Can I still find the object, am I not able to find the object?

Why are you in such a hurry? A man can marry a 20-year-old girl at the age of 40. As long as you have money, you have a profit. Women will deliver to the door.

If your own conditions are good, of course there is no problem with the opposite, why hurry! Waiting for fate.

I also like beautiful women. But the beauty doesn't like me ==

When a man is about to die, his words are also good, telling you: you can find it!

Of course you can find it, but your conditions should not be too high, you have to see if your own conditions can meet the standards, don't pursue beauty. If you want to be able to live a good life, you have to go home beautifully and be a vase. As long as two people have a common language together, feel happy, and be happy.

I advise you to find a job first, you have a certain economic foundation, if you don't have a certain economic foundation, people will look down on you, they will think that you are an unserious person, a person who does not do a good job and does not seek to be motivated. With a job, you will meet a lot of people in the society, and you have to treat your friends around you with sincerity. That way you will find the one you love and the people who love you.

It's not difficult to find a partner, but it's hard to find a beautiful one.

What advantages do you have over other men?

Why should a beautiful woman choose you?

Beautiful women need a lot of money to maintain, can you afford it?

Probably, the main reason for not finding the object.

1. Less contact with people. So I don't talk to girls, I don't have topics, and I don't have skills. Will only reply machine: Is it there? Have you eaten it?

2. Girls will not be invited. Pickle girl is a game, after all, you still have to play it on the spot. Without dating, there will be no emotional progress, so how can you get a girl?

3. There is no clear plan for the future, which cannot give girls a sense of security. A sense of security is a crucial assessment condition for a girl. A girl wants to entrust her future to you, you are so unreliable, how can you do it?

The "resource pool" of a master of pickling girls is usually too big for you to imagine. A lot of times, it's not that you can't find someone, it's that you don't want to take the time to get to know someone. At first glance, you sentenced that person to death.

After that, no matter how much that person shows you over, you won't think about it again. It's not that no one likes you, it's not that no one chases you, it's that you're stuck in place. Many people are still single because they have been waiting.

Waiting for love, waiting for others to love.

When I was single, I actually wanted to fall in love, but whenever someone said they liked me, I either dodged or hesitated for a long time and then refused. Because I know that I do long for someone to be with me, to have someone to say good morning, good afternoon, good night to say to me, to have someone to eat, drink, go shopping, and do a lot of things with me, but I know that I don't need the comfort of being lonely.

I like to fantasize about some ethereal and unrealistic love, but I don't want to take action, and I am obsessed with being alone. If even you don't have praise for yourself, it will be harder for others to find your strengths. Once you learn to love yourself, it will be easier to accept the love that others give you.

One of the things that prevents you from finding a boyfriend or girlfriend is actually your own thoughts. In addition to normal working hours, I stay at home all the time, sleep, watch dramas, watch movies, eat snacks, go shopping, and like to be alone. A friend wants to ask you out shopping, but you're too lazy to go out.

I don't have the other half of my life, I don't get married, or I have been divorced, and there are also people who have lost their books and lost their spouses. Now it can also be said that there are no male (female) friends, and it can also be called single. As the age increases, more and more people find that there are fewer and fewer resources of the opposite sex around them, resulting in their mate selection criteria leaking from low to high to low, and finally they still can't find a suitable partner.

It's not that it's hard to find the right person, it's just that there are too few resources of the opposite sex to know, the social circle is too small, and the people around you are friends for thousands of years except for colleagues at work, and there is no other way to meet new people.

Single people are classified as having fewer interactions, and the relationship system may be compromised, further reducing their ability to communicate and further reducing the likelihood of finding a suitable partner. Now most people are more independent, and have their own ideas, whether it is financial, or spiritual, the treatment of feelings is more about "equal strength + mutual achievement", if in love, or after marriage, the state has not improved, or even worse. It will be difficult for single people to enter a relationship, and they will delay again and again, and the more they delay, the more afraid they become.

Puppy love is very popular now, so many people have a lot of love experience before going to college. He is able to quickly have a relationship, and he can also quickly pull out of a relationship. Unlike the friend who is single in the mother and fetus, it takes a long time for her to enter a relationship, and there are not many people who have the patience to wait for her.

The first thought in the heart of anything, especially feelings, is rejection. Someone chases and refuses, someone chats and refuses, and someone needs help refusing. It's not that I'm not enthusiastic, it's just that I'm too lazy to meet new people and like to go around in old circles.

Because meeting a new person will waste a lot of time, and when you grow up to a certain age, the circle of friends is not closed enough. The mentality is not good, thinking too much, feeling that I am not good enough, not good enough, in fact, I am not confident enough and do not understand the minds of others. In fact, other people are not as materialistic as everyone thinks, as long as you make others feel comfortable in getting along with others.

Let me talk about it, because I live in a small county town and live an ordinary life of two points and one line. Personally, I don't think it's difficult to find a partner in a small county, but the reason why you find it difficult is because your circle is too narrow. Too few people were contacted.

A small county town is relatively a "society of acquaintances", and a big city is relatively a "society of strangers", which has more opportunities? Which is easier to do? Finding is one thing, but the key is to find the right person, otherwise it is better not to find, and finding the wrong person may be a "disaster" for yourself.

Don't just look for it just because you can't find it; Don't settle for just because you can't find it; Don't just because you can't find it, it's almost enough. In this way, in fact, it is not that he is high-minded, arrogant, too picky, and has no self-knowledge, etc., because he casually "compromises", and such feelings and marriages are more likely to have problems. Marriage is the union of two sexes, the union of two families, and the union of two people's upbringing.

It's easy to judge between men and women, but what about each other's families? How was the other person's upbringing? Without an in-depth investigation, it is difficult to find the problem.

Unless you say that your luck is particularly good, you will be able to find a suitable person, no problem with personality, character, character, no problem with three views, no problem with thinking mode and behavior, no problem with living habits, life details, etc. It's good to be able to care for each other, respect each other, be faithful to each other, and grow together after being together. Or even if there is a little problem, but within the range of what you can bear and bear, it is not a big problem, and it is normal to have a little stumbling around, and you can get by making do with it.

But the question is, what is the probability that you can get a relatively perfect and satisfactory compromise like this? Before deciding to hold hands, it is important to have a more detailed and comprehensive examination of a person, to examine what kind of person he is, rather than to examine his external things at the beginning, or only consider his external things, such as his appearance, wealth, status, and so on. You know, you're going to marry someone, not to these external things.

These external things, these plug-ins can become a plus point, an additional point, but it is definitely not a basic score, so don't put the cart before the horse, otherwise you may pay a relatively large price. This price may be one's own youth, one's own youth, or one's own health, one's own property, or even one's own life. Sometimes holding hands is simple, but the key is that after holding hands, you must fulfill the promises you have made, bear that responsibility, have that responsibility, fulfill your obligations, respect each other, care for each other, be faithful to each other, and cannot do without each other in marriage and love.

Object workaround not found:

1. Don't give up on yourself: It's really difficult to find a partner now, especially boys, but you still can't give up on yourself, if you fall down, it's even more difficult to find a partner.

2. Strive to improve your ability: No matter how you look now, as long as you have the ability, you can still find a partner, the key is your own ability, especially the ability to make money.

3. Don't be too picky: Don't be too picky about finding a partner, people themselves are not perfect people, as long as they are suitable, two people feel comfortable together and understand each other.

Ways to make yourself great:

1. Have a self-motivated heart

People are not born to be good, but they keep moving forward in life. While others are playing, you are trying to move forward and have a motivated heart to complete the work at hand. If you are self-motivated, you will not become lazy, you will constantly analyze, which will give you an unusual patience.

A good person is often inseparable from reading. Reading not only changes one's way of thinking, but also enhances one's temperament. In the process of reading, I constantly improve my knowledge level, so that my horizons are broadened, and I look gentle and elegant.