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In fact, we don't need to care about whether others learn from us, and we can comfort ourselves in this way, others come to learn from us firstly because we are better, we will believe in others and make such a choice, and secondly, we only need to care about our own affairs, there is no need to pay attention to it, what will others think and think?
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I won't pay attention to him, if he likes to imitate, let him imitate, there is no need to worry about him.
Moreover, even if he imitates me, he can only appreciate the fur, but he can't learn the essence, he is completely "Dong Shi imitates", and in the end, it is he who makes a fool of himself and is ridiculed.
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Then learn, as long as he doesn't have anything to slander my image and personality, and I think that I have always been imitated, never surpassed, that is, I just continue to be myself, just ignore them, if I can learn something useful from me, then I can also do a good thing.
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If there are always people who learn from me in real life, I will feel very honored, which shows that many aspects of myself have been recognized by others, and have become the goal of others to imitate and pursue, but I should not rest on my laurels and stagnate because of this, and continue to work hard to make myself continue to improve, so that I will always be in front of others.
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Someone always learns from me, which means that the person pays more attention to me, and thinks that my advantages are worth learning from him, but he always learns from me, and my own unique characteristics have also been imitated, which makes people a little embarrassed, I will immediately make changes, if I still learn from me, then I will tell him directly, which makes me feel very troubled, and I hope he will not be like this in the future.
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I think if someone always learns from me in real life, I might think about what I learned. If he learns my routine, my habits, it may be that my routine is better, and he is willing to follow me, and if he learns my dress, I may be more attracted to him, so he will learn from me.
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I feel that each person is unique and irreplaceable. Otherwise, no matter how much others imitate it, they will not be able to imitate your charm. So if in real life someone learns from you.
You don't have to worry too much, because no matter how much he learns, it's not you. The people who love you love your unique soul.
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In fact, in life, there are always people who learn from me, and I think I should be proud, because it is definitely some aspects of me that have been recognized by others, and I have become their learning goal. If you talk about it from this level, I am honored to be able to help them and make more people improve.
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If someone always learns from me in real life, I may think that on the one hand it is because I am very good, and on the other hand, I will also feel very irritable, and I may tell him directly that I don't like his imitation like this, and it would be best if he could correct it.
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I think if you meet such a person, you should directly tell them that it is very wrong to imitate others, in this case, you are a person who has no opinions, and your life is copied, and it will not be wonderful at all. It's good that your own life is different from someone else's, so don't always imitate others.
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I don't know what to do.,Good friends who usually play just like to learn.,Alas,I also spent two dollars nine to ask.,That Q&A teacher,Fuck,**Teacher,I don't know what to do? Some people will abuse her and learn from me, but some people will always think that I am very similar to her, I don't like this, because I am still friends with her, he really learned all my life and personality by her, I usually like to say what I like, what I like to do, she goes to learn, which makes me very tired, because I am friends with her, but there is an indescribable taste.
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You can ignore him, and after a long time, you will feel bored and will not learn from you.
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Just forgive and tolerate others, don't care, there is no treasure Buddha in the south.
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Looks like you're very young, you're a student, aren't you? I don't think it matters, don't worry about these people, you have to study hard now, don't care about other people's opinions and ideas, you don't live for others.
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For such a boring person, a person with no quality, just ignore him, after a long time, he will not learn from you again if he feels bored.
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If he wants to learn from you, what kind of thing or clothes does he buy, you say that this dress is so beautiful, where did you buy it? I'm going to buy it too. After learning from him many times, and then making him feel that someone is particularly annoying to learn from him, he can experience this feeling.
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That's a good thing, you have a lot of good points. You should learn from each other with her.
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Show her a horror comic strip, The Face-Stealer
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At night, skin care begins, who uses what**, what skin care products are used, she goes to flip through it, although it is a roommate, but I think we are not the kind of good friends with her, after all, when she has something to share, she thinks that it is never us who walks the reed, and flips through our things at will, which makes us very angry. After turning it over, she started to buy, what do we have, she must have better, objectively speaking, her face should be hungry and should go to the hospital for a check-up, instead of blindly following the trend and using cosmetics indiscriminately. Forget these, when we went shopping, a roommate said that she wanted to buy a schoolbag for her sister, she heard it, she must also buy a schoolbag, and another said to buy a pair of shoes for her brother, she heard it, and she also wanted to buy it, and the mantra gave me a link to give me a link, and the tone was the kind that ordered you, and made up for it by yourself.
It's nothing, we put up with the band, but we all told her not to do this in the future, she should still be like that.
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I have a say in this, and I hate it when people learn from me. I feel that it has something to do with my own selfishness, and I like to be alone. Anyway, I hate people who learn from me, and I have nothing to do but see what you're doing.
I'm not good, but I just hate it. This is mainly in junior high school Gao Nahe Hu, not now, now that I know the weaknesses of human nature, I can also forgive the weaknesses of human nature, but I still have many shortcomings, and I need to continue to work hard to improve myself. There's no need to hate someone who learns from you, it's too selfish, he thinks you're excellent, he wants to learn from you, just like you think others are excellent and wants to learn from others.
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I have a roommate who is cosmetics books, I have to buy whatever she has, once I was chatting with another roommate, she looked through my bookshelf in front of us to see what books I had, I don't think she is particularly educated. She silently observed how long it took me to wash, and then commented on it, and then began to learn from me. Anyway, I didn't have much reaction, except for the occasional discomfort, I felt that there was someone in the dormitory who was always staring at you, staring at the things you used and doing things.
Thinking about it later, probably only people with low self-esteem will imitate others in a blind way. Didn't there be an Internet saying before: it has always been imitated, never surpassed.
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I like a cake shop, she also said she liked it after she knew, I like comics, she also said she liked it, I was particularly obsessed with "Demon Patriarch" for a while, she said she liked it too, she also went to see it herself, and told others everywhere that she liked "Demon Patriarch", but she didn't like it at all, and the plot with others was what she heard in our usual chat. I used to like the taste, she disliked the taste, and soon she went to buy it, and now it becomes what she likes, I eat screw powder, she thinks the stove chain blocks the taste, and now she buys it box by box, she says she doesn't eat eggs, doesn't use oil, and as a result, I called the brothers to be useful, and I bought eggs box by box, and now what I like has basically become what she likes. I can now avoid contact as much as possible, and go in and out of the dormitory by myself, I don't know how happy I am.
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Last night when I was doing my homework, she stared straight at my computer screen in a funny way. Silently, I turned my head and was startled. I'm such a good teacher (.
If you ask me, I'll tell you, and even a girl asked me to pack it and send it to her directly after I finished it, no problem. You're in for a good job. Renting a peep screen or something is a daily operation.
I watched some online class, and she will definitely be watching it in two days. I will ps, she began to learn, I don't know if I stick to it. I had a bunch of bottles and cans, and she started to buy them.
If I get up, people will get up immediately, we won't go together, I don't go to the cafeteria in the morning, I buy instant soy milk powder and bread in the dormitory, and go directly to the classroom after eating in the morning. She also bought shaqima and the like to eat in the morning and didn't go to the cafeteria. Whatever comes out, keep an eye on it.
I know that she is a very inferior person with a lot of self-esteem, for fear that she will be different from others. But I'm very uncomfortable with that.
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I bought a lot of ** for a while, and I posted two of them every week, and she bought them at the speed of light** and started posting, I have been insisting on fitness and running since my freshman year, and she has to run too....What learning experience do I have, she also has to imitate....These things caused me to have some nervous sensitivities later, I had to hide everything I bought and use it, and I had to imitate everything I did, which was very sensitive. Someone does the same thing as me, my first reaction is whether they are imitating me, trembling and feeling that they are too sensitive, they begin to self-deny, they feel that they are too cautious, everything is a coincidence, it is the Eggplant that I am too careful, but it is not like a coincidence to think about the details.
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Same. The teacher asked us to copy the works of the Impressionist painters, and I began to say that if we wanted to paint Monet's wheat pier, she would also paint it, and she also said that the works of the Impressionists would inevitably overlap. Then I stopped painting wheat dun and painted water lilies, and she actually painted water lilies too, which made her feel super uncomfortable.
Later, when I talked about her, people took my words as a deaf ear.
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Be positive and optimistic about life.
Let's talk about my own situation first, when I just graduated from college, I was curious about everything but wanted to try, and I was about to run for three years because of my lack of experience! Lack of good work, little salary, and lack of affection may be a common phenomenon among graduates, so I chose the former among trying to change and being content with the status quo, wanting to be reborn one day.
It's just that I'm almost at the age where I should have everything, I still don't have a house, I don't have a car, I don't have an income that can allow me to maintain a stable life, I don't have the capital and cheekiness to gnaw at the old, I live in a unit dormitory without freedom and privacy, and I live a life where I constantly weigh which to buy and which to give up to ensure a normal income and expenditure for a month.
First, we must slowly step out of our comfort zone and change the status quo, and when life is not satisfactory, it is often because of life that we are troubled. Most people who are unhappy in their lives are dissatisfied with their current state of life. Therefore, the only way to get out of today's life is to challenge new fields.
You may find out what you really need. For a better life, we must step out of our current comfort zone, change, and pursue a better life, so that we will not be troubled.
Second, learning skills and living an unsatisfactory life indicate that you cannot achieve what you want. Therefore, if you want to change the status quo and do what you like, you should improve your life skills and sublimate yourself more. Only I have a wealth of knowledge and a lot of practical skills.
I believe that I will definitely live the life I love.
Give yourself a hope every day, try not to worry about tomorrow, not to sigh for yesterday, just for a better today. Slowly, I realized that life was so good.
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When life is not as good as it should be, it is still necessary to persevere. Because no matter what life is, it must go on, and the ups and downs are life, and life is life. It's easy to live, it's not easy to live.
I always hear this saying, life is not easy, but it is still much easier than life and death. The stumbling blocks in life will always pass, and life will come and go but will never be again. Life must learn to endure, because in life there will always be some sudden, unexpected things, there is no choice, there is nothing to do, you can only bear silently, and face it bravely.
We must learn to pick it up, but also put it down, only in this way will we start a new starting point. There is no job in the world that is not hard, and there is no place where people are not complicated. Even if you reject the unhappiness of the present, time will not pass slowly, you must learn to be practical and pragmatic, the simpler the happier.
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I think the most important thing is that you have to adjust your mentality. There are two possibilities for ordinary people to be in a bad mood (in general), one is feelings: as for this aspect, if you want to be depressed, you really don't have to, because for feelings, your depression is really useless.
Emotional matters are the most undemanding, no matter how depressed you are, it's useless to die of depression. So what are you still stupid and depressed there? It's better to waste time here, so it's better to find something useful to do.
Second, the career is a bit broader. I think so, what you have the ability to solve, do your best to solve it, as long as you do your best, don't worry too much about the result; If you can't solve it, then let it go, or what? Can you stop things from happening?
Since you can't, you have to go with the flow. All we can do is wait for the result, then accept it, adapt to it, and make some adjustments on top of that.
It's also good to find a good friend to chat, or go home, really cook for your family, experience the joy of family together, maybe your mood will naturally love to infect.
Be open, be generous, be tolerant, and may you be a happy person forever.
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