Does a girl looking for a husband have to find a family with good economic conditions?

5 My boyfriend's family is rural, and the economic conditions are not very good, but my family is relatively superior. Many people say that we are not suitable, should we break up? Added:

The key is that now I still have to take care of my parents' face, many girls who are not as good as me in terms of family, appearance, and education have found boyfriends with such good conditions, and they are even more uncomfortable and feel angry! Addendum: It's easy to say!

First of all, he is not highly educated, he does not have a good job, and even if he starts a business, there is a lot of resistance. In the past, I would encourage him and support him no matter what he did, but now he is not as good as he is day by day, and I annoy me when I talk about work. Who doesn't want their husband to have the ability!

When I was with him, I also thought that the rich life created by the two of us together was the real happiness. But now, I'm really a little confused Add: I don't mean to find someone who is particularly rich, but to find someone who can't wait for me to raise him at home!

Maybe I have really let go in my heart, I can't ignore my parents' face, and I can't guarantee that I will live with him in the future! Although many people say that feelings come first, I know that sometimes feelings are also based on a certain economic foundation, and I can't live the kind ......of life of pinching my fingers and counting moneyThank you all for the point, thank you very much. Satisfactory answer: Light in the dark clouds level 12009-02-01See if he can be a good husband???

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Maybe your personal advice is the answer I want, you are really right, life after marriage is not all emotional...Thank you 2009-02-03Other(26)-3 level2009-01-31 Not ah not 9 level2009-01-31No, as long as you like it,! You can be kind to yourself"Level 72009-01-31Family conditions are secondary, the main thing is his working conditions, five days and four nights, Level 22009-01-31There are so many good economic conditions for you to find, and he will not choose you if the economic conditions are good, as long as he has a good heart and a hard-working heart, are you afraid that you will not return to happiness? I love myself.

There are so many good economic conditions for you to find, and if the economic conditions are good, he won't choose you, as long as he has a good heart and a hard-working heart, are you afraid that you will not return to happiness?

I think that family conditions are the secondary factor, and the two people who are like-minded and love each other are the most important factors. Measured by family conditions, typical materialism, can a happy marriage be bought by material conditions? The man's family conditions are good, the so-called rich second generation, the surface is glamorous, the belly is full of grass, the man has been pampered since he was a child, he can't do anything, he has a bad temper and machismo, can the woman be happy in such a marriage?

Although the material is satisfied, the spiritual life is empty and blank, and I can't feel happy.

The primary condition for men and women to fall in love is whether they have eye travel and a common language, and the two of them can love each other together. If the two sides are based on the material conditions of the family, in the end it is their own harm to eat their own fruits, lift a stone to shoot themselves in the foot, materials can not buy people's hearts, nor can they change their fate, people's nature is difficult to change, and the nature of the family is difficult to change, and the more the family has been nurtured by the family since childhood, the better the material conditions of the family, the more strict discipline of the children, laissez-faire, and develop some bad qualities. Children born in poor families know the hardships of life, know how to behave, know how to be grateful and repay the society, and can live independently in society, and the children of the poor are in charge of the family early.

For girls, because they need to marry into the relationship of the man's family after marriage, this aspect of the factor cannot be ignored. ......Specifically, if you find that your boyfriend's parents are too strong, you will have to think twice about whether the relationship is going to continue. The reason for this is that the state of the parents has a very strong impact on the children, the man's parents are too strong and will have an impact on his married life, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a factor that girls must consider.

1. The state of parents has a great impact on children. When falling in love, you must consider the factors of the other person's parents. For each of us, our parents are the ones who have the most influence ...... usOur personal habits, temperament, and conduct are all deeply influenced by our parents.

The children educated by well-informed parents are bound to be very good, while the children educated by overly strong parents may be cowardly or equally strong, and a girl's love with the latter is very detrimental ......to her futureBecause of this, when a girl falls in love, she must consider the factors of the other party's parents. 2. The man's parents are too strong, and Huailiang will have an impact on the girl's married life. After marriage, the girl has to marry into the man's family to live, so the status of the other party's parents has a very important impact on the girl's life after marriage......If the other party's parents are too strong, they will inevitably ask more about their own lives after marriage, which will affect their happiness ...... lead lifeAnd strong people are generally difficult to communicate, if the other party's parents are too strong, then the girl will be more difficult to communicate with her in-laws after marriage, which will have a more bad impact on their married life.

3. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a factor that girls must consider when talking about marriage. For girls, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law after marriage is the most difficult to get along with, so it is necessary to focus on ......The man's parents are too strong, which means that his future mother-in-law is very difficult to get along with, and this state is extremely unfavorable for the girl. Therefore, when it is found that the other party's parents are too strong, the girl must carefully consider whether her relationship can continue, and make a rational judgment according to the specific situation, so as to avoid falling into trouble after marriage and affecting her happiness in the second half of her life.