Should I marry someone introduced by my family?

No! Marriage is the biggest and most prudent choice in my life in addition to life and death, and sloppiness is not allowed. There is such a saying:

Love is something that gradually wears away over time. This kind of dissipation is often transformed into other emotions, some of which are more affectionate relatives, and some of which are enemies. I didn't like it at the beginning, and I forcibly got together for the sake of getting married, and I only liked it more and more in the future, and even hated it.

To be honest, when you get along with others, it is difficult for you to find the good in the other person because you don't like them, and because you don't like them, even sometimes the advantages will be seen as disadvantages.

Marriage is not the end, but the beginning of another complicated one. You have to start getting along day and night, doing a lot of things that are far from enjoyable, such as buying a house and decorating the house, such as integrating into the other party's family to deal with complex relationships, and so on, without your lot of love for this man, you can't hold on at all! There is no one who is perfectly compatible with you, and there is no perfect relationship.

Whether everyone is suitable or not, everyone is not perfect, both parties need to pay, sacrifice, and create each other.

Marriage is not about whose face you marry for the sake of others, marriage is your own business, it is about the happiness of your life, not the happiness of the introducer. Your own love comes first. Then it depends on whether the person is right or not, culture, family background, family atmosphere, and personality are all within the scope of your investigation, and who the introducer is is not within the scope of investigation at all.

You have to be clear that affection is the foundation of all guarantees. Maybe you were asked by your family to go on a blind date, I don't think that's your intention, or the object of the blind date, you don't like it at all, so why should you marry him? Can you imagine that even if you are married, can you be sure that he will definitely like you?

Marriages without an emotional foundation will basically be dismantled as soon as they encounter some problems.

Married without feelings? I don't think it's that you can't get married, there will be problems with those who have feelings, and those who love each other, let alone those who don't feel it, think about it in getting married, they all say that you can slowly cultivate feelings after marriage, but the life after marriage is only known by those who have been married, not as good as imagined, after getting married with feelings and love, I dare not say that there is no contradiction, and marriage without feelings is fundamentally, pit others, harm yourself, can't make it, marriage is not a joke.

If you go on a blind date, you will communicate more, look everywhere, and there is still no feeling of love for a period of time, so you will directly tell people, don't delay both parties, if you don't feel like simply finding a daughter-in-law to marry, then you will regret it after a while, both parties will be hurt, and it is also a big blow to the elderly at home. I hope you think it through!

I think I generally come out on a blind date. It's not going to be a person who makes people feel when they see each other. If you can attract people and make people feel when you meet.

I don't think he will come out on a blind date. As for marriage, I don't think it's about getting married right away. You can get along for a while first, starting with patting and dragging.

Get to know each other well. Perhaps the feeling was cultivated at this time.

If it is necessary to say that the blind date introduced by the parents and elders is difficult to achieve, in addition to the fact that most people do not live in the same city with their parents now, or the attitude of the parents and elders is more casual, and they feel that those who live alone with different genders meet the standards for introducing their children; Either the parents and elders are too concerned about the situation after the introduction, and feel that they are good at everything they have introduced, ignoring individual needs and orientations; It is more likely that the parents and elders completely ignore the child's positioning and advantages and disadvantages in the blind date market, and want to find it according to their own minds with their eyes closed, without considering the child's thoughts at all, such as good economic conditions, establishment, knowing the roots, and being good at grasping these "advantages" that are partial and comprehensive, and the children get along with them, completely ignoring the reality that the two sides do not have any common language and cannot produce feelings.

The way of understanding blind date determines whether the two parties know each other or not, and the relationship is good or bad, to a certain extent, depends on the introducer. If the introducer himself is familiar with the situation, has a clear mind and is impartial, whether the introducer is an elder or an equal, he can get along well. After all, compared with free love, the advantage of blind date is that each other can understand in advance some of the situations that are not easy to ask, such as income, family conditions, parents' work, personal work ability and even parents and personal conduct.

The blind date arranged by the family, I didn't like it, just tell the other party directly. In fact, this is the best solution.

ignoring individual needs and orientations; Then there is the possibility of potato travel, that is, the parents and elders completely ignore the child's positioning and advantages and disadvantages in the blind date market, and close their eyes and want to find a pressure according to their own mindsSengen does not consider the child's thoughts, such as good economic conditions, establishment, knowing the roots, and being good at grasping these generalized "advantages" to force the child to dry up with them, completely ignoring the reality that the two sides do not have any common language and cannot produce feelings.

How so? It shouldn't be that the "object introduced by the elders" is not good for marriage, but that the object itself is not good for marriage, and it is estimated that you are not satisfied with him.

It's very simple, Lu Shan, try another person. It's always more reliable than what you find on the Internet.

Many people find that the object introduced by the elders, Hu San, is not easy to get married, and I think the reason for this may be that the eyes of the elders are quite different from their own pants.

First of all, have a preliminary understanding of the other party's character and personality. To fall in love with a completely unfamiliar person and form a family, Zihong also has to live for a lifetime, and the quality of character and personality is very important. Because of this, it is necessary to comprehensively examine the character quality of the other party and the situation of dealing with people.

Through the other party's circle of friends, the other party's colleagues, the other party's neighbors, the other party's relatives and elders, and when meeting and talking with each other, you can understand. It is also necessary to examine whether the other party can honor his parents and elders, and whether he has at least a sense of responsibility and dedication? The moral character of a manuscript is crucial to the formation of a family and the life after marriage.

As long as you have a good personality and personality, you can make a fortune as long as you work hard in a poor family! No matter how difficult life is, as long as you work hard, there will be bright sunshine.

Confess to your parents that you don't like him. After all, marriage is a lifelong thing, and you can't bury a lifetime of happiness because of your parents' attitude, right?

Marriage is not child's play, and it will be a lifetime of pain to get married and then leave, so it is recommended to think about it before getting married.

I think it still depends on his character and character, if you really can't find anything worth loving and having in common in him, it is recommended to be cautious! We must follow our inner feelings, make rational judgments, stick to our principles, and not be swayed by the outside world! This step is crucial for everyone's life and will affect you for the rest of your life!

If the character is good enough, capable, and considerate to you, feelings can be cultivated! Life is very practical a lot of the time, don't expect too much romantic love! ~

I said that I couldn't find a suitable one, and I was afraid that I would have bad sunshine and delay you.

If you don't like it, say it as soon as possible, don't say it when his family wants to come over and get engaged. Then others will be very shameless.

Happiness is your own, and you have to grasp it yourself

Marriage is a lifelong thing, and you have to spend the rest of your life with yourself!

So it's better to follow what you think in your heart.

Parents should communicate well and tell their true meaning to seek understanding

In a word, follow your heart

In fact, feelings can be cultivated slowly!

However, if you look at him now and don't even have the appetite to eat, I think it's best to say goodbye!

If it's not that serious, then cultivate a relationship!

Maybe after getting along for a long time, you'll like him!

Feelings are your business, what does it have to do with your relatives?

Still reluctant to make it?

Talk to your family, they're all for your good. You won't be happy with this guy. They should be considerate of you.

1.The family introduced it is slightly better, but generally women have a higher tone, and it is difficult to make it. I don't know why, it's because women always think that someone is supporting them or what, anyway, that's how I feel, The woman introduced by the family, I have to face the pressure of the three parties, the pressure of the woman, the pressure of the introducer, and the pressure of my parents, I always think that I can't talk, it's my problem, and the woman has no problem at allDo ideological work for me at every turn, let me take the initiative, they don't know what kind of attitude women have towards me.

3.It's best to find a partner by yourself, don't let others introduce you, these days, let others introduce, it's not very reliable, women don't seem to be coming on a blind date, the kind that is very aggrieved, it seems to be to complete the task to return.

Hello friend. Blind dates are a traditional way for you to get to know and communicate with others quickly. However, for some people, a blind date arranged at home is not what they want, but in order not to embarrass their parents, they will try to cooperate as much as possible.

So, what do you think of the blind date arranged at home? Here are some suggestions: First, look at the arranged blind date calmlyFirst of all, we should stay calm and have a peaceful mind.

Don't be too nervous or reject the idea of a blind date, as this will only make us more uncomfortable. We should try to seriously think about and accept what kind of opportunities and benefits will be brought by the blind date arranged by the family. Second, first carry out a simple ** communication In the early stage of the blind date, you can first communicate through **.

In addition to understanding the other party's basic situation and interests in advance, you can also feel the other person's accent and attitude. Doing so reduces face-to-face awkwardness and avoids situations where you have to walk far just to see each other. 3. Follow your heart's thoughtsIf you don't feel happy or want to end the blind date, then you can tell them without hesitation when faced with family advice.

Don't go against your inner thoughts in your married life, doing so will only lead to a series of problems and may affect your married life. 4. Learn to express moderatelyWhen you are not interested in continuing the blind date, you can also express your views and ideas to the other party appropriately. When expressing one's will, it is necessary to pay attention to the euphemism and elegance of the language.

Don't hurt the other person's feelings and self-esteem in your speech, and don't hurt your relationship. 5. Try to keep each other in a good imageWhen dating, make the other person feel respected and valued, which also helps both parties get to know each other better. If you are not interested in continuing, please tell the other person as soon as possible, do not delay time, and do not let the other side fall into anxiety and confusion.

To sum up, a blind date arranged at home is a thing that takes time and effort. If you try to accept and understand calmly, you will get very good results. At the same time, one should also follow one's inner thoughts and express one's wishes appropriately.

Every parent hopes that their child can find a suitable lover and build a happy family. Therefore, sometimes, the family will arrange blind dates to help the children find a partner. ......Different young people have different reactions to this situation and have different ways of coping.

For me, I would follow my family's arrangement to go on a blind date. The reason why I do this is because the blind date arranged by the family is out of sincerity, I should support it, the blind date arranged by the family is more suitable for me after a comprehensive investigation, and the family's attitude towards love and marriage is more pragmatic and I should listen to these three reasons.

1. The blind date arranged by the family is out of sincerity, and I should support it.

The reason why I will follow the arrangement of my family to go on a blind date is first of all because of my gratitude to my family. ......Family members are the closest people to them, and they are most concerned about their own well-being. Therefore, they arranged for their own Zheng Shouhu blind date out of sincerity, and they should support it.

Therefore, when the family arranges a blind date, you should be active in renting it.

2. The blind date arranged by the family has been comprehensively investigated, and the conditions in all aspects are more suitable for themselves.

The blind date chosen by his family for himself has been comprehensively investigated, so it is more suitable for him in all aspects. ......Therefore, for the family to arrange a blind date, you should not only listen, but also actively participate. ......Doing so will not only be more beneficial to yourself, but will also enhance your relationship with your family and make your family life more harmonious.

3. The family's attitude towards love and marriage is more pragmatic, and they should obey.

For young people, attitudes towards love and marriage are more romantic, but sometimes they are detached from reality. Their family members have rich experience, so they have a more pragmatic attitude towards love and marriage, and their choices are often more rational. ......Therefore, you should obey the blind date arranged by your family, this is a very suitable opportunity for yourself, you should cherish it, and actively participate, only in this way can you pursue your own love and happiness.