In the face of the vexatious behavior of narcissists, why can t you give in indefinitely and not sat

Everyone is an independent personality, and we must learn to protect our own rights and interests. Narcissists will do the following.

Strong reaction to criticism

Whether in the form of advice or consultation, they will speak out against their actions or personalities if they are negatively evaluated. When confronted with their own weaknesses or mistakes, they will try to disprove the arguments put forward by others, even to the point of lying. But this does not mean that their ego is very strong, on the contrary, their ego may be fragile, so they will care so much about the criticism of others, and carefully build a wall of their hearts to prevent any potential harm.

Cope: In small talk, don't make negative comments about them, and don't have to give opinions about their private lives, which will only make them unhappy with you. If you must make negative comments or comments at work, be sure to gather good arguments so that they have nothing to say.

Likes to show off and boast about himself

Although on the surface, they can't stand the opinions or criticism of others, but deep down, they are very inferior. Even if they are in a high position (e.g. in a high position in a company or an elder in the family), they will constantly prove their "superiority", often by showing off. Only then will the "cowardly child" in their hearts feel safe.

In order to hide their low self-esteem, they often behave in a posturing manner and are very fond of those who scold them or slap their horses.

CopeIn the face of those who like to show off their car, house, income, education and even experience, just politely praise a few words, they don't want to embarrass you, just to satisfy their weak self-esteem, there is no need to raise the bar with them because of this, a small question can ignite the flames of war.

Arbitrary

Because they can't tolerate the opinions or suggestions of others, they are usually stubborn and authoritarian, and even a small matter must be carried out according to their ideas, regardless of whether their choice is right or not. Sometimes, even though they know there is a price to pay, they insist on going their own way. Especially when their self-image or status is challenged, they become more stubborn to prevent others from intruding or betraying.

Cope: Since narcissists are only going to stand up for themselves and oppose others, it is better to get a head start and come up with your plan first and then ask for their consent, rather than overturning their plan.

Because this will make them even worse, so they can't back down wirelessly.

This is because the more you retreat, the more he will do it, the more excessive, so you can't back down.

Because if you just give in, they're going to get even worse.

Because unlimited concessions can only make them take it for granted more. So they can't be accommodated.

Because they don't understand their own vexatiousness, if they are too tolerant, they will make a big mistake.

Because of blindly satisfying them, they will become more and more like this.

Because this can cause their hearts to be frustrated, which can lead to danger.

Because if we tolerate, we will definitely continue to make progress.

All of a sudden, you are asked to believe something that you couldn't believe before, whatever it was. Some people say that loneliness is something for everyone, and it's too narcissistic.

I think they're just too greedy, and we don't need to get used to them.