How to understand no matter how important the person is, it is not important if he is disappointed

Feeling that a person is important, of course, means that you love him, but you are often disappointed in him, which means that you do not love the real him, but the person you fantasize about, and you just transplant your fantasies to him, which shows that he has at least one point that conforms to your fantasies, maybe it is the appearance, maybe the way he talks to you. You treat him as a living carrier of your fantasies, so you always ask him with your own requirements, and if he can't do it, he is bound to quarrel, so you find that he can't meet your needs again and again, so you are disappointed again and again. is disappointed a lot, and you slowly understand that he is not what you want in your heart, and you can't transform him into what you want, and if at this time, you have a new living carrier, you will naturally not pay attention to him, and you will no longer pretend to love him, so he becomes unimportant.

If you really love someone, you love him personally, and if you don't love him and need him and can't do without him, you will want to transform him.

I think this sentence is particularly obvious in love, in marriage, after the sweet period of love, often many people begin to show their true nature, begin to ignore each other, begin to blame each other, begin to no longer tolerate each other, when at the beginning of these small contradictions we can accept, but after a long time, over time we will change from acceptance to disappointment, when the disappointment is more, even if I once loved you as life, now you are not important to me.

After giving your heart to a person, but that person has made you lose too much and accumulate too many disappointments, it is not so important.

I was disappointed and gave up on him. I don't want to experience disappointment again and again, maybe the disappointment will be as great as the expectation is. The more important the disappointment given by the person, the more memorable it is, and every time I think about it, it is painful to prevent myself from being disappointed in the future, and simply treat him as an unimportant person.

If it is a relationship that is always stable, the first characteristic is that both people are serious about each other, cherish each other, and both think that it will always be stable. This means that each other works hard to do what they should do and not disappoint each other. If you disappoint the other person again and again, it means that you don't really take this relationship seriously.

How can it be said that it is always stable? Others think you are important, and if you think you are not important, you will disappoint them. So why do you feel that you are not important, and still make people think that you are important?

In the world of love, each of us is an ordinary person, and no one can be perfect without regrets. Just like the run-in period in married life, we always like to grasp each other's weaknesses and exaggerate and chatter without taboo, but we are not willing to be more patient to guide and tolerate. Those who don't come and say "I'm really disappointed in you" should reflect on yourself and ask yourself why your lover has become like this, and you don't have any problems with yourself.

Three hundred and sixty-five miles from a teenager to Baitou, how many people can cross many ups and downs all the way to Baitou? Of course, if you don't have the slightest love for this man or woman, it's a different story.

It refers to a person you care about, often doing something that makes you sad, and after a long time, you don't care.

I agree with this statement. I can't say how literary I am. All I know is that the human heart is made of flesh.

I give you the meat tribute because you are my most important person. I thought you'd keep it well. As a result, you are marinated as a piece of meat.

Cut a piece each time and fry it to eat. When I knew I didn't have much left, I regretted it, I felt sorry, I snatched the meat back. Even if it's not fresh and dehydrated, it's still my most important piece of meat.

You make it like this, and I still have a complete heart to continue to treat you as the most important person.

I suddenly felt that it was unnecessary, even if I liked it so much, I could have no dignity for him. But his backtracking, not seeking improvement, and not being able to understand himself correctly really disappointed me too much, tired, tired, and he is not so important. There were really too many disappointments.

It is always harder to change a person than to make a new choice. I wish we all meet people who like each other and are suitable for each other in the future.

This sentence is actually for the opposite sex, I originally cared about a person, but many times I let myself down, and I will slowly lose my importance to that person, so naturally it is not important.

Don't pin your hopes on others, live only for yourself in this life. Of course, it's just that what you say is too ruthless, to put it mildly: love those who love you. Just don't be disappointed in yourself. Always pinning too much hope on others, naturally disappointed endlessly!

This phrase is actually addressed to the opposite sex. I care a lot about someone, but many times I let myself down and slowly lose my importance to that person.

Feelings need something to support, you are repeated, indomitable, challenging the other party's bottom line, the other party still does not give up on you, is he stupid? Suddenly I remembered the sentence "I love you, but I don't like you anymore", which is probably what it means.

I think this sentence is particularly true, everyone's ability to endure is limited, if a person often breaks their own bottom line, it will definitely change their attitude and opinion towards him.

It is said that repeated disappointment is not three, and repeated disappointment is to wipe out a person's hope at all, the long pain is not as good as the short pain, the more disappointed you accumulate, the more you will make yourself more uncomfortable, every time is a piercing pain, so some people would rather simply let go than let themselves get hurt again.

1. Every day, invariably, is actually a mood; Everyone, passing by, is actually a fate; Every road, cold and summer, is actually a landscape.

2. Later, there were many things I didn't want to mention, and many people didn't want to see them. People who don't feel safe turn off the lights and dare to cry when they can't see tears. Suddenly, I remembered someone and smirked. Then, there was a wave of loss.

3, you don't have to be perfunctory, pretend to be sincere, I haven't worked in vain for more than ten years, whether I treat me sincerely, I can barely see through. No matter how important the person is, you will be disappointed a lot and become unimportant.

4. Don't take other people's care for granted, no matter how much he loves you, there will be a tired day in the end, and people's hearts generally do not die on major events, but those small disappointments again and again have become fatal wounds.

5. We will meet a lot of people, we will say goodbye to many people, we will continue to move forward, maybe we will fall in love with so many people, lose so many people, the key is who is willing to stop for you.

6. Is there a moment when I saw a familiar back on the street, and my heart suddenly beat out of rhythm, until I found out that it was just a stranger, so the whole day was full of memories.

7. Don't take other people's care for granted, no matter how much he loves you, there will be a tired day in the end, people's hearts generally do not die in big things, but those small disappointments again and again have become fatal wounds.

8. Every sensible and calm present, Funny Rock has a very silly and naïve past. Every warm and indifferent present has a sad and uneasy past. Knowing the world but not the world is the kindest one.

9. There is no smooth road in life, don't sign your honor and disgrace and joy to your relatives, ups and downs are the real life, the road is solid to not be afraid of wind and rain, people can accurately distinguish right from wrong after more experience.

10. Sadly, no one will be your safe haven in this life, only if you carry Hermes yourself, the other party will take Cartier to raise you, there is nothing wrong with this.

A paragraph of nonsense, a philosophy, a spiritual journey once a day.

We're all used to waiting, waiting for the one who won't come back. There is a saying that it is in the important person, and it becomes unimportant if you are disappointed a lot.

When I was a child, I was often bullied, and there was a fierce and gentle girl who would always stand up and protect me. Every time she appears, it makes me feel a warmth in my heart. She looks fierce on the surface, but in fact, she is gentle with me.

In my eyes, she is gentle, beautiful, delicate, and intelligent, like a flower that blooms in spring. But I didn't know at the time that some people were destined to leave, just like time, which doesn't stop at a certain moment.

She never knew that her appearance amazed the entire youth of a teenager. The past will not go away with the wind, but will remain in my memory forever.

I cry because I'm timid and afraid. And she cried because her grades were not satisfactory. I regret that I didn't hold her tightly and give her a little tenderness at that time.

When people are sad, they just need to cry, but she rarely cries in front of me, she is so distressed. I couldn't even protect He Laoyuan at that time, how could I protect her. But when I grew up and had the ability to protect her, I couldn't see her anymore.

I imagined what she looked like now, and she must have been beautiful.

In those days when we never met, we kept meeting, constantly missing, and forgetting. But she will not be forgotten by me, just the thought of the smile on her lips can make me have a good mood for the day.

Because you care more about him, think that he should be perfect, and have higher expectations for him than others, the greater the expectations, the greater the disappointment.

Because you care too much about him, the higher your expectations, the more important person does not cherish you, and of course that important person will disappoint you the most.

Because the more important the person, the higher our expectations, the more concerned, the more calculating, then it is inevitable that we will be easily disappointed. Because there will not be too few things and people that make you unhappy or lost, but what makes you go to your heart is often what you care about. Only if you care, will you cause harm to yourself.

Why the most important people in my heart often disappoint me the most, because they don't think like this, maybe they do it according to their ideas, not according to your ideas, so it will appear at this time, and your different opinions will lead to you being disappointed.

Because the most important person in your heart. The higher your expectations of him. Then it will be difficult for him to live up to your expectations. As the saying goes, the greater the expectation, the greater the disappointment. Often, it will be very disappointing.

Because you care too much about him, when you care too much about a person, you will do everything you can to be good to him, so once he turns his back on you, you will often feel the most disappointed.

Because he is the most important person to you and the person you care about the most, he is perfect in your heart, and you will be sad if you make a slight mistake Don't care too much, because you care too much about him, he will not take you seriously Liking someone should be fleeting, hot and cold, don't care too much.

You're not entirely right, maybe you've met someone who disappointed you!

The most important person in your heart, and that person may not care about you, so he or she may belong to something else, thinking about other people.

In the heart of another person, there will always be settings and opinions. This perception is based on one's own perception, but this perception does not necessarily conform to the rules of the public.

Let you down, where is the disappointment? Maybe it's just your assumption, and that person doesn't know or care.

Since it is the most important person in your heart, tolerance or wise inspiration will let that person know your thoughts and attitudes.

Because the most important person in your heart, you often pay attention to his skeletal aspect. So you'll take everything about her seriously, and often think so. He also has little things that will disappoint you.

The greater the hope, the greater the disappointment, because the most important person in your heart often has the greatest hope, and once this hope is disappointed, you will feel extremely disappointed.

Because there will be expectations for important people, there will be disappointments when there are expectations, and because of the value, the requirements are high.

It shows that you care about him too much, and there is a saying that there is no disappointment without hope.

Why is it that the most important person in my heart often disappoints me the most? This is because the greater the hope, the greater the disappointment, and it may be that you have too much hope for this person, so if it does not achieve the effect you expected to achieve, it will make you particularly disappointed. And you don't expect as much from other people, so you won't be disappointed if you don't live up to the expectations you want to achieve.

So don't expect too much from anyone so you don't get too disappointed.

Because you care more about him and have higher expectations of him than others, the higher your expectations.

The greater the expectation, the greater the disappointment, and they all hope that the people they matter to are good, but the reality is not necessarily that way.

Because in your heart, you hope that the most important person should be a perfect person, but often you will feel that you cannot reach your hopes, so you will be disappointed.

It's because it's the most important person in your heart.

So your expectations are the highest.

It's easier to be disappointed.