the future, and I want to pursue the signal sent by the woman.

Habit dictates socks.

After the two are together, the man pays when he consumes, which is actually a conventional thing, and it can also be said to be a matter of habit. Men are responsible for making money to support their families, women are responsible for being beautiful like flowers, and women just love to buy and buy things.

If a man loves this woman and wants to live a better and happier life for a woman, he will definitely not mind burning the patience to pay for the woman when he is willing to spend, and the man is actually happy to pay.

Therefore, when men pay, it does not mean that women force men to pay, in fact, men are also very happy in their hearts. It is understandable that a small number of men have gotten into the horns of the bull, like to be more serious, and they don't want to pay for women's consumption. This matter can be solved by men and women after discussing it, and it can be solved if there is a discussion.