How can I become more outgoing?

Me too, I sat in the first row, I used to cry when the teacher inadvertently swept me, but now, I dare to ask the teacher questions, that is, my heart beats very fast, laughs a few times, looks in the mirror a few times, keeps praising myself, and when I am thick-skinned, I am extroverted o( o haha

I'm also introverted, but it doesn't seem to be as good as you.

Personality is affected by congenitality, but we will change and progress in our efforts, adjust our mentality well, be good at communicating with classmates and friends, participate in more activities, and don't think too much about yourself, come on Slowly you will be fine Friends want to see you cheerful and happy.

First of all, don't be shy, because shy people will become more restrained, be bold, don't be autistic, communicate with others more, the main thing is to rely on yourself! That's all I can say!

Learn to love yourself, find your strengths, play to your strengths and avoid weaknesses, and accept your imperfections, because there is no perfection, don't be yourself. When we know how to love ourselves and cherish ourselves, we will have enough self-confidence to face everything, and we will naturally be cheerful.

Believing in everyone, including yourself, the problem is solved.

It's hard to change a person's personality, but for you, you don't have to change the shyness of your student days, that's good, and when you enter the society, the environment changes, you will naturally become cheerful, much more sleek, believe me, you don't have to worry about this now.

Today's children are basically poor in social skills.

First of all, let your heart be strong first, don't be so weak, and blush when talking to the living, which will obviously disgust some people.

Secondly, take the initiative to find someone to talk to, you can first be familiar with the girls, and then slowly get to know the friends of those girls, so that you can make a lot of friends, and when you have more friends, you will naturally be extroverted. But judge for yourself who can and can't. Of course, there will definitely be a lot of discomfort at the beginning, but you must give yourself a belief, for example:

I definitely want to be an extrovert", support your heart, try hard, and believe that you will definitely be able to become an extrovert.

It's okay if you're a friend, but it's pretty much the same as a friend if you're an adult, but it's not so unrestrained. First of all, let's meet the teacher and say hello or something. After all, saying hello is a simple thing.

If you can't do it, you just shout when you see the teacher every day, and it's good to make it a habit. After a long time, it will slowly get better after saying hello or something. But it's not necessary to do this kind of thing.

If you want to talk to you, it's good for you to talk to him, and there's no need to talk to adults. When chatting with an adult, it is best to follow his will at first, and when you feel that the topic is out of content, and the other party is not ready to change the topic, you should start to change the topic. But don't take the lead in the conversation, otherwise it is easy to become very passive.

Hope it helps.

Sometimes, for individuals, change is not necessarily a good thing, because some people are like that by nature, it is difficult to change, and if you want to become extroverted, you are more forced to speak in reality and speak in public!

It is difficult to change the personality, and deliberately changing it is likely to turn into four dislikes.

You can participate in some group activities, try to show your strengths in the activities, and often chat and communicate with others.

You can also be more with the opposite sex, don't be shy, when you are more with others, you feel that you are actually extroverted.

1. Have more contact with people with cheerful personalities.

2. Introverts usually have an inferiority complex, and they should overcome their inferiority complex, 3. Compare their own strengths with the shortcomings of others, so that they can give themselves confidence, 4. Don't care too much about other people's opinions when doing anything.

5. Participate in more social activities.

Find a job in sales (insurance, real estate, **business, etc.) and stick to it for 1---2 years, and you will definitely be extroverted.

In the form of a joke, the narcissistic way, people will think that you are joking, and it will be very good, I used to be an introvert, and then I used to use this way, and now the communication is not bad, hehe.

It depends on whether you are willing to try it or not, and if you can let it go, if you can't let it go, then there is no way.

I used to be very introverted, I didn't dare to talk to strangers, and I was distressed. Later, I felt like I couldn't go on like this forever and had to adjust myself and get out. My summary is:

1, the skin should be thicker, don't say it because you are afraid of saying the wrong thing, say what you want to say, say it wrong, it doesn't matter, who didn't make a mistake, you look at those famous hosts, the leader also made a mistake in his speech, and the little leader patted the horse's hooves more. You might laugh out loud at the time, but who will remember these little things later? 2.

Treat those people as if they were your friends and relatives, and don't be nervous, just like you would talk to your family. 3. If there is an embarrassing situation, don't dwell on it, forget it later, adjust your mood, and don't make such mistakes in the future. It's going to get better slowly.