How to make yourself more mature? How can I make myself more mature?

Updated on vogue 2024-02-09
36 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    1. When you encounter a problem that you don't want to have: look each other in the eyes, smile, and be silent.

    2. Walk with your head up and your chest high. When you're in a bad mood, you don't want to greet someone, nod and smile, and walk straight by.

    3. Please remember: the definition of a good friend is, you mix well, he is happy for you in his heart; You don't mix well, he is sincerely anxious for you.

    4Make your own decisions and then be prepared to take the consequences. Remind myself from the beginning that there is no regret pill in the world, and I will always have a plan B.

    6. Do your own thing, and strive to do 100 points.

    7. Accept that you are just a "small me", but you must be able to accept the "big world" in your eyes.

    8 If you love someone, then let go and give him freedom; If he returns, he is always yours; If he doesn't come back, you never have.

    10Don't try to make any excuses for yourself, no one likes to listen to those excuses in the face of mistakes.

    11Don't lose your temper at will, no one owes you.

    12 Do not lie, for there will always be a day when it will be exposed.

    13. Don't underestimate anyone.

    14 You don't have that many viewers, don't be so tired.

    15 things in the past can not be forgotten, but must be let go.

    16What others say is remembered in their heads, but their own are kept in their hearts.

    17 Society is hierarchical, many things are unfair, don't complain, because it's useless.

    18. You will never be as important as you think.

    19. Understand that money can solve problems that are not called problems.

    20Whenever you say "I love you", please be sincere, whenever you say "I'm sorry", please look each other in the eyes.

    21 Never judge people by their appearance, speak slowly, but think quickly.

    22Find some time to be alone.

    23. If you don't want your own things, you can't like them anymore, you must know how to give up.

    24Don't feel that life owes you, in fact, I don't work hard enough.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Mature people don't ask this question.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Do what you can.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If another person says that you need to precipitate, most of them have some opinions about you as a person, or feel that you are too frivolous and exaggerated, so only by slowly precipitating can you make your character better and be able to really achieve things.

    The meaning of precipitation is actually to let a person keep his heart calm, so that he can not think about some other things at this time, and only then can he do a good job in a down-to-earth manner, which is a kind of exhortation for you by a person.

    It also shows that you may indeed have some problems when doing some things. You can think about whether you are always too frizzy when you are talking or doing things, causing yourself to do these things badly, or leaving a bad impression on this person in a certain shed.

    So when you encounter this situation, you should first reflect on yourself, and if you encounter this situation, you should quickly change your own practice. Because it's very bad if someone else thinks of you like that.

    Others will hang up your whole person and this bad image, so when you encounter this kind of thing, others will feel that you are not a good person, so many times you don't have a better opportunity.

    And when someone says something like this to you, they are actually advising you about something, but the best way for you to do this is to heed the other person's advice.

    And when a person talks to you in such a tone, he must be older than you, have experienced more things than you, or this person's status is higher than yours, which means that he may deliberately want to nudge you, so you must humbly accept that in the future, you may get more things from him.

    And if you don't choose to accept the other party's suggestion at this time, maybe there will be more and more problems between the two of you, and even when you really encounter something in the future, the other party will definitely not give you a chance, on the contrary, it is likely to put you into a particularly bad situation all of a sudden, so you will regret it very much.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The true maturity of a woman begins with these four losses.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Over time and the experience of things.

    More social contact, more thinking

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    1. Be humble and cautious. 2. Be a down-to-earth person. 3. Be reflective. 4. Don't talk about people behind your back. 5. Be cautious in words and deeds. 6. Be generous.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The quickest way to mature, but try with caution.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Personal experience, the main thing is to do, calm, not impetuous.

    Don't be in a hurry to express your opinions when talking to people, learn to listen, so that you can develop your concentration, don't speak too fast, lower your voice and speed of speech, think more before speaking, even if it is slow. In addition, learning to think about problems alone, from the process of thinking and analyzing problems, can experience your brain, and it is also a way to exercise your own calm thinking. Read more books, as the saying goes, opening the book is beneficial, and after reading the book, you should use your brain to think, and when I say this, you will naturally mature after you form a habit.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    1. The girl said that she doesn't like naïve boys, what are you anxious about?

    2. To be a mature boy, you must first have a sense of responsibility and dare to take responsibility, and you can't be indecisive when you encounter things;

    3. Secondly, it is necessary to be logical and decent, and the words that cannot be said are very unreliable, and what to say on what occasion;

    4, there is also self-confidence and humor, without self-confidence boys are easy to talk and do things, lack of humor, and make girlfriends feel that there is no depth;

    5, in the end, it is self-cultivation and tolerance, not with his girlfriend in small issues, and can tolerate his girlfriend's mistakes;

    6. From the above points, you can see that to be truly mature is not a day's skill, but the result of training from practice;

    7. It is recommended that you do not be impatient, treat your girlfriend calmly, and pay attention to all aspects in the future, and work hard towards mature standards;

    I wish you to win your girlfriend's heart as soon as possible and be a mature boy in her heart!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    People who fall in love are naïve and want to be more mature, in addition to learning to read books to improve their self-cultivation, that is, to speak less and grow a beard.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Whether a person is ripe or not is not pretended, just as crops and fruits cannot be judged by their appearance when they are ripe. A person's maturity must have a process of experience, generally fruit bears fruit in summer, ripens in autumn, your age is only in early autumn, not yet ripe, but the appearance has grown into a fruit, now just a big boy. Pretending to be mature is the same as pretending to be deep, pretending not to be like it will make people laugh.

    However, people of the same age will appear to be more mature if they have more experience, and note that they are just "looking mature", not really mature. The age at which a person is truly mature is not the same, nor is it fixed, some people are young and old, and some people are always old naughty children. But there are generally accepted standards to measure whether a person is mature, that is, "calm personality", "steady and moderate in dealing with people", "steady in speaking and doing things", "not surprised in case of trouble, not chaotic", "step-by-step, not impatient", "doing things to give people a sense of stability and reliability", then, dear big boy, compare yourself, which ones do you meet?

    As for how to appear more mature, you can do this, 1. Think twice before acting; 2. Think about everything before you say it; 3. Before speaking, consider whether the words you say will hurt others or destroy things; 4. Don't easily agree or promise things, unless you are sure that you can do it well; 5. Sufficient investigation or preparation before making a decision; 6. Do not believe the suggestions of others, but judge the intentions of others; 7. Strictly abide by the time, abide by the agreement, and stick to the bottom line of integrity. 8. Have the opportunity to do more things and increase the ...... of personal experience

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Girls like boys who are capable and accomplished. First of all, improve yourself, rich in connotation. Responsible, responsible, generous.

    Tolerate girls without violating principles. Physically and psychologically mature. Be more caring, considerate, and understanding of girls.

    Don't always be clingy, that's a sign of not growing up.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Deal with the things around you independently, experience more things, and have a sense of responsibility.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Talk less and do more. Humble and personable. Think more about others. Relaxing and being yourself is best. Show the best of yourself to each other.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Do things maturely and with a sense of responsibility. Girls like gentlemanly boys, so you must not be stingy. Usually care about her a little more.,Don't think about the game all day long.。。

    As for dressing, it's just simple and generous, and if you don't know how to wear clothes, it's best not to have too much color on your body.

    But... Kiss.. What I want to say is that if the girl you're chasing told you like this.,Probably.。。 Maybe just rejects you.。。

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    This question, how to put it, girls like mature boys. However, compared with boys and girls of the same age, boys are two years younger than girls, so they don't mind. Boys will naturally mature when they experience more things.

    If you want to mature quickly, that is: empathy, think about her, take all the difficult things on yourself, and bear more for the girl, she will be slowly moved.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    First of all, you should be mature in dressing, at least not naïve, and then improve your temperament, do what you want to be calm, don't have something to do, people are not in a hurry, you are in a hurry, and then you can supplement your knowledge.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    This requires a certain amount of social accumulation, and the most important thing is that you must know to be considerate of people, put each other first in everything you do, care about others, remember that you are a man, be generous in everything you do, and train your mind in social life.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Improve your literary accomplishment and cultivate your emotional intelligence. The rest is something you have to experience on your own

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I'm a boy, and I can tell you that boys only look naïve in front of the people they like; I advise you not to try to change, the end of the transformation is only two 1 breakup and 2 girls are torturing both sides!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    First, pay attention to promises: Second, do not exaggerate:

    3. Knowledgeable and subtle and introverted: 4. Broad-minded: 5. Not self-centered.

    6. Have the courage to admit mistakes.

    Seventh, strong-willed: Eighth, clean and tidy Nine, respect the old and love the young:.

    10. Have hobbies:

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Read more philosophy books, keep a low profile, and exercise a little more

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Enrich your experience, improve your ability to deal with things and think about problems.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    1.Calm 2Attentive 3Courage 4Generous 5Integrity 67Connotation.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    In terms of dress or personality, I have experienced more vicissitudes.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Five years from now, you'll be very mature! Of course, time is not absolute, it may be longer depending on your personal experience!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It is experience, not years, that matures.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Deliberately let yourself mature can't do it, and when you experience more things, you will naturally mature.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    The true maturity of a woman begins with these four losses.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    1. Be humble and cautious. 2. Be a down-to-earth person. 3. Be reflective. 4. Don't talk about people behind your back. 5. Be cautious in words and deeds. 6. Be generous.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Experience the tribulations of life more and take responsibility, and you will surely become mature little by little.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Go forward, fall and get up again.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    The quickest and most effective way is to dress maturely!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Think what you dare not think, do what you dare not do.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    The quickest way to mature, but try with caution.

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