What am I going to do? It s messy. I m so messed up, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-02-28
44 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    He uses just a classic method, forming a feeling in the surroundings, so that others think, you are in love, usually some boys who may choose will avoid, which is in a more stable workspace, the effect is very good, in fact, at the beginning of your handling method is wrong, that is, when this statement appears, you should directly tell the surrounding friends, there is no such thing, and in behavior, cold each other, the other party will be much more restrained, and will not be led by the nose, in a generally stable environment, This kind of relationship is easy to succeed, and the stability after marriage is relatively high.

    Ask your heart, whether he can be your future husband, this is very important, if you can't, resolutely break it, you can consider talking about one outside, this kind of remark will naturally break, if he is okay, then it will be light, give me the feeling that your intelligence and wrist, compared with him, are far behind.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Ask him to speed up and tell him that someone is chasing you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    When love comes, don't run away.

    Only when you truly accept him and get along with him will you know whether you are suitable or not.

    Only when getting along with each other can you really get to know him with an open mind.

    Give each other a chance.

    When you really feel that it doesn't fit, then there is no reason to be together.

    Just don't leave yourself with regrets.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Be calm, don't panic, and judge carefully to have a way out.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Since you like him a little, try to be with him.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Carefully recall what happened to you in the past, or ask him to talk about what happened together to see the details and whether he really pays attention to you

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Continue with the status quo and let it be, others say, that's not the main thing, go your own way.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Helpless sadness will only make your heart hurt more, forget it, although that pain has been deeply imprinted in your heart, but you must forget him, even if it is for yourself. Alas, why are there so many people who are sympathetic, listen to that song, Wang Qiang's "Autumn Doesn't Come Back". That kind of melody suits your current state of mind, and I wish you success.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If he's a tricky man, don't agree to associate with him, and don't be friends anymore.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Courage, like love, needs hope to nourish it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Hehe, calm, don't deal with it if you don't like it, and don't tell others that you're together, it's very bad, and boys may not care. As a girl, it's very bad.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Some things are lost before they know that they didn't cherish them at the beginning.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Men should be responsible for their actions, you have not cherished this girl well, and her abandonment of you is the consequence that you should bear. For the mistakes that have been made, what can be done is to make up for it, since she does not accept it, it means that your relationship is irretrievable, since this is why do you bother to keep it, this will only make others feel that you are not manly, it is better to simply let go decisively, let her go to find your own love, and you, I believe that you will also learn how to cherish the person in front of you before the next relationship.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    There are things that are lost and there is no chance to get them back, but don't be sad, God will definitely open another door by closing this window. In fact, this girl's attitude towards you is so resolute, I am a girl, from my point of view, she actually doesn't care about you very much, if she really loves you, she won't give up if she gives up. Besides, you've already retained it, so give it up.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You're quite an amazing man, and as a woman, I think you're doing too well.

    You are good to her, and you have done your best to do your best in this relationship, and you are quite beautiful and sensible.

    Just as you are reluctant, you should write this letter at this time.

    It's your responsibility for your own feelings, which you've done quite well.

    There are no regrets, you really did your best.

    It can be seen that you are a good man who is very affectionate and sensible.

    Even if she doesn't cherish you, you will definitely meet a good woman who cherishes you especially in the future.

    As for her attitude Dongpei, it is obvious that she still has a very hazy feeling about feelings, and she herself does not know her own heart, for feelings, she is not yet mature, to put it bluntly, the emotional strings are not fully developed! She likes you very much and knows that you are worth cherishing, but you are good to her, she can't react now, she doesn't know what liking is. You already love her deeply, and this is the difference in your pace.

    For you, this relationship has been paid too much, I even think that you have done enough, you are too worthy of your own relationship, and if you do too much, you will only ask for trouble. You give too much, and you always don't get the return you expected, such a feeling, too tired and tired.

    In fact, I personally think that you can go away in style and go to the army! There are no regrets anymore, you did a good juxtaposition, quite beautiful. As for your future relationship, it will take time, don't think about it so much.

    Maybe one day, when you come back, she's really grown.

    This relationship is only to blame that there is still a big gap between your feelings, she doesn't know how to love, she doesn't know how to like, and she doesn't know how to cherish you.

    Go with confidence! No matter what the future holds, this attitude is already good.

    You will be happy, and someone will cherish you in the future. Whether it's her ...... or notThat's all in the future, let's put it in for now! You've been working hard.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Talk about topics she is interested in, think more about her, do you not know her? If you really like her, express your heart to her, and you will feel relaxed and not so chaotic.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    She listened to her mother and didn't get married until she went to graduate school. So what are you anxious about? Isn't there a long period of time to chase?

    If you really love her, then you should work harder in your studies and prepare for graduate school. Get a Ph.D. and she'll definitely belong to you. Take my word for it!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    This is the reaction of adolescence, it is interesting to her, to keep it, do a good job first to see what she thinks, and then to study hard in the sophomore year, the time to talk about the object is there, and now focus on academics;

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If she rejects you decisively, then don't be ambiguous anymore (because she is more influenced by her family).

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If there is hope, confess; If it doesn't feel right, clear your mind and keep your distance.

    It's better for both parties.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Peaceful, pleasant, think, act.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Confession: What a good development trend

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You must be interested in her, right? She seems to be interesting to you, otherwise she wouldn't accompany you to play badminton every week, is your relationship still in an ambiguous state, don't confess, pure friendship, or are you not afraid of refusing to maintain this state, then you have to ask your own heart? If you want to talk about friends, you can talk more about the topics you care about, don't get so close if you want pure friendship, otherwise others don't dare to say what they think about you, it's better for boys to take the initiative, what are you afraid of, my current boyfriend is thick-skinned and I got on the thief ship.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Confession, at least not that you missed her.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You should have a good impression of her You have to act if you want to chase after you figure it out yourself You should take the initiative to find a topic If you are cold, the girl will be more embarrassed and lost If she also likes you, you will be even more disappointing Maybe it will be a different world after dating.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Be bold and you'll know it's right when you're older!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You can ask some questions about him, so you don't have to think about the topic. You can confess to her, and she should have a crush on you as well.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If you like it, chase it directly, or you will regret it.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You don't love each other, how did you get started?

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    You need to overcome your fears.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I looked at you as you described. I won't talk about the big truth, I think you've seen a lot and heard a lot, and you're already numb.

    My personal opinion is that it doesn't matter if you get into college or not, it doesn't matter if you study. Because you just want to outrun her. When you catch up and haven't overtaken for several years, you give up. Often, success is just that step.

    I'll give you another example: scientists have done a lot of experiments on this: they made two large pools out of glass, put a large shark in one of them, and put a lot of sardines in the other pool.

    On the first day, the shark hit its head and bled and failed to eat the sardines dangling in front of him. After a week, he still didn't get the sardines. The same head is broken and bleeding.

    After half a year, the shark and the sardine were put in the same pool, and the shark no longer ate sardines because it was afraid of failure. Because failure hurts.

    I think one of the things you need to face up to now is, what are you reading for? Just to surpass her??? If you feel like you can't do it, give up???

    First of all, your beliefs are very problematic. It's good to have a goal of catching up, but it must not be a rope that binds you.

    I would like to send you a message from Mr. Chen Anzhi: Do you want to change or do you have to change? If you just want to change, then you can only stop at ideas.

    If you have to change, take action right away, take a piece of paper of good quality, and write a hundred reasons why you want to change yourself. Then put in a lot of action, and after a week, look at your own changes objectively and rationally. You'll find yourself with a huge change.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Crushes are just that.

    You can be good friends with her.

    Deal with your homework first. '

    We'll talk about that later.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It's yours, it's yours.

    If it's not yours, it's not yours.

    Study hard, if you make a lot of money in the future, what girl doesn't have it.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Don't think about it, study hard, and after you are admitted to university, you will find that yesterday was a nightmare.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Isn't she your motivation to study, then study hard.

    Change yourself.

    Develop your self-confidence.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    There will be all kinds of psychological thoughts at this stage of middle school, in fact, there is no need to feel inferior, or think about it, you are almost the third year of high school, put away your heart, study hard, and use the college entrance examination results to prove to everyone, you are not inferior to anyone,

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    For her, you must also study hard, girls are willing to find a boyfriend who is stronger than themselves to have a sense of security, if you continue like this. Maybe this will become your history, come on! Lad.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Study hard, in order to be able to enter a university with her, you have to study hard, don't take this as pressure, just use this as motivation.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Last time I saw your question, I went to check it:

    1. When registering on the official website, it will not be said to be all white, because our internal entry system will not have white color, and the white entry after-sales system will also display black before and after.

    2. Unicom contract machine is also white, and the official website is not specifically indicated. (You can also search for it) 3, as for the blacklist, you can ask Unicom's customer service. Those who are in arrears (the arrears will be shut down, those who do not have a credit limit are not allowed to be in arrears, and the next month will not be deducted) may be added to the blacklist, and the next time you apply for a card, you can cancel the call charges that have entered the blacklist.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    1. If the opposite sex has similar interests with each other, it is possible to become good friends.

    2. A good friend of the opposite sex may become a lover if he has a feeling of the opposite sex3. If the lover gets along well and the objective conditions are suitable, it is possible to get married and become a husband and wife, and it feels that the situation between you and her can only be an ordinary friend relationship, and she has no feeling for you of the opposite sex, that is, it is impossible to develop into a lover. Your current situation is a general situation, and finding a topic of conversation is a sign that two people are not like-minded, so you should not develop further, even if you want to do it unilaterally. But if you don't give up, you can also try harder, prove that you won't regret it later, and at the same time verify the futility of your efforts.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Talk casually, if you don't talk about it, just say take an early break or something.

    For example, what sports do you like, what hobbies do you have, talk about studying, or ask about warmth and coldness.

    Once emotional, you must know to cherish, even if you can't do anything, you can still have a good memory.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Peaceful, pleasant, think, act.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    When you are in frequent contact, maybe she is the one who feels you the most, but now there is less contact, more or less because she is annoyed and tired, or she likes others more than you.

    Topics such as: What do you like? What color do you like, what kind of people do you like. What song do you like. What do you like. Like what kind of man to be your boyfriend. And so on and so forth.

    I feel like you like her a lot. If you like it, just pursue it, don't waste time!

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    You should talk about a topic she likes, do you know her?

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