I m out of love, but I always think about getting back together with her, how can I not be sad and s

There is no absolute answer to this question.

In my life, there are people who don't get along with each other after a breakup, there are people who get back together a few years after a breakup, and there are people who are good friends after a breakup.

The key is to look at the relationship between the two of you, if you break up peacefully and each other's character is good, then there is no need to be stiff, of course you can be friends. If there is still one party obsessed and the other party is no longer willing to turn back, it is better to deal with it coldly.

At the same time, we should treat some of each other's concerns appropriately, if it has been decided that it is impossible to be together, and each other has new pursuits, turn these concerns into normal care between friends, rather than ambiguity, otherwise it will make many people tired. If they both miss each other and don't empathize with each other, it's not impossible to get back together.

You can try to take the initiative, if he still doesn't respond clearly, if you really still love him and can't let go, then you just have to wait, wait quietly, wait for him to give a result, or come back to you, or have another lover, then you also know what to do.

My own relationship is like this, I broke up for four years and got back together, and I was also concerned about each other, but they were both relatively passive, and it took time to see if I really couldn't let go of each other, so it dragged on for so long.

However, everyone's feelings are different, so it's up to you to grasp a degree.

Love is a sad fairy tale.

Anyone who has read it has left regrets to a greater or lesser extent, and when we finish reading it, we will understand a truth, that is, in the world of love, fate dominates everything. It doesn't hurt when we give up someone who loves you very much.

Because we are likely to have a relationship with this person but have no part, and it is painful when we give up someone you love very much.

Because it is very likely that we have a relationship with this person but have no relationship, when we fall in love with someone who does not love you, that is the most painful, because it is very likely that we have no relationship with this person and have no part. If there is fate, time and space are not distances, if there is no fate, even if they get together, they can't understand, you don't have to care too much about everything, and you don't need to force it.

Let's just let everything go with the flow.

Dream slamming.

2.It is recommended to talk to people who are sympathetic, unless the person who persuades you has a high emotional intelligence, there are few people who can really empathize with you and talk about your heart, but people who are sympathetic, you think that you will feel that it is not only your ex who is like this, and it turns out that I am not the only one who broke up like this, so it will be much better, the way is to go to the group of your boyfriend's constellation to chat, and go to the lovelorn group to chat.

3.Addicted to work, love is not bread, unless you say that without this love, you would rather die.

Think about whether there is anyone around you who you think is similar to your boyfriend, and if your energy is not low enough that no one is interested in you, you might as well shift your mind a little.

Only when the connection is disconnected, will he realize that you don't seem to care about him so much, and then his thinking will be reversed, and the expression will go away, and the subconscious will come back and remember your true attraction again. Only then will there be a chance to turn the tables.

Don't mess around with a good deck of cards.

After the disconnection, if the other party tempts you from time to time and asks you about your current situation, it means that your opportunity has come. But don't want you to pounce on the other party as soon as you come back, then you will definitely die, because the disconnection causes the other party's energy to be low, and as soon as you counterattack, his energy will immediately become higher again, and he will not feel that he has really lost you.

People are very cheap, the only thing you can do after a breakup is to become stronger than the other party, I am not only talking about appearance, earning ability, knowledge, hobbies, etc., the most important thing is mental strength. If you are not afraid of losing him, and you feel that you can find something better than him, then you are strong even if your objective attractiveness is low.

Falling out of love will bring me a little sad emotion, and there is no way to face it, and it is not like revealing the truth about my abandonment. At this time, it should be painful for both you and him. If you mess around at this time, it may not be able to play a compound role.

For couples who have just fallen out of love, discomfort should be all the right to speak, there is nothing to say about their feelings, say they don't love anymore, but their painful appearance betrays their hearts, saying that they still love, but there is no way to continue to be together. So at this time, don't easily mention the reunion in front of the other party, at that time he should only think of your badness. So it is not recommended to get back together with him at this time.

As a person who has been in love, I will tell you about my own experience, and I remember really accepting the fact that I cried when I first broke up, and I couldn't eat when I was sad, but I also had to face these facts. At this time, when I went to tell him to get back together, he just thought I was a joke.

It doesn't matter who says the breakup, what matters is the relationship between you that can withstand such a test. If your relationship is really deep, then such a small breakup can also start over. As long as you go to him after a period of time, after his mood has calmed down, he will see things that you didn't have before, full of memories, and this is the best time to get back together.

If your relationship has been squeezed out little by little over the years, then no matter what, the memories of the two people are unhappy, and there is no need to start over. So the methods are all for people with feelings. Whether you can succeed or not depends on the relationship between you, and whether it is worth such retention.

It's not terrible to fall out of love, it's terrible to be the right person, but in your own vexatious troubles, he lost confidence in you little by little, and he didn't have the kind of love he had at the beginning, such a person can't be said to be pitiful, but can only be said to be sad. Even if you try to keep it, it may not give you a chance. The feelings you asked first have been shattered in your own hands.

Every relationship starts for a reason, and on the contrary, there is a reason for you to separate, so when you want to keep it, remember to take a good look at your shortcomings, so that you can better keep him back.

After a few days, I'm sure your boyfriend will come back on his own

In the final analysis, the most important thing is really to shape yourself, and believe that gold will always shine!

There was once a relationship, and during the breakup, the other party had a problem with a new love. New love is floating clouds, that's my opinion. Why?

Because if the charm value of the new love is higher than yours, he can find a better one than you in a short time, which means that you are in danger together and have nothing to do with the new love. If he just uses it to vent excess energy, you don't have to worry about it, and after venting, he will naturally break up, whether it's yours or yours.

Now I want to have a reunion here, what did I do in the first place, I knew why I had to do it today! Some people are born cheap, thinking about breaking up when they are together, and when they really break up, they regret it and want to get back together with their ex. Now that you're thinking about how to get back together, then I'll teach you, first of all, you can think carefully about the reasons for the breakup at that time. For what, exactly? You may have broken up because of a fight, but why did you fight?

Is it because your portals are not compatible, or is it because your three views do not agree? Whether or not these reasons for the breakup can be resolved is something you must do before you move on to the next step, otherwise, even if you get back together, you may not be able to last long.

In addition, you can go to his place of work or explore the wind with her good friends, but watching "The First Half of My Life" on this day, I feel that my girlfriend is not very reliable, and some people are thoughtful and you really can't guess him, so it depends on the person, and sometimes the girlfriend can be on the top!

If you are always grinding and chirping, it may not be successful in the end, it is better to ask him out directly to talk, you have to express regret, but you can't force him to settle things immediately, so that he will generally fail and someone will always be embarrassed to meet again.

I feel like there are a lot of lovelorn people in the group recently, and I look at a loss. LZ has a buddy who has talked to more than 20 girlfriends, and I asked him about any emotional problems before, but then I stopped asking, because I combined his experience to find a set of patterns. I don't dare to say that what I say is authoritative, but at least I and the people around me are more useful, and I haven't seen anything beyond my model, if there is, welcome to come along**.

For lovelorn people, what they hope most is to get back together. So I want to talk about how you can get back together.

People who want to get back together, I never ask you why you broke up. Parents don't agree, long-distance problems, inappropriate personality, too busy and not in a good state, you are very good but I don't deserve it, these reasons are just the appearance, and in the end, the root cause is because the other party doesn't love you enough. If you are attractive enough, you are the only one in the other party's heart, no matter what the reason, he will not want to give up on you, unless you don't want the other party, but such a situation will torture the other party to death.

Why? Because that's human nature. At the beginning, the two people feel very good, that is the most essential attraction, if the powerful person can keep this state, and even use the deepening of the relationship to make the other party more inseparable from themselves, then only the attraction is more powerful.

The reason for the breakup is that the attraction of the two of you is out of balance, and the other person is becoming more and more attractive to you, while your attraction to him is weakening. The most common situation is that you are preoccupied with spending time with the other person, his energy is constantly increasing, and your abilities are weakening all the time. No matter who is stronger in your objective attraction, you will have a sense of expression to tell each other, oh, it turns out that I am so good in your heart, his mental strength will also increase, and because of your low energy, not only will your attractiveness be reduced, but also weaken the social interaction around you, this is what we often say, why you are out of love, there are boys to talk to, and you are not very willing to know.

How can people get back together? It's okay to say that it's okay to get back together, and it's good to see if you are sincere enough to impress her?

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I can't let go of falling out of love and want to get back together, but I have encountered a lot of problems before, and the other party doesn't really want to solve them, but I still like them, because falling out of love is a difficult time, understand your feelings. When faced with the decision to reunite, it is important to have in-depth communication with the other person. Be honest about your feelings and desires and listen to the other person's opinions and perspectives.

At the same time, listen to the other person's questions and concerns to see if there is a solution. I hope mine can help you <>

<> fell out of love, couldn't let go, and wanted to get back together, but I encountered a lot of problems before, and the other party didn't want to solve them very much, but I still liked it.

Hello dear<>

I can't let go of falling out of love and want to get back together, but I have encountered a lot of problems before, and the other party doesn't really want to solve them, but I still like them, because falling out of love is a difficult time, understand your feelings. When faced with the decision to reunite, it is important to have in-depth communication with the other person. Be honest about your feelings and desires and listen to the other person's opinions and perspectives.

At the same time, listen to the other person's questions and concerns to see if there is a solution. I hope mine can help you <>

<> for your situation, you should find a suitable opportunity to talk to him in detail and have a good chat.

But he was very good to me at the beginning, but then he changed, and then he quarreled and didn't solve the problem, and he couldn't ask him if he wanted to, saying that he didn't care and cared, and he didn't care if he said he cared, and he always talked about straight men, and now I don't know how.

He often makes mistakes, and every time I say many, many times, and he doesn't listen, and then I lose my temper and argue with him, and then he thinks I'm talking too much, or something.

And now it's split, and it's disconnected.

Because his concept of individualism is very powerful.

You don't have to say it a lot, just find a suitable time, communicate with him when the atmosphere is just right, and communicate well.

Then what mistakes he makes every time, you can tell me, and I will give you a suitable solution.

For example, I know how to play games after going to work all day long, I said I wanted him to spend more time with me, and he got angry, and then I told him well, and he said that I quarreled with him every day, and the relationship with our friends was very vague, but my friend ignored him because of him, and he even crossed the friend boundary with my friend, and then loved to listen to my friend's mouth, and then felt that I was a little annoyed.

That means that your boyfriend is very uncomfortable with your attitude.

Because he doesn't want to really get to know you, but just listen to the perspective of your friend.

My friend said the same thing, and then I was thinking about what to do.

Is it convenient for voice communication over there?

Our ** communication will better understand some of your situations, and then the teacher will give you a suitable solution to these situations, and also make your relationship to a higher level.

You can trust me completely, I'm a psychology major, and as a respondent, this situation is very common, and it's very easy to deal with.