Relationship problems, hoping that a 30 39 year old friend will come in

What's too big a gap, you have to have confidence in yourself, my situation is a bit similar to yours, my boyfriend is also an executive in the factory, the director, my boyfriend's age may be about the same as the one you like, but he is not married, sometimes I will let my boyfriend gossip to me when I have fun, they are actually very smart people who can be managers, and I know that there are many girls below who admire and like, and even hint at him, So I think your factory may like him more than you, you have to try to hint at him, don't ask other people about him, to find an opportunity to get close to him and care about him is not embarrassed, directly tactfully ask him if he is married, they are all smart people, not stupid, if he has a wife, he will definitely say, I also believe that a group executive is relatively honest about the people in his own unit.

Position is not the reason for the gap, if you or he is not working in the factory, what is the position, it is recommended that you find your good sister in the factory to help you inquire about his news, it is best to be strict-mouthed, if not, you have to beat around the bush to his QQ, talk about it on QQ first, look at your appearance is a more shy person, QQ chat will definitely not make you too embarrassed, and then slowly get to know him. Good luck!

In fact, it is not difficult to find out about his information, so I will understand it slowly.

Like, but not want those underage to be romantic, to fall in love, you don't know him, how can you like it, in case he has a bad personality, has a family, and is addicted to gambling and drinking, sometimes, just have that feeling, you think you are, marrying, it is a lifelong thing, it is estimated that you are also in your early 20s, without those glamorous pasts, you must have a mature attitude to face these, romantic, flowers and candlelight dinner, there will still be.

If you want to know him, just ask, it's okay, what can others suspect, your own happiness is in your own hands, sensible, and responsible for what you do.

I hope what I said works for you.

In order to ensure that employees are 100% engaged in their work, some companies strictly stipulate that they cannot fall in love within the company or departments. It also monitors everyone's QQ or MSN, which is very immoral and seriously hinders the final marriage of lovers. However, your situation is a kind of unrequited love, first find a way to get a male colleague who is very familiar with him (please eat), the most primitive way is to write a letter, this company will not check.

You think you introduce him to a girlfriend and ask him if he has a girlfriend and what kind of girl he likes. Then I asked him to have a treat, but I didn't introduce him, and took the opportunity to learn more. Ask him more. After understanding, think of a way.

Be sure to look for opportunities. There is no opportunity to create an opportunity to meet him by chance, and then chat, and when it comes to a certain issue, mention "sister-in-law should be the same". At this time, if he was unmarried, he would definitely say that he didn't have it yet. If he agrees, then you're out of luck.

Don't get close to him again, because don't gamble your love when you don't grasp it, I hope it can help you!

If you don't have a preconceived position (the gap is too big), please confess to him, whether you are married or not, all the truth will be revealed...

If you feel that the possibility is not high, put this love deeply in your heart...

Treat yourself to dinner, let a very small or married person help you inquire, be bold, after all, it is your happiness.

You have to be bold to confess to him and be brave, after all, everyone's love is 'exchanged' by their own efforts.

Be bold, nothing There must be very failures on the road to love.

It's impossible to see without failure, be confident.

1 I still treat you as a friend, if you don't have that feeling, you don't necessarily have to be a friend!

2 You still don't want to be a third party, so that one person will always be hurt, after all, someone else is married. Do you have a good conscience?

3 No matter how bad her feelings were, she still chose her husband at first, so she felt sorry for her husband in conscience.

4 If you really want to go on, keep this relationship for a while and wait for her. If she hasn't thought about divorce yet, you'd better let it go.

Marriage is very important to a woman.

I think you should not develop any further, otherwise you will be hurt by each other, she replied to your text messages, because there is someone in this company to talk to, and care about you not to involve yourself again, after all, he is already a family person, and she will not give up her marriage so easily.

It's the New Year soon, and he's afraid that if he's entangled with you like this, he will be known by his family, so it's not good, in fact, he knows best.

You don't want to waste your feelings and time, it's better to be an ordinary friend.

She may just be afraid that one day she will never be able to go back if she really gets out of her own level, some things are not as simple as you want, she just wants to be your best friend by your side, bless you and share happiness and happiness with you, and when you think you have your lover, you will understand that she will always be your good friend.

Time will tell, avoid her for a while, if she cares about you, she will take the initiative to find you, otherwise die.

I'm just 30, you say? Let's see if I can help you, how long has she been married? Got a baby? Has she ever thought about divorce? I guess she might have a crush on you!

First, he has feelings for you, and they are not ordinary feelings.

Second, if you look at it from your point of view, you should boldly go to him and make it clear to him, it is better to be direct, and what can be solved.

Third, I don't know the level she said, there are two kinds, one is that he can't pass his own level for fear that he will violate his marriage, and his husband is afraid that he won't be able to pass this level, and the fourth is to know whether she is sincere to you, and whether you can continue.

In fact, you have the answer! You are still pushing yourself.

Let's ask, a woman with a family, even if she has love for you in her heart, she will not give up her current home, because it is not that she is reluctant, nor that she has no love for you, but because she thinks too much, and she also has to face all kinds of pressure from the outside world, have you thought about it, many things are very helpless, people who may not love each other can come together, now there are too many lovers, why?? It's not because these people who love each other can't be together, so they unconsciously develop into lovers, we are all mortals, who can control the feelings == really love her, I think you will know how to do it, it's enough to care about her at all times.

Met the requirements, came in, and found no relationship problems.

Seriously. I have the same problem as you. I was speechless. I am 24 years old. Married. He was 26 years old. I'm still single by my standards. I'm still thinking about it??

The problem is that you, in this situation, can only chat privately, personally.

Say it, I can only say to help you analyze and analyze, right or not, it's up to you, I'm over thirty and meet the requirements.