22 years old, the family is very tight

It's not a two-hour drive, but I hope to be able to buy a house near your home, and you have to learn to be independent...

Your mom should be too worried about you, afraid that you will be bullied, in fact, you can find a chance to have a good talk with your mom, tell her that you have grown up and need to have your own space.

First of all, you can be financially independent, you can go to work, and then you can show your parents that your boyfriend is capable of supporting you.

The old people are all for the good of their children, let their boyfriends make some achievements for them.

It may be that your parents are afraid that you will suffer, so it is better to ask your boyfriend to talk to your parents.

I must try to change it, and I will manage it well.

I'm in a very similar situation to you, my mother used to be like this, she was worried about us, in fact, parents are like this, they are afraid of what their children will do outside, be stronger, find a good job and don't worry about them, it will be fine, now I feel that I miss them so much when I leave her in the province, cherish every moment with them, if you have a good relationship with your boyfriend, you have always insisted that your parents will agree.

If it's so far away, it's not the same if someone marries another province, bring your boyfriend back and let them see it, I believe everyone will approve it if they understand it.

Parents in the family are like this, afraid that you will be bullied, it may be a little too much, but the ultimate goal is for your good.

In fact, your father's control of you shows that you are not mature now, and you can react to your boyfriend's best with your parents.

Let your boyfriend make a little achievement.

What a sad baby, such a hard mother.

1. It is the most convincing to let strength speak, if you can find a job through your own efforts, I believe your parents will also be impressed.

2. Or use strength to speak this sentence, if your boyfriend is excellent in all aspects, if you have a good work unit, if you have good family conditions, I believe that your parents would like to recognize this son-in-law immediately, and others like him are not a problem as a foreigner...

I think it's good for your parents to be like this, listen to the old people more, don't let them worry about it, you will naturally understand when you have a daughter.

This age. Parents shouldn't object to finding the right match! Still against it? Don't understand? It's true. How old are you going to be before you can talk about it! No matter what it goes. Tell your parents. lest they worry that it is not.

Pity the hearts of parents in the world, one is for your safety, and the other is for your future, so please try to tolerate it, you can not go to your heart, listen to them, and report safety every day, in fact, they just love you, maybe this kind of love will cause you trouble or even restraint and harm, but after all, they love you as the foundation, but it is not particularly excessive, please tolerate it! You'll understand this feeling when you become a parent.

Strict management at home is actually a kind of love and protection for you! But if you are too strict, it will also cause you to be overly dependent, which is very bad for your later development! You have to sit down and talk with your parents, otherwise you will have no opinions on personal development and work in the future, so you must learn to be self-reliant and self-reliant, and form your own set, so that it is benign!

Hope it helps!

In fact, in the eyes of your parents, you will always be a child, and you are afraid that your child will go astray, this worry is right, but you can't go too far, everything will be annoying, you have to communicate more with your parents.

Girls, the strict management of the family is also for your own good, because now the society is too chaotic, girls are easy to be deceived, easy to get hurt, your parents are actually protecting you, you have to be careful when you go out to travel alone, now there are too many endless incidents, people are shocked, I am also a girl's mother, I can especially understand your parents, unless you are very sensible, very strict with yourself, otherwise it is really easy to be deceived, your parents are out of protection for you, I hope you can understand your parents.

You are twenty-two, the family is afraid that you will find a partner, I am also twenty-two, the family is urging to find a partner, not only the parents are urging, but also four aunts, four aunts, especially my aunt is the most powerful, more ruthless than my parents, every time I see me or in the ** I am urging to find a partner, I am not less scolded by my aunt. Even the neighbors around me see me every day and tell me to introduce me.

In the eyes of parents, even if the child is 22 years old and in his 70s, he is still a child, is he worried that you are out and about, aren't you a college student recently? I like to stay at home type, I go out when I have to, I don't go out at night, (the world is too dangerous), because I stay at home, my parents also give me money to go to the city to play for a few days. For a while, my parents also often took care of me, but once they were busy, they didn't care about me, but it's best to travel alone when you're alone, once something happens and no one contacts you are very scary, if you feel still very troubled, save money as soon as possible to earn money to support yourself, and go out to live alone.

I understand your current mood very well, as if I saw me back then. My experience is similar to yours, after graduating from college, I went back to my hometown, a small city in the sixth or seventh tier, the family is very strict, I will be very uneasy to go out with friends, and I will give you a look when I go home later, but I will urge you to get married. I felt very depressed at home, and then I got married hastily, and had children in a daze, but the marriage was not happy, and I divorced within a few years of marriage, and now I am living well with my children.

I just want to tell you that you must not act rashly, and you must understand the painstaking efforts of your parents, in fact, they love you, but the way of expressing them is more subtle. Sit down and talk to your parents, move out on your own if you can, or you can go to another city to work hard, and contact your parents at any time when you go out, let them know that you are safe, you are fine, and reassure them.

In fact, in the eyes of your parents, you will always be a child, and your parents are afraid that their children will go astray, so you usually communicate with your parents more, understand each other, and long live understanding.

It's already twenty-two, is it normal to deal with objects?

What is your education? Maybe I just don't worry about you.