My boyfriend is hiding my previous feelings, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-27
44 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    In fact, you have bound yourself in a circle, that is, you have given yourself to him, you think that you should be with him for the rest of your life, otherwise you feel that you have done something wrong, but let's look at it from another angle, what you handed over to him is your sincere feelings, since such sincere feelings why can't you choose to trust him once, he may hide his previous feelings because he doesn't want to lose you, because he knows that you are a very traditional person, will you be happy if you know? But since those are his past, we can let go of those pasts, but it doesn't mean that we have to accept that he and his ex-girlfriend still maintain a muddy relationship, many people say that they can be friends when they break up, but is there anyone who can guarantee that each other only limits each other to the yellow line of friends, after all, it is a person who has been happy, moved, and loved together, it is difficult not to let his heart not make waves for past memories, so I think you should have a good talk about it, for your feelings, You should be brave enough to talk together and speak your mind. If he is willing to lose a former lover because of you, then you should also understand his past, if he really has the heart to break off the connection with the previous person, you will give up this relationship in a chic way, and not let yourself fall into a mistake and a mistake, which is the best explanation for the feelings you handed over to him.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Everyone has a past, doesn't they? Men actually love face, and they are afraid that you won't believe him if he says too much. Think about it, if he confessed that he loved his ex-girlfriend very much, but now he loves you very much, would you believe him?

    How many will be suspicious, right? In fact, if he is a person with a soul, he will not be so ruthless, after all, he loved at the time, it was with his heart, and it was impossible to forget it, but it doesn't mean that he will be obsessed with the past tense, because the past is gone after all, leaving behind those good memories of time, but the feelings have faded. Doesn't he have much contact with that girl now?

    This shows that he has you in his heart and is willing to write a chapter of love with you, so allow him to leave a little room in his psychology, whether it is bad or bad, it is his experience, I believe he will precipitate that relationship in the bottom of his heart, and I believe that he will know how to cherish you more after the storm. Empathy, if you have that experience, you can't easily forget it, but I believe that if you were him, you would also deal with it and cherish him now.

    Girl, don't give your first time easily, but if you pay, you must learn to stick to it, jade is not cut, learn to carefully carve your man, and then stick to it, talk about love for the purpose of marriage once in your life, and then for a lifetime, isn't it?

    The most feared thing between two people is doubt, learn to believe! Firmly believe, even if he is wrong, believe that this is love! Have you ever watched "Beauty Scheming"? Be like Liu Heng believes in Dou Yifang! Never ask!

    In any case, I wish you all happiness!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If he doesn't love you, why hide a previous relationship, he must be afraid that it will be difficult to think too much after you know, in fact, you don't have to think about it, everything will just go naturally, in fact, sometimes it is better to know some things than not to know.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Everyone has a past, and it is not easy to say which is right and which is wrong, it depends on whether he is sincere, not to listen to what he says to move you! But one day you suddenly understand that he has been silently hurting you and protecting you! Men talk about feelings, women talk about feelings, but over time, feelings will fade and feelings will precipitate!

    Cherish the present!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    When the interruption continues, it is chaotic. When you ask everyone, you actually have the answer in your heart, that is, you can't bear to get along with him. But, let me tell you, this choice is wrong!

    If he really loved you, if he cherished you, he wouldn't be like that. Don't have any scruples because you gave him the first time, life is long, and the future is beautiful. He is not the one who really loves you, leave him and find your true love!

    Here's my advice, I hope it helps.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you really plan to spend your life with this man, just pretend you don't know, wait quietly, and wait for him to tell you himself, even if he doesn't tell you, don't be surprised, after all, you are already adults, it is time to take responsibility for your actions, everyone has a past, including yourself, maybe you just don't want to say it, and nothing else.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Sometimes it's not a bad thing to hide, maybe he just doesn't want you to be too careful. If he really loves you now, then forget about the unpleasant things that have been hidden, and don't pursue them.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Does he love you now, and if he loves you, let him hide what he used to hide.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You can talk to him about it, after all, it's a big life event. Do you still love him? I know it very well. What about him? You are still young, and sometimes people have long pains that are not as good as short pains, and cherish them.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If he is very considerate of you and wants to marry you in the future and is very determined, then you choose to be confident, don't care, everyone has a good memory, but that's just a memory, leave him a little space to believe him, it's best to show your friendliness to that woman when all three of you are present, but also show your generosity, and also prove that she is not a threat, so that they can only be friends. If your boyfriend doesn't care about your feelings in general or doesn't care about you, but is closer to that girl and cares more about life, then you must insist on leaving, no matter what he says, don't listen to it, if he realizes that he cares more about that, he is likely to be unable to control his feelings in the future, and in the end it will pose a great threat to your relationship, and it will be you in his hands. So you have to understand what kind of person he is, and who he loves more and cares more about who he wants to be with, so you can make a decision.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Talk to him openly and honestly about your thoughts, or it may not be of any use for you to be troubled, and he may be uncomfortable because he can't be honest with you. Since two people have decided to be together, first of all, they still have to trust each other, you all want to form a family, for the past, after all, it is all in the past, don't always be entangled, many things are caused by misunderstandings between the two sides, sitting down and communicating, it is far better than being suspicious of each other and avoiding each other's problems.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you think he really loves you, don't care about her past, everyone has a past.

    Even if you make a mistake, you still have a chance to mend your ways.

    Believe in yourself and believe in your feelings.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Let's talk to him, mutual trust is the first step.

    You can't leave a pimple in your heart if you want to be with him.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Let him pass in the past, as long as you are good now.

    Thinking too much will divide you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Don't care too much, I used to be a teacher, but instead, he pushed farther and farther.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Let him pass in the past, what you want is his here and in the future.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Ay.. With similar experiences, it is mainly psychological imbalance that is at work.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    As long as he is sincere with you now and really loves you, it's fine.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Pretend not to know anything, and then better for him,

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Women are smart, and sometimes not knowing anything is also a kind of happiness and joy.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Move with emotion and know with reason.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It shouldn't be completely uncared for. You can test whether your boyfriend still misses his previous relationship. The main thing is to determine how committed he is to the current relationship, if he is more committed to the current relationship, it doesn't matter, you can not care about it appropriately, so as to make the relationship between the two people more harmonious.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    The boyfriend has some concealment from the previous feelings, he doesn't care about the past, he is afraid that you will accept boredom, so he doesn't want to mention it to you, some emotional exchanges in the past, to prevent you from thinking that these, feel hurt and leave her, so there is no need to worry about the previous feelings all day long, the previous things have passed, and the page has been turned over, and now you have started a new life, you must pay attention to the present and the future.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Of course, don't care, because his past is gone, if you want to continue with him, don't mention it again, he hides some of his previous feelings from you, nothing more than he doesn't want you to be sad, you just pretend not to know, as long as he can treat you well now.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Yes, you shouldn't care about your boyfriend's past. It is very sensitive to mention the previous feelings, and of course I don't want the current one to know. Even if you say it's okay, your boyfriend will still think you have a knot in your heart. And this section is not easy to open.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    The boyfriend has some concealment of his previous feelings, it may be that he thinks that it is all in the past, there is no need to mix it with the current relationship, there is really no need to care about the past, it is all in the past, as long as it is good to you now.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Your boyfriend has some secrets about his previous relationship, I think it's normal, because people get along with people, there must be some secrets, everyone will have their own past, since your boyfriend doesn't want to mention the past, then I don't think you need to force him, in fact, it's good for two people to be happy together.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Deep down in everyone's heart, there are some secrets to a greater or lesser extent, and it is not necessary to know them all. Live in the moment at all times. If your boyfriend is wholeheartedly devoted to you now and has a very good personality, don't worry about his past.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You shouldn't care about the past at all, because the past is in the past, if you are hurt because of the past, the current relationship is very worthless, sometimes the other party can hide it and let him hide it, and saying it will make both people sad, so why bother.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I think that if you want to get along with your boyfriend now, you shouldn't care about his past, as long as the two of you can get along well now, the reason why your boyfriend will hide his previous emotions may be afraid that you will be sad.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It's normal for my boyfriend to hide his previous feelings, and I also hid my previous feelings from my wife, I'm just afraid that she will feel uncomfortable if she finds out, so it's better to hide it and tell a white lie. Actually, I care a lot about the past and don't want others to know.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Don't worry about the past. Everyone has a past, and people come first, and if you show up in your boyfriend's life first, the outcome will be different.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Some people's past feelings may just want to bury it in their hearts and don't want to say it. Therefore, if you really love your boyfriend, don't force him to tell some past events. It could be some sad past that he didn't want to talk about again.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    You don't care about the boy's past, but there must be no concealment in the relationship.

    It must be that your boyfriend's previous relationship has done something wrong, so he will hide it from you, and he may make the same mistakes in your relationship, so you should still carefully consider whether to continue.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    If my boyfriend hides his previous feelings, he doesn't want others to know, and I don't think he should care about his past. As long as your boyfriend is single-minded about you, everyone has their own privacy, don't uncover what others don't want you to see.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    The boyfriend has some secrets about his previous feelings, he should not care, don't ask too much, otherwise it is easy to arouse his disgust, because everyone will have some secrets in their hearts and do not want to be known by others, therefore, don't care too much about the past, as long as he is good to you now.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Everyone should have some things in the past, concealing it is also out of a kind of helplessness or goodwill, and it is understandable, since you have chosen to be together, don't care too much about each other's past, look forward and face the future.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    I think everyone has things they don't want to say to others, if they really don't want to say it, you don't have to force it, but you have to explain to the other party that the past things are in the past, and the past does not mean that you don't care, and I hope that the other party can be more honest in the future.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    It depends on what is being hidden. If it's something trivial, you don't have to care. But if it's something big, like getting engaged, having children, etc., this kind of thing will definitely care.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    I don't think it's necessary to care about my boyfriend's past. It doesn't matter who he was with in the past or what he did. He's good with you now. Prove that all previous feelings are not suitable for him. Only you are the best person for him.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    My boyfriend has something to hide from his previous relationship, and I think that as long as your boyfriend doesn't get nostalgic for the past and doesn't get entangled with his previous relationship, but loves you very much, then there is no need to care about his past relationship experience.

    Because everyone has a past, just cherish the present.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    The boyfriend has some secrets about his previous feelings, and he should not care about the past at all, if you love him, you don't have to care about his past, because everyone has to have a little privacy space, and that is in the past.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Hello, it's not. Concealing his previous feelings proves that his previous feelings still have a certain impact on him, but because everyone will have some secrets in their hearts, if you mind, you can communicate with your boyfriend and don't think too much about it.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Since it's already in the past, even if he tells you everything, in this case, it will only lead to your suspicion getting deeper and deeper, in fact, there is no need to get to the bottom of the past.

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