Why is the spare time of college students addicted to this

The reasons why college students are addicted to gaming are different for everyone.

Some are caused by growthal regression, such as playing games in the early years, being deprived of the key process of growth, pretending to symbolize the lack of mentalization stage, inappropriate or interrupted connection between the inner and outer real world, and indulging in the process of self-inner feelings. It also tries to reach the realization of the ideal of reality through the game. After all, because few people can solve this psychological process of their own, it leads to disease.

In some cases, it is because parents or educators forcibly deprive children of their sense of autonomy and indulge in games to vent their long-suppressed anger or dissatisfaction. You can only get the satisfaction of your autonomy through play.

Yes, it is because of the need to grow up emotionally, because I am in a situation where the relationship with the important people related to me is broken, lonely and painful, and I need to fill the gap of my emotional needs through games. Coupled with the incomprehension of important people in the outside world, it is difficult to fill the desire and indulge in the game and cannot extricate itself. and so on, you need to seek help from psychological counseling.

Forehead... Well, this... Of course, on the one hand, the rapid development of computer technology has made the game technology more and more advanced, so it is more and more attractive to gamers, so it is even more attractive to children; On the other hand, of course, today's parents are too eager to pursue test scores, and ignore the cultivation of children's personal qualities, resulting in children's own low quality, especially the lack of good daily habits and self-control, it is easy to be attracted by the game and can't extricate themselves...

There is also the fact that the material living conditions of children are getting better and better, resulting in a lack of intuitive feelings for children's labor income You must know that children in the United States have to work on their own to earn pocket money, and there are almost no activities in this area in China.

1. In the previous issue, we talked about the development of free-range children and left-behind children into another group, and in this issue, we will talk about this group, that is, college students, and college students who are addicted to games.

2. Some people may say, "Can children who are obsessed with games in elementary and middle school still be admitted to college?" This is a very real problem, however, the reality is that today's parents are willing to spend money on their children, so a large number of various "colleges" affiliated with the name of genuine universities came into being, many of these colleges are for business purposes, they open their doors, lower the threshold, and recruit a large number of low-scoring "semi-finished" middle school students.

3. As a result, a large number of game "enthusiasts" gathered in various universities in the name of "colleges", and in this way, the children who played games before "individual combat" gradually developed into a game group of "corps combat". And it's often a crazy group, they work together in the dormitory, and often forget to sleep and eat.

4. This is because they think that they have finally completed the college entrance examination, successfully entered the university, and can be completely liberated, so they are completely relaxed in their thinking, and because they have completely left all the supervision of the family, they are like a fish in water, and they have become completely loose. In addition, the management system of the university is more relaxed than that of the middle school, and in this way, the part of the "game soldiers" in the middle school has really become a bit freewheeling, and the game mode has been completely intensified. As a result, after three or four years of college, almost all subjects were failing, and only games were the good

5. It is precisely because of this that there is now a phenomenon that some college students are not as valuable as migrant workers in society, and the same wages are long queues for college students, but migrant workers look down on them. Why is that? It's not because many college students today are simply some "semi-finished products" with no appearance and empty name, or even "inferior products" who do not learn and have no skills.

Okay, that's all for this issue, and I'll talk to you about "why are online games so attractive?" in the next issue. "The Art of War says: To fight a powerful enemy, you must know him thoroughly and learn from him.

Since online games are so appealing to children, we need to understand its appeal so that we can help children stay away from gaming.

In today's universities, the management is lax, and compared with high schools, there are no strict rules and regulations.

It's easy to indulge college students. Of course, there are some cluster effects, some psychological problems.

The people around me play games, and if they don't play themselves, they feel out of place, so they join in. There is also the stress of college students, most of the games that are easy to indulge in are related to fighting and killing, when we are in it, it is very releasing our stress and relieving our emotions. Others are simply unambitious, muddy, and walking dead, and this kind of person has no goal and is easy to indulge in games and find his own sense of existence.

A small number of people are obsessed with the content of the game.

I found friends in the game and found my second world.

When you're surrounded by people who talk to you about the game every day, what the game is doing, what heroes are coming out, and you don't know it, you feel like you're behind them. Friends around you pull you to play together, and you are embarrassed not to play; The level of the game is not high enough, I am not good enough, and I want to play; Friends are playing, you feel isolated, and you want to play; The reality is not as good as it should be, <>

It's hard to face reality, so go up with the "brothers"; Studying is too tiring, frustration has nowhere to release, being an MVP in the game, and so on. Slowly feel that this is my second world, and only in the game can I show my ability and make a real "brother", so I fell deeper and deeper.

When college students enter college, they often have psychological problems due to many reasons, making them reluctant to go out to socialize and escape from their real life. Especially those college students with poor communication skills, they don't want to socialize with others, so it is easy to indulge themselves in online games.

In the game, he is the master of himself, he is the god in the eyes of others, so that their psychological needs are satisfied, and over time, it is easy to become addicted.

The game itself is designed to be attractive and non-stop play, and without strong self-control, it is easy for undisciplined college students to indulge in it. During college, parents and teachers are not so strict with the management of students, and college students are easy to let go of themselves.

This is because college life is more casual, and then college students will be more bored and empty, so they will pass the time by playing games.

Because they were restricted from playing games in high school, and they didn't have a cell phone to college, they had more time and no one cared about them.

Because they don't have a direction in life and don't know the direction of their careers, many college students are looking for jobs nowadays when their majors don't have much effect on their future careers.

College students' involution is becoming more and more serious, and many colleges like to play a game to relax and relax when they are under pressure, but they are indulging in interesting rewards and victories, such as pushing towers, ranking promotions, ten consecutive draws, equipment, etc. One handful after another, a few hours passed before I knew it, and I didn't stop until I knew that my eyes were sour.

1. Sports.

1.Basketball. Basketball is very popular with boys. There are many basketball courts in college, so playing basketball is a very good hobby. Playing basketball not only allows you to exercise your body, but also makes many good friends who are like-minded.

2.Badminton.

Personally, I like to play badminton the most, and badminton is more suitable for girls than basketball. Most universities have badminton courts, and it is best to play in the evening.

3.Jogging. There are people in college who go for a run in the morning and evening, and running consistently is good for the heart and lungs.

2. Learning.

1.Read. The university's library is rich in resources, and most of the literature is free to read. So reading in the library can be very rewarding.

2.Calligraphy. Calligraphy can cultivate one's self and make people more patient. There are many clubs in the university, and calligraphy clubs can provide a place to practice calligraphy.

3. Leisure.

1.Tourism. There are many tourist attractions in the cities where the university is located, and student tickets are relatively cheap. It's good to go out and walk more while you're young. The world is so big, I want to see it.

2.Play games.

The game is a favorite of many people. All you need is a mobile phone and a computer, but play games in moderation.

Overall, college students can have a very wide range of hobbies. College life is very short, so you should cherish it. Cherish the current life, live every day, and hobbies can accompany us.

My spare time life is very fulfilling, I like to draw, read books, watch anime in my spare time after studying, and when my parents go out, I will draw at home, which can calm my mind and think calmly.

I can also accumulate some beautiful sentences when I read books, and at the same time relieve myself of boredom, although I will be a little lonely at home alone, but I can also learn to live independently and take care of myself.

The fulfillment of my spare time allows me to learn more than those who waste my time, and the fulfillment of my spare time fills my spare time, allowing me to go and learn more. I have a wide range of hobbies, I also like to try all kinds of things, and I am able to maintain my interest in things that I have not been exposed to for a long time.

I'm very satisfied with my spare time, and if I have more time, I'll go out for a walk, take a sketchbook and stroll through the summer park, find a place to draw quietly.