My family is financially average and distressed. Everyone come in and enlighten me.

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
47 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There are so many people in the world, rich and poor, and some of the reasons for this difference are inevitable, but there are also many accidents, the same environment, the same opportunity, the same effort, some people succeed, and more people fail. But whether to go or not to strive for success, it is up to you to decide, if you want to become rich, you have to rely on yourself to fight, even if I can't get rich in the end, I must be able to get rich. Don't live in the past, think about your future without losing people, you should take a long-term view, step by step, temporary poverty is nothing, because no one else is rich, maybe you get more opportunities to exercise, you can withstand the test of setbacks better, you can use your own hands to create wealth, think about when one day you become rich, think back to your self-made journey, what kind of sense of accomplishment.

    Poverty is never a reason for inferiority, and being rich is not arrogant capital! Don't dare to make friends with others because you feel that your family is not as good as others, you must keep a normal heart, if someone doesn't make friends with you because they think you are not rich, then this kind of friend, don't do it! Hehe......

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    As long as you face up to the problem that your family is not as good as others. And don't feel that your family background is not as good as others, it is a matter of inferiority, this is innate, you can't change it, you can change others, such as your grades are better than theirs, so that you have confidence. Also, it's not that there are no good friends in the class because they think you don't have a good family background and don't make friends with you, but because of your low self-esteem and content, they don't dare to approach, you try to contact your classmates, don't deliberately hide or care about your family background, you really just want to call friends, and they will accept you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Go with the flow Real friends are not measured by money, nor are they used to cross their own Of course, you must also know how many pounds and taels you have Nowadays, it is not easy to make money in society, you must know that everything you have now is given by your parents Don't embarrass your parents If you are a man, you should be independent, cheerful, broad-minded, take the initiative to socialize with the classmates you like to contact and not necessarily compete in fashion The most important thing you should pay attention to is your studies Don't always be addicted to the Internet The outside world is very exciting But it is also very helpless So to overcome some helplessness, it's up to you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you want to open a point, everyone is different, you don't have to use money to measure, as long as you do well in other aspects, those people will feel envious of you, which can't be done with money, inferiority, everyone is the same!! Not everyone thinks that if you have money, you can make friends, but if you don't have money, you can do it!! Pluck up your courage!!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I have the same experience as you, I am not afraid of being poor, but I have to be poor and ambitious. I am now a university teacher. Young people who are promising should compare their ambition with their peers, learn better than others, and have perseverance compared to others.

    As long as you do well and excel in everything, those with low self-esteem should be those who are rich but not motivated. Determined well, work hard, think that you will be a promising and promising person in the future, it is too late to be happy, and you still have the leisure to feel inferior.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Why have low self-esteem? You study hard Better than anything Everything will be answered in your efforts Not to complain about your misfortune but to accept the present and strive to change the future I believe that you will soon be able to radiate your light When the time comes, it is not a few hundred but tens of thousands Maybe you feel very far away But you must see the distance as the motivation to work hard.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Low self-esteem is not necessary, everyone can't decide his birth, why care so much about poverty? People are poor but not poor, and they can change their future destiny through their own acquired efforts! Be cheerful and optimistic, in fact, many times you think too much and are too sensitive!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Just be yourself, you are unique and unique in this world, work hard, no matter what ups and downs you encounter, you have to believe that the future is bright and beautiful!! Believe in yourself, do what you have to do, and don't compare!!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You are still young, this is a strange thing done by vanity, and the family economy can generally live a wonderful life.

    Animals do better than humans in this regard, and you see man's most loyal friend: dogs are more comfortable and never worry about being rich and handsome.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Children, when you are young, you will envy others, and when you grow up, you will also be, this is a norm, everyone has emotions, maybe they also envy some aspects of you, but don't feel inferior or anything.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The problem lies in yourself, thinking too much, all the inferiority complex comes from your own comparison, let go of your own baggage, do what you want to do...

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Be bold and courageous in everything you can. Everyone will encounter different problems at different stages, believe in yourself, take the initiative to make friends, and after a long time, everyone will get to know each other.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The economy is not an absolute determinant of happiness; When you are in psychological distress, think about what is worse than your own economy. Learn to adjust your mindset.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    As long as you live happily, have your own ideas and pursuits, and do something positive for this, I believe that you will definitely do something and change your family situation in the future.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Let go Don't think so much Don't always look up, put everyone at the same eye level as you are, and tell yourself "I'm the best!" ~”

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    To be alive is to be happy, and to be healthy is to be happy. If you want to compare with those rich second generations, we are indeed shy in our pockets, but money is not everything, it depends on how you look at it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Do more things you love, try to communicate with your classmates, and don't compare yourself to others!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's good to have more money and less money, as long as you have a happy life and good health! Peace is a blessing, health is the foundation!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Self-confidence makes people cheerful and open to some things, and it doesn't matter if your family is poor The main thing is that you think you are inferior to others in your heart? ?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    People are not poor, and the children of the poor are in charge early, don't compare with others, just do your best.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    There is an idiom called "what you can do, people are more popular than people, the road is dead, the road is under your own feet, how to go down, you have to see what method you use to go down."

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you are not satisfied, you should be distressed, or you can make progress, you are right.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Take advantage of the limited economic stance and do the job at hand

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    There's no need, it's good to have fun! I haven't envy you yet.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    People's hearts are not enough, and they have to look back at Shu?

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    The most important thing is to learn your skills well and then get a good job after graduation.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    People can't be bothered by a poor word, because everyone starts from poverty.

    It's not terrible to be poor, it's terrible to be afraid to face reality and live in a world that deceives yourself.

    fight

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Try to overcome it, and if you can't think about what you will do in the future.

    Go to open places and see, and your desire for profit will fade away.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Your biggest problem is that you are too inferior, don't have this kind of heart, everyone has advantages. Whether it's making friends or getting along with roommates, as long as you are sincere to people, don't take advantage of others and don't play smart, everyone will be good with you. And usually study more, be sincere, study hard with the attitude of being responsible for your future, and your grades will definitely be good, take 10,000 steps back and say that learning is not the only way out of life, this is just a process of accumulating knowledge Don't let yourself live too tired, do all your efforts, and then go with the flow, do your best to obey the destiny of heaven.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    We don't have to care what others think of us, we don't have to mind what we think of others, we are broad-minded, tolerant of the world, and we don't have to ......worry about small things

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Don't think about it, keep a good mood.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Somewhat selfish, or a little selfish. Well, learn to be considerate of others and understand others more. In this way, your life will change a lot

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    In fact, I have also had this feeling, when I was in high school, I saw that others could find companionship, if they were stuck together in the same dormitory almost 24 hours a day, but what about myself, I finally found a good friend in my first year of high school, but it was only half a year before I was divided into classes, and my high school studies were intense, although we had a good relationship, but we couldn't see each other often, and in the next two years of high school life, I didn't find a good friend who could be inseparable from me.

    You said that you are taller and sit in the back row, and the girls in front of you don't like to communicate with you very much, I think they may not be intentional, because they may have more contact with them when they sit in the front row, and they are more familiar with it over time, so they will often chat together, and you are sitting in the back row, you may not be familiar with you, and you have not considered that this will cause you confusion. In fact, in my experience, students in a classroom tend to sit closer to each other and have a better relationship, while those who sit far away often don't talk for a week, so sometimes you don't have to be particularly sad. And, as a student, the most important thing is to develop yourself well and improve your abilities, right?

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    When I was in junior high school, because of my bad grades, the relationship with my classmates was average, and the relationship with the girls in the third year of junior high school got better, not to mention the elementary school classmates, and now I will chat on the Internet, everyone was so young at that time, and many memories have faded with time, but I still remember them, that's fine, 3,4 friends are enough, it's not good to have more friends, it's enough to be able to mingle with the class, or it's enough for girls to chat in groups of 3,5,Girls,The heart will also become complicated with time.,When you get to high school in the future, you'll be able to experience it.,Not to mention college.,Everyone is a person with a mask.,Don't be too sympathetic without a deeper understanding.,Be yourself.,If you think it's right to do this, then it's right.,Elementary school classmates occasionally say hello.,It's okay to say hello to a few of you in junior high school.,You won't get tired of being together every day.,Others will be tired.,Distance produces beauty!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Friendship is not the whole of people, so you should be able to let go of yourself first, and don't make yourself depressed because of these unhappy things. I think it's because you're deliberately pursuing, and you want to be good with a lot of people, and a lot of friends doesn't necessarily mean that you're a true friend. People have this mentality, when you see a person who has a lot of friends, you don't want to associate with him or her, because you feel that he or she has so many people to care about, so they won't treat you sincerely.

    Think for yourself, do you feel this way? It is enough to say that there are only a few or even only one really good friends. You are still young now, and when you grow up, you will know that no matter what the relationship was when you were in school, as long as you have a party or something, you will treat each other as friends and talk, especially in other places, this feeling is even stronger.

    But your confidant, your best friend, can only be a small group of people, people can't be too greedy, so it's enough to seriously manage the friendship you can manage now.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Try to be with them, you can listen to them quietly at first, pay attention to what they say, you can start to find similar topics to talk to them, and over time, you can talk about anything

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    It could be your own reason, and you'll want to check yourself again. Don't dwell on a little thing, be happy every day.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    When you are a child, you should cherish your childhood, and when you grow up, no one will play with you.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Landlord, you're so confusing

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    You have no experience in love, you are a little overwhelmed, you are afraid that you will fall in love with someone you shouldn't love, if you don't know him, how can you know, whether he should love or not? Relax, be simple...

    I am like you ...

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Let go of your own pace and go through some feelings and you will mature!

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Students are not in a good mood at the beginning of school because they are nervous, after all, the holidays have been relaxed for so long, and now they have to study again. It will be fine in a few days.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Haha, I have the same struggle, but my family has just started kindergarten.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Feeling ugly is a sign of lack of self-confidence. I think Jack Ma is ugly. However, those who liked him went to the sea.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    I also have a good sister like that, but there are some things I don't want to say to her. You're because of you think about the sadness of crying last night, and of course it's uncomfortable. As for the feeling you have for your senior sister, it's because she tells you what is on her mind, so she has that feeling.

    In the future, you don't have to be too distressed, you want to write about happy things, and don't think about that strange feeling, otherwise the more you look for the mystery, the deeper the mystery will become. Because your senior sister trusts you, she will talk to you, and as long as you share your thoughts with others, your mood will be relaxed. The above is all summarized by me, I hope it can help you!

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    You should be better for him, the relationship is better, and you should help him when you see her in trouble.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    ...... like **If this really happens, go to a place where no one knows you and have fun for a few days, reflect on it, think about why this is happening, figure it out, understand, it's fine, if not, find a trustworthy person to talk to, cry out all your pain, all your injuries, vent your emotions, sort yourself out, face it bravely the next day, walk with your head up, look directly at others with your eyes, don't dodge, you will find that they dare not look directly at you.

    I don't know if it's useful to you, but walking with your head up, looking into other people's eyes, and talking loudly is an unexpected benefit to this situation.

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