What should I do? So dazed, so helpless

Actually, it's normal for you to think like this, friend, no one has face in such a situation, but what is the idea that I want to correct your mistake?

The family asked you to go home, not to say that you wanted anything to come of it, you know? Your family wants you to go home because they miss you, not because of how much money they have

This kind of family friendship, this kind of family affection, is not measured by whether you have money or not, and your family wants you to go home, and you don't accomplish anything, but you have gains, because experience is the most valuable asset

If your family wants you to go home, then go home, home will always be a paradise for yourself, and you can fix it at home and then come out

No one can succeed casually, experience more, think about the problem maturely, and find their own piece of the world

I hope you understand what I said

I also hope that you can be happy, happy and successful in your career

Home will always be your safe haven.

Don't be afraid of your family laughing at you.

No one in the world will be sincere to you except your parents.

I want to try everything when I just got out of society! I always feel that there are a lot of opportunities in front of me, and I can't settle down to do my current work! You have to learn to love your job!

Think about what you're going to achieve with this job! Your family will never laugh at you, they'll just worry about you!

You've only been around for 2 years, and I've been in a mess for 5 years. Ay.

Today's young people are like this, they are still young and ignorant, so they spend their money indiscriminately, and when they use it in the future, they find that they have no money! Ay.

What major did you study?

You said; "My family asked me to go home during the Chinese New Year, and I felt shameless to go home", this is your fault, if you are a parent, how do you feel when you see your children not coming home to see you because they don't earn money!!

In fact, there are many things in life that are always unsatisfactory, and some successful people in the past did not work hard to earn money in their early years, what happened in the end? --It's a success!

Believe in yourself, the future is not a dream, read more inspirational books on celebrities.

Finally, analyze what methods you have in the past few years, which methods are wrong, and whether you should change them.

May good fortune be upon you from the time I tell you the answer! Career success!!

You should know the truth of employment before choosing a job As long as you work hard to do your job well, there will always be a day when you are favored, the so-called line of work out of the champion You look at what major you study or no major (then go to night school to study the major), in the choice of career There is difficulty in discussing with your family, after all, only they can understand, choose what suits your interests to do, you will find fun in the work, and finally wish you a happy career and smooth work.

Home is always a haven for frustrated people, and your family will understand you if you don't earn money, go home first, stay for a few days, adjust your mentality, summarize the work experience and lessons of the past two years, and then go out to work energetically, there will be a harvest!

It's okay, it's always bitter and then sweet.

Me too. It's been a year, and I haven't found a job yet, be optimistic, maybe the opportunity hasn't arrived yet, and the opportunity can't be stopped, haha, clean up your mood, regain your strength, there is nothing difficult in the world.

We're all from your age! Have been through these too! It's good if it's a long time. The bigger point will solve it naturally!

1. Give yourself a gap to relax.

When you are confused and helpless, you can slow down first, not to find the so-called answers and ways out, but to give yourself free time, rest a little more, read more books, go out for a walk, relax and relax, in order to accumulate strength and start again.

2. Start with what you can.

Don't think too ambitious about your goals, start with daily work and simple things, work hard step by step, ponder slowly, adjust your inner thoughts, life and destiny will give you direction and guide you forward.

Feeling helpless and confused, it may be both longing and fearing for the future, making some friends appropriately, and seeing a psychologist on a regular basis can be very useful.

All the sighs are not down-to-earth to do and real, confused and helpless, are not born of the courage to face setbacks and failures, so don't sigh, go do something practical, slowly succeed, there will be motivation,

Think about what else you have, think about what you want to do, and finally think about what you need to do to do what you want to do, and then just start doing it.

I won't pour you chicken soup for the soul.

It is recommended that you go to the psychological counseling clinic of a regular hospital and have a psychological test.

If you don't have a tendency to be depressed, you should devote yourself to the things you want to do most as soon as possible, such as traveling, dating, or sports activities.

If so? Take medication** and counseling for psychological problems for a while.

Don't dodge, don't cover up, don't drag!

Truly bless you!

We are all imperfect, and I believe that everyone will have a situation of loneliness, helplessness, and confusion;

But the people, things, and things we meet and experience in life are all predestined, or necessary!

Face yourself bravely, don't escape, don't hide, don't refuse, wait and see, and stare into your heart!

Accept reality, not hypocrisy, not disguise yourself;

If you can pretend to be the world, the world will tolerate you".

The young man doesn't know the taste of sorrow, and he is worried about the new words. Ken is afraid that you don't even know why you are helpless and why you are confused. If you have nothing to do, your heart will be empty, and you will be helpless and confused.

In that case, why not find something to do and enrich yourself. Such as participating in community activities, such as participating in volunteer activities, ......, then you will quickly integrate into it, and win joy and friendship from it, and close to the negative emotions can be invisibly released and vented. In this way, you will get positive energy from joy and friendship, and you will no longer feel helpless and lost.

A little suggestion, I hope it will help you.

Live each day and keep yourself busy.

Enriching one's life, insisting on learning, self-achievement, confusion, and helplessness are mostly due to thinking too much and doing too little.

So to change the status quo, first keep yourself busy and set a small goal.

standard, so that every day has a sense of achievement.

Hearing how you feel, I understand how you feel at this time. When we encounter problems and difficulties, we often feel helpless and lost, which is a very normal emotional reaction. Here are some suggestions that I hope will help you:

2.Analyze the problem: Breaking down the problem into specific steps and goals and solving them one by one can make the problem appear clearer and more controllable.

3.Relax: Doing something you enjoy or exercising can help you relax, relieve stress and anxiety, and help you regain energy and confidence.

4.Seek help: If the problem is complex or requires specialized skills and knowledge, you can seek help from a professional, such as a lawyer, doctor, counselor, etc.

Most importantly, don't let yourself be lonely and helpless, ask for help and support from those around you, we all need help and support, which is the common value of human society.

Cover up, get confused, go on a trip, don't be bored alone, and stay away from the world and people that make you confused and helpless.