How much does a flash marriage hurt a person?

In our country, marriage is a very important thing for many people, and many people are very serious when choosing a partner. However, there are also some people who regard marriage as child's play, and quickly enter the marriage without having a full understanding of each other, and then because there is no run-in before marriage, many problems only appear after marriage, resulting in continuous conflicts between the two and soon divorced.

Isn't this kind of flash marriage harmless to people? I think the answer is hurtful, and it hurts a lot.

Although the flash marriage is only a short-term marriage, it is still an important life experience for people. Many people will have a fear of marriage because of this marriage that does not end well, and it will be difficult for them to move on to the next marriage. Because they will be very afraid that the lover who was good before marriage will change greatly after marriage, and then there is no way to continue the marriage again, and they will be hurt again.

There are also injuries not only to the parties involved in flash marriages, but to their families. Because they entered the marriage too quickly, the process in the middle is not enough for two people to understand each other. Sometimes you may find someone who is very bad, and after marrying such a person, they bully not only their partner, but also their parents, relatives and friends.

Flash marriage will also increase the difficulty of people getting married again, and the second marriage seems to be inferior in our country's marriage market. If you get married in a flash, not only will you be talked about by other people, but it is also possible that the other party will end the relationship after knowing about it. They will feel that you are not a person who can start a family, because you just start a family with someone and break up.

Flash marriage and flash divorce hurt people's hearts the most, followed by their parents. It can also take a toll on your reputation, and many people will think that you are not sincere about your marriage.

If a person gets married and divorced, first of all, it will have an impact on the person's reputation, and if you get married again, you will be married for the second time, and it will also have an impact on your parents, and others will have a bad impression of you as a person.

The first thing you face in a flash marriage is the accusation of friends and family, who will think that you are frivolous and unstable. In fact, it was a flash marriage. It's a stain on your life, for you you've already had a marriage. After that you are a divorced person, not unmarried.

It will hurt itself psychologically, will make others think that marriage is child's play, and will make their relatives and friends make irresponsible remarks.

Your heart will be greatly traumatized, and your family will also suffer with you, which can make a person fall to a low point in an instant.

The first is self-harm. The second is the harm to the family, the worries from the parents, the doubts from relatives and friends, and even the doubts from the neighbors.

It's a lot of damage to the psyche. Pressure from family and friends. Feel like a frivolous person. Treat life events as child's play.

First of all, the hurt in my heart, and then the pressure from relatives and friends, I will think that I don't take life events seriously enough and treat them as child's play.

Divorce is a matter for both parties, not just one party, if there are children, it is the children who will be hurt the most. We should be disgusted by this manifestation of immaturity.

I didn't have a marriage proposal, I didn't have a ring, I didn't have a wedding, and I became a divorced woman. I dreamed of wearing a wedding dress and him for the rest of my life, and then he gave another woman a wedding of my dreams. Even if you get married again, you won't have that kind of happy vision.

If you don't get divorced after a flash marriage, you have to be like my predecessor, just hold on.

Because flash marriage makes them not understand each other well enough, after getting married, they find that they can't tolerate some of each other's living habits or ways of doing things, so they feel that it is inappropriate and should divorce, which causes a flash divorce.

Because two people don't know each other very well, and they don't have an emotional foundation, after getting married, they expose each other's shortcomings, which is unbearable, so they will flash away again.

Because they have no emotional foundation between them, they find out that the two people are not suitable after they get married, so flash marriages can also be flashed.

Because after getting married, they lived a life of firewood, rice, oil and salt, so they found each other's inappropriateness, and there was no way to tolerate each other's shortcomings, so they would leave.

Because two people lack understanding and have no emotional foundation, they only find out each other's shortcomings after marriage, and they are very inappropriate, so they will slip away.

There are more and more people who get married in flashes, so they all fall in love at first sight, and then decide to get married, but after getting married, they find that they are not suitable for each other, and then they quickly divorce.

In this society now, young people are very impulsive, so there are more and more people who get married in flashes, but they also have to pay the consequences for this under impulse, and there will be many young people who flash away, because they don't understand each other, and when they understand, they can't accept each other's shortcomings, and they will divorce.

First of all, I think flash marriage is understandable, at least after two people are happy, there will be the urge to stay together for a long time, which is also a kind of courage and beauty. But as a marriage lawyer, I have seen too many men and women who start with flash marriages and end up with divorce. Although flash marriage does save a lot of time and costs, this kind of love is very fragile.

In the divorce counseling I received, I found that couples who get married in a flash marriage will have the following two problems in their marriage:

Most of them are married in the future, and most of them are only children. Only children are characteristic of this era, they are relatively more self-oriented, do things by feeling, and lack a sense of family responsibility. Due to the different growth environments of the two parties, they did not know enough before marriage, and only after marriage did they find that each other's living habits were very different, it was difficult to live together, and the marriage relationship was not stable enough.

2. Most of the "flash marriages" have a weak emotional foundation and are easy to "flash out". Because couples do not know each other well enough before marriage, they do not have enough knowledge of their personalities, preferences and living habits, which is more likely to lead to conflict. If both parties do not have the patience to communicate more and have a personality run-in, it will have a negative impact on their married life, and even a flash of separation.

Finally, I would like to say that marriage needs to be cautious, and divorce needs to be decisive. If you are currently in an unhappy relationship and have marital troubles, you can send me a private message with your problem, and a professional marriage lawyer will help you.

Flash marriages are very risky. The phenomenon of flash marriage causing flash divorce is also endless. Of course, flash marriages don't necessarily really get out.

Some fall in love at first sight and may survive well in real life. This question needs to be analyzed on a case-by-case basis according to each person's specific situation. The so-called flash marriage means that you have only known each other for less than three days before you decide to get married.

As a result, your pre-marital knowledge and understanding are not sufficient, which may lead to conflicts.

1. Flash marriage will lead to too big a gap after marriage.

Flash marriages often make you feel a big gap after marriage. Before marriage, you may fall in love at first sight, and the lover's eyes are shih hì. However, after the flash marriage, due to your lack of full knowledge and understanding before, you will find that your partner is not as perfect as you imagined.

Of course, no one is perfect. There is no such thing as a perfect person, and there is no such thing as a perfect marriage. When we face any marriage or relationship, we may face all kinds of blows and all kinds of tests.

The point is that we need to adjust our mentality.

After a flash marriage, if two people can't calmly face the friction in the marriage, then such a marriage will face a lot of unimaginable risks. A flash marriage will cause your relationship to face more tests. How to make your test or difficulties smoothly resolved, so that your marriage crisis can be turned into a danger, this is a science.

You need to weigh it carefully. Flash marriage is not as beautiful as you think, and there may be hidden dangers behind it. In this regard, you must be mentally prepared and able to bear it.

Flash marriage is easy to cause the two to need more run-in after marriage, because you lack a comprehensive and detailed understanding of Tong before marriage, so after flash marriage, you will have a long run-in period. Although it is said that the relationship needs time to slowly cultivate and reincarnate, flash marriage will exacerbate the contradictions and misunderstandings between you. Before the flash marriage, you may feel that each other is the companion you are looking for in your life.

After a flash marriage, you will find that the marriage is full of pitfalls and hurdles. You have to go through one hurdle after another, and without a little tacit understanding, it is impossible to achieve long-term peace and stability in marriage.

Therefore, flash marriage will make your relationship face more run-in and test. If you can successfully pass the tempering of marriage and you become a better version of yourself, then this marriage can be regarded as a better existence. If you can't get through the run-in period of flash marriage, in the process of running in with each other, get tired of each other and spurn, then this marriage will inevitably face the risk of disintegration.

These people fundamentally believe that this is the ultimate means of controlling each other, and once this means has no way to control each other, then the marriage is extremely dangerous. In fact, it is not easy for two people to get married, and they have to go through a relatively long stage.

First of all, from the acquaintance of two people to the gradual familiarity, and then to the gradual exploration, to the living habits of the other party and the financial situation of the other party's relatives and families, etc.

These are all things that need to be understood before getting married, so that two people can get married, and there will definitely be a huge risk in that kind of flash marriage, but after two people get married, that is to say, many things are realized.

When he gets married in real life, you will find that firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea surround you, making you feel that there is not only feelings in life, but a piece of chicken feathers in the life you face.

You need to face what you eat every day, what you drink every day, wash the floor every day, wash your clothes every day, who dries your clothes every day, etc., so many things need to be faced by you, and it turns out that there are people who do them at home.

Now when you need both of you to bear it, it's a very bad feeling, so two people, there is a feeling of controlling each other. But in fact, after two people get married, they should quickly enter the state of life, and after a while, two people will have children, we all want to live a better life, in fact, if you are divorced and want to get married again, it is not necessarily good to get married again, so it is better to live a good life.