What to pay attention to when remarrying What to pay attention to when remarrying

1.If the ex-husband or ex-wife has children, be sure to deal with the children; 2.Look at the problem dialectically, don't always compare your current lover with your previous lover, and don't easily say something like "I used to be him (her)......Words like this.

It is best to list the factors that put an end to the failure of the last marriage, and then compare and change them one by one in real life. It is also very important that both sides should discuss, often come up with new ones, and do not live the same life.

If the mother is still young, trying to find a suitable partner to remarry is a positive attitude towards life, and it is easier for the child to accept the newcomer when he is very young, after the age of seven or eight. When it comes to children's laughter, I would say how much of an adult's laughter is really for the sake of pleasing themselves rather than pleasing others and the environment? The child's laughter is somewhat instrumental ,..

The main things to pay attention to when remarrying are:

1. Remarriage also needs to meet the substantive and formal requirements of marriage, such as voluntariness, age, and blood relationship;

2. For property issues, the ownership can be clarified in advance, or a property ownership agreement can be signed between the two parties.

Legal basisArticle 1049 of the Civil Code.

A man and a woman who wish to marry shall apply for marriage registration in person at the marriage registration office. Where the provisions of this Law are met, they shall be registered and a marriage certificate shall be issued. The marriage relationship is established after the marriage is registered. Where marriage registration has not been completed, the registration shall be re-registered.

Article 1000.

After the marriage is registered, the woman may become a member of the man's family and the man may become a member of the woman's family according to the agreement between the man and the woman.

Legal analysis: Precautions for remarriage are as follows: 1. Both men and women have reached the legal age of marriage; 2. The marriage must be completely voluntary, and neither party can force or interfere with the other; 3. The two parties are not direct blood relatives, or collateral blood relatives within 3 generations; 4. There is no disease that is medically considered unsuitable for marriage; 5. Register with the marriage registration authority.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1046:Marriage shall be completely voluntary between a man and a woman, and neither party shall be allowed to coerce the other, nor shall any organization or individual interfere with it.

Article 1047:The age of marriage shall not be earlier than 22 years for men and 20 years old for women.

Article 1048:Marriage is prohibited for lineal blood relatives or collateral blood relatives within three generations.

Article 1049 A man and a woman who wish to marry shall apply for marriage registration in person at the marriage registration authority. Where the provisions of this Law are met, they shall be registered and a marriage certificate shall be issued. The marriage relationship is established after the marriage is registered. Where marriage registration has not been completed, the registration shall be re-registered.

1. Be practical about reorganizing the family, not too idealistic. After remarrying, it is nothing more than a desire to receive love and care and more resources from the family. However, falling in love and getting along with each other are two different things.

Don't have a mythical mentality before marriage and have unrealistic expectations about marriage. Understand that it is not easy to adapt to married life, and if you remarry, the challenge will be even greater.

2. Precipitate premarital experiences and rebuild self-esteem. After a divorce, if you reach middle age, you can't help but want to find a partner as soon as possible. The numbers show that men move faster than women.

However, experts point out that after divorce, do not remarry to fill the void. Some people have been procrastinating during the separation period and have moved in with a new partner without completing the formalities. In fact, after divorce, it takes a period of time to rebuild self-esteem and values, and if the reasons for the failure of the previous marriage are not fully summarized, the same problem will inevitably occur again;

3. Don't let unpleasant experiences affect the relationship between husband and wife. Very.

After marriage, multiple couples "pair each other's guns" because the couple has not been able to reach a consensus on cooperation in living habits. When I remarried, I thought that I could increase my resources and share the economic pressure, but later I found out that after "starting a family", the resources of both parties would be thin.

quarrels. Marriage is based on mutual trust and appreciation, but the unpleasant experience of a previous marriage can easily lead to pessimism about the marriage, or to compare the current partner with the ex-wife or ex-husband. Mr. Wu's case is a case in point.

Child. This is also the sequelae of untreated premarital trauma.

First, how to distribute the property after the second marriage.

1. The distribution of property after the second marriage is: for the property owned by one party, that is, the pre-marital property of the husband or wife, in principle, there is no need to divide it. The joint property of remarriage is generally divided by agreement between the parties, and may also be divided by the court in accordance with the principle of equality between men and women, the principle of taking care of the interests of children and the woman, the principle of taking care of the innocent party, and the principle of being conducive to production and convenient life;

2. Legal basis:

Article 1087 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China.

In the event of a divorce, the joint property of the husband and wife shall be disposed of by mutual agreement; If an agreement is not reached, the people's court is to make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of the property and in accordance with the principle of taking care of the rights and interests of the children, the woman, and the innocent party.

The rights and interests enjoyed by husbands or wives in the contracting and management of family land shall be protected in accordance with law.

What should the elderly pay attention to when remarrying?

1. Be cautious when living together unmarried It is reported that the stability rate of remarriage in the elderly is very low: in Tianjin, the divorce rate of the elderly after remarriage is as high as 70%; In Shanghai, the divorce rate of the elderly after remarriage is also as high as 50%. Therefore, some elderly people believe that it is "more free" not to get a license, and in case both parties "don't feel it", it will be easier to break up.

However, unmarried cohabitation is not recognized by law, and if the rights of both parties are violated, there is no legal protection. If the elderly do not think about marriage and only fall in love, it is personal freedom; If you are considering marriage but live together unmarried, you should be cautious.

2. Know each other through the surface In addition to property, children and other issues, the details of each other's health must be clearly understood. Some elderly people are not very aware of their health status, and in the case of one party suffering from infectious diseases, once the elderly are in close contact with each other, they may become ill due to mutual infection. For example, tuberculosis can be transmitted through droplets, and the elderly are susceptible due to their weak ability to resist the disease, so they should be alarmed.

3. Self-esteem is the basis for remarriage Middle-aged and elderly people re-travel spring marriage, lack of emotional foundation, very easy to nostalgia, mutual suspicion, in addition, due to economic factors, you have money to live with you, no money on the "bye-bye" phenomenon is very common, few share weal and woe. Middle-aged and elderly people should consider the economic conditions of the other party when remarrying, which will have a protective effect on their future life, and it is necessary, but they cannot give up their self-esteem because of the conditions, and if they want to make their old age truly happy, they must lay a good emotional foundation for remarriage. Middle-aged and elderly people should also consciously discover and appreciate each other after remarriage, and without this, there will only be the value of using each other.

4. Don't let "contrast" affect remarriage When widowed elderly people fall in love again, they always consciously or unconsciously compare the object in front of them with their past spouses. To this end, we put forward ways to avoid "contrast": first, face life directly, when there are contradictions, the two sides should talk about things on their own terms, and do not make extensive associations with past events and things; The second is to change the mode of thinking, even if you encounter unhappiness, you must learn to compare the advantages of the new person with the shortcomings of the old person; The third is to pay attention not to touch the sensitive points of each other's psychology, such as the advantages and disadvantages of the conditions of both parties, the trust between each other, and especially the things that the elderly try to avoid or dislike.

5. How to talk to your children When the elderly remarry, they should be honest with their children and take themselves seriously.

Benefits of remarriage and certificate for the elderly:

1. What older people need is companionship and help, and if they get a certificate, they can be guaranteed by legal means, and they can only be regarded as partners if they do not get a certificate.

2. When both parties are in good health, Song Nai can accompany him, but if one party falls, the other party has no obligation to support. It's as if husband and wife were like forest birds, flying away separately.

3. When people are old, their bodies will be weakened and they will easily get sick. Obtaining a marriage certificate can also bind one's wife, and finally enter the obligation of the partner to help.

If I choose to remarry, I will definitely take care of each other's children, because only in this way can the family be harmonious, the relationship between husband and wife can be more loving, and the family can live happily together.

First, treat your own children and each other's children equally and fairly.

In the remarried family, there are many children of both their own and each other's children, regrouped into a new family, because the other party's children are not their own after all, some people will have eccentricity, in contrast, they will usually have more care for their children, can not be treated equally, it will make the other party and the other party's children have dissatisfaction and disgust, causing family disharmony.

Therefore, in daily life, it is necessary to treat the children of both parties equally, win the trust of the other party and their children with practical actions, and continue to increase the relationship between the two parties.

Second: Give each other's children love, and touch each other's hearts with sincerity and true feelings.

In daily life, if you want to win the understanding and trust of the other party and their children, you must compare your heart with your heart, give them more love and care, and would rather let yourself and your children suffer some grievances, but also take care of each other's children.

The fire refines the real gold, and after a long time, it will touch their hearts with sincerity and true feelings, and the whole family gets along very well and the relationship is also very harmonious.

Third: Play more emotional cards with each other's children.

The stepfather and stepmother in the remarried family are not good, sometimes even if they put in a lot of effort, they may not necessarily win the hearts of the other party's children, after all, they are not their own and there is no blood relationship, which is easy to have emotional estrangement.

In view of such a realistic situation, it is necessary to play more emotional cards with the other party's children, communicate more with the child, talk more, understand more about his psychological state and thoughts, and solve any ideological problems in a timely manner, and melt the child's heart with a love.

Then you can take your children to parks, zoos, playgrounds, and watch blockbuster movies during the holidays, so as to get closer to your children.

Before entering the remarried family, the husband and wife have established a strong alliance with their children, and the relationship is close. After forming a new family, parents may worry that their children are young, fragile, and excluded from their stepparents and other relationships, and will invisibly protect their children more protectively, and then form a sub-alliance problem.

In addition, the conventional wisdom that requires stepparents to "treat their stepchildren as if they were their own" is also a misconception. Stepparents can never whimsically "become" themselves into their child's biological parents, taking the place of their biological parents or their role.

There is a great deal of heterogeneity in remarried families, and they are hidden dangers when we don't understand them, but as long as we learn and understand, we can effectively deal with these challenges and dangers; At the same time, because of these heterogeneities, we can also make good use of these reefs and transform them, and we can integrate larger resources to create more wonderful landscapes.

What to pay attention to in remarried families.

1. The issue of trust.

Because after all, after a failed marriage. Both parties may be suspicious of the other half of the remarriage. There may not be a way to be as honest as you used to be.

And this approach makes this fragile relationship more likely to break. Therefore, if both parties want to stabilize the relationship, they must manage their marriage well, and remember that trust is the cornerstone of the relationship.

2. Compare with your predecessor.

This situation is more common in remarried couples who have a deep relationship and one of them dies due to illness or accident. After remarriage, nostalgia for the ex-spouse is often revealed, and this nostalgia is most likely to cause pain for the other party in the remarriage. Therefore, after the quarrel is broken, the remarried person must face the reality emotionally after remarriage to enhance the prevention of nostalgia.

The previous person has passed away, no matter how good the previous person is, only by letting go can you face the remarried spouse more easily, and only in this way will your hearts be more closely connected.