Emotionally a little annoyed, please give some advice,,Thank you!!!

Hello! I don't think it's okay if the two of them are too far apart.

Sometimes I want to have it when I don't have it, and I don't want to pull it when I pull it for a long time.

Perhaps this is human curiosity.

It is said that it is unlikely that the current society will not be a door-to-door society.

Here are my thoughts.

Think about it, this is a big event in your life.

Think twice. Time is diluted from the past.

I already know that we can't be together.

Why force yourself?

It was clear that he couldn't be with him.

That means you two don't have to be together.

So. You forget that he should be soon.

Block him ! Hide him at the bottom of your heart! Giving up is also love!

When you're about to get married, you shouldn't have such an idea! Since you know that you and him have no hope, why do you still have a souvenir? ~！

Bitter yourself like this! Time will dilute everything! Have a good life with your boyfriend!

I can't forget it at all, I can only dilute it, because after all, I once had, let him become a memory, maybe he also found a good home, I don't understand a little, how can you get married if you don't have deep feelings, isn't that a repeat of your farce, marriage should be carefully considered, just like my ex-girlfriend's mother, when we were friends, she told me that marriage can also be divorced, so we didn't get married, due to the interference of the woman's family, and finally made the decision to break up. Some things must be thought out clearly before making a decision, not because of taking care of other people's face, after all, this is not happiness, you have to think clearly, or wait until both parties understand and get married when the relationship is strong, then it is the best time.

If you can't get what you can't get, you are asking for trouble, calm down and be worthy of the person you should be worthy, so that you can be worthy of yourself.

Learn to give up! Life can sometimes oppress you, you have to hand over power, you have to let go of opportunities, and you even have to leave love behind.

Giving up does not mean losing, because only giving up will there be another gain.

If you want to pick a fresh bouquet of mountain flowers, you have to give up the comfort of the city;

If you want to be a mountaineer, you have to give up your delicate and fair complexion;

If you want to cross the desert, you have to give up coffee and cola;

If you want to have eternal applause, you have to give up the vanity in front of you.

Mei and Ju give up comfort and comfort in order to get the beauty of smiling and arrogant frost and snow;

The earth will give up the gorgeous and colorful dusk before the dawn of the rising sun.

Giving up the pain of falling out of love; Give up the hatred left by humiliation; Give up all the unspeakable loads of your heart; Give up energy-consuming quarrels; Give up endless explanations; renounce the struggle for power; Give up the greed for money; Give up the fight for fame. Everything that is secondary, trivial, superfluous and should be discarded.

Giving up is a kind of realm and the only way for the development of the natural world.

In the same way, in the long road of life, only by learning to give up can we move forward lightly and continue to gain something. If a person carries all the gains of his life on his back, then even if he has a pair of steel and iron bones, he will be crushed to the ground.

When you learn to give up, when you learn to mature.

It's quite romantic, if you really like him, go to him, follow your heart, and don't let yourself regret it.

You, it's because you didn't get him that you miss him like this, you think about it from another angle, if you were really together, maybe the situation would not be better than now. In everything, it would be nice to think about it from a different perspective :)

Think for yourself, who will be the one who will make you happy for a lifetime, sometimes it takes luck

First of all, there is a reason I guess it is because I once said that I was a matchmaker, but I was rejected. Girls have a strong sense of self-respect, she may think that she has never met when she refuses, and when she meets her, she thinks that I am okay, and she chases after her, and she will definitely resist in her heart.

As for who says bad things about you, I don't think this exists. Either she said hello to a friend in the workshop, saying that someone was looking for her and not telling her to be in **. In this way, she is a very popular girl.

You have a lot of vision, and the last point to say is: either she is really too introverted and is not ready to find a boyfriend yet, or she really has little interest in you. ......This is the message I got from your account, and I hope to bear with me if anything is wrong!

Finally, I wish you all the best :)

"Her relatives told my dad about matchmaking."

If the object is her, it will definitely hurt her self-esteem, so it is normal for her to hide from you. Thinking about it from another angle, she is hiding from you, which is also a form of caring about you. (If that's the case, you'll want to be more proactive).

Now the key is to find the reason, you can't think of it, you can try to tactfully ask her why she has such an attitude, is it for you personally or for all of you? Is it kinship? I still don't like you at all.

She's worrying about your affairs, silly, hurry up and keep chasing, but give you a trick, don't get too close, she's afraid not to gossip, don't go too far, so she thinks you don't care about her The best way is to relax yourself first and talk about it in the way of friends and colleagues As long as you don't talk about love.

I think they're connected.

Troubles are one. A noun that instructs people or things that are not going well or are not going well. Version can also be an adjective, meaning unhappy, unhappy, bored and distressed.

Emotion is a person's attitude and experience of whether objective things meet their needs.

It happens that one's satisfaction with one's own needs as a result of one's troubles changes. If a person's emotions are high (easy to satisfy) and he is not so strict, he will have a lot less troubles, that's for sure.

Therefore, people who are easily satisfied are much more cheerful.

I don't know if I'm saying that, am I? Do you understand?

It's up to you, why you're bothered, like money!

When you are not in a good relationship, you will be very troubled, and when your relationship is too good, you will also be troubled, because you are too happy, so you are afraid of losing, but please be brave to love.

Of course it does! Because Bai Wei has his own.

Du personal emotional investment, zhi will produce a variety of emotions, such as trouble, happiness, surprise, guilt and so on. If you don't have personal emotional involvement, you won't have all kinds of troubles. As the Buddha said, life in the world is like being in the midst of thorns, the heart does not move, people do not move, and if they do not move, they will not be hurt.

So it's normal to have troubles. We need to learn to control our emotions rationally and let them develop in a positive direction, so as to reduce our troubles. There are some worries that should be let go.

The boat is naturally straight to the bridge, and face the reality calmly!