My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for four years. I ve been in love with my boyfriend f

Actually, you are very happy, because you have loved vigorously

Actually, you are very unhappy because your marriage has been hindered

Continue not to continue. No one can give you an answer, can they?

Or maybe you already know how to do it. But I don't have the courage to do it. No matter what you do、I think in the future、You will regret it、

So at least at this moment to make a decision that you don't regret now, 4 years, you have persevered, is it really time that you can no longer hold on? If yes, then say goodbye to the past with a smile! Maybe your true destiny is waiting for you in the next moment.

If you can still persevere, then recall the past and think about whether that person is worth your effort, whether it is worth your waiting and love.

4 years is not a time. It is a process, it witnesses your love, the opposition of your parents, it is a test of your love, it passes. You'll be smoother, and you'll be able to get by, so you'll wait for the next person

I don't want to make decisions for you、I know you know how to do it、Yes? It's just that I can't let go of the memories of 4 years, and I can't bear it

Whether you insist or give up, as long as you think it is right, do it, wrong or right, no one knows. Sometimes wrong is right, right is wrong

I hope it will help you and remember to be happy!

Didn't expect you to do this.

But I'm curious, do you want to fall in love or get married?

It is said that marriage is the grave of love. But love does need a grave, you don't want your love to die on the streets, right?

Four years. It's probably the so-called lull period.

However, since you want to get married and have to live, it is originally plain.

Have you ever seen a family that lives like falling in love?

It's not strange, it's just that I feel that it's natural to be together for a long time. Feel like a part of yourself.

So of course it won't feel anything.

Me and my family are like this, we both know that this is the feeling, and we all need to be calm and peaceful. So it's not too noisy now.

It was also very noisy before.

If you're not sure if he still loves you. So why not ask him what he said?

You can't figure out the results yourself. It's better to ask him quickly. Two people have a good talk. Let's see the results.

Intuitively, he loves you, and you love him. It's just that I'm used to it.

By the way, I forgot that there were family members who blocked this.

Actually, I think it's better to look for the reason in yourself. Is it that I am not good enough to be in place, whose seniors don't want their juniors to be good? Who doesn't want to have a good daughter-in-law?

If you're good enough, they certainly can't say anything more.

Wouldn't it be a family if you get married, his parents are your parents, and your parents are his parents.

Belch... In short, try to do your best first.

It's a matter of course.

Purely personal opinion. I wish you happiness.

It's not that you quarrel every day or don't love, it's not a simple greeting or you don't love, love is in life, no one will always be in love again, at that time it's just that you show your love very strongly, and now you're just not good at expressing it, after all, love is a matter of two people, and finally I wish you happiness.

I think it's better to break up, you still have nostalgia for him now because you've been together for too long, and you're used to having him. But time has worn out your love for him, unless you can get married in the short term, otherwise it's time to end this short relationship, it's time for something fresh.

You have some problems, some psychological, you always feel a little emotional, but you are not good at communication, you always feel that the other party is a little dissatisfied, and after a long time of resentment, there are quarrels, anger, negative emotions. For example, if you think he is wrong, you should tell him that what you are doing is wrong will make me angry. Speak your insights and opinions, ideas, etc.

People who often lose their temper? Huh....

My opinion is ridiculous, very naïve, a person who does not understand life, life.

People's psychology: they like to chase happiness, and they always feel that happiness makes people warm and pleasant. Imagine a person who often loses his temper, his heart is full of dissatisfaction, resentment, stubbornness, etc., and he always feels how great he is.

It feels self-righteous, imagine that person likes to be together with a cold face? I believe people can run away faster than rabbits!

Yes, learn how to control your emotions, learn how to communicate with others, learn to deal with interpersonal relationships, learn to be happy, and infect the people around you.

Philosophers say: Interpersonal relationships are money.

What is love? Love is tolerant and inclusive; And not indulgence.

Love is caring, not pampering; Love is blended with each other rather than unrequited love, and love is all kinds of flavors but not all sweetness.

Yes, love a person, love his shortcomings and love his strengths.

True love is not necessarily a perfect match in the eyes of others, but the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other, in order to make each other's lives better and silently dedicated, this love not only warms you and me; It also warms the hearts of the world.

True love is when you love, know how to cherish. True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love, because letting go is to have everything....

Please love well when you cherish it, and bless it when you let go....

True love is a kind of care and care from the heart, there is no flowery language, there is no grandstanding action, only you can feel it in every word and deed; So plain and so firm. Feel it with your heart?

Love is not difficult or annoying, but people themselves add pressure to themselves and seek trouble. It is a joy to love someone; We all know that. Love represents a responsibility; Love is a kind of unconditional giving, and love is never-ending and never lost.

Love is not not to reciprocate, and the return of love is the eternal joy and happiness of the other party; And the happiness of the other party is your happiness, and the happiness of the other party is your happiness. Well, I hope you are happy.

Think about every step you take, will you regret it later? There's always a seven-year itch, hold on! Best wishes.

Since there is emptiness, one by one + ......Then look for him, whether he loves you or not, haven't you heard? ** And the lover often return to the scene, as long as you are good to him, as for going back to the previous one by one + this is simpler, let him love each other the way you like and you love each other the way he likes, as for the way you like one by one + I don't need to say this, just ask. Also, I remind you that it's okay to be coquettish, don't lose your temper often, have a degree, after all, it's a human being, not a saint......

It seems that you don't want to give up this love just because you are the same age and quarrel every day This is not too ... I suggest you think back to the past ... If you really still have the meaning of being together, let's continue Now it's not easy to find someone you love I wish you happiness.

You've been dating for four years, it's time to get married, if you continue to date, you will get married directly, listen to what you said, the relationship between you has faded, no wonder, 4 years, you have talked about it, isn't it boring?? I think it's better to break up, and you should get married when you're in love from the beginning.,Really.。

It may be that you have been dating for a long time.

Plus parental opposition.

You still want to go back to the feeling when you were in love, which means that you don't want to lose her, and you still have feelings for him.

Then try to be in a relationship for a while.

Avoid the amount of regret after the scorer.

First: Quarrel every day, find out the reason for the quarrel, details are important. Because of what quarrel, it should be eliminated or broken up, you are exchanging opinions!

Second: There is a period of fatigue in the relationship! When you've been dating for a long time, you'll have it! What would you do when you said that you would be 40% every day after you got married, and you were more tired than you are now?

Third: Is there a conflict between opposition in the family and the same age? The main thing is whether he can live with you for the rest of his life!

Take care of you for a lifetime! Marriage and dating are two concepts, and when you break up while dating, you are still a big girl! When you get married and divorce, then you are carrying the name of a second marriage!

You know very well.

Fourth: If there is no result of your youth in the past few years, you should let it go! It's useless to be reluctant and regret it in the end!

Don't worry, you are entering a transition period of love, normal phenomenon, don't always be nostalgic for the feeling of being in love, ordinary care is actually the longest and most stable, what you have to do now is to keep this insipid, this is long-term love.

You have to see yourself! There's a lot of things to feel about! It's like that's it before you get married, can you get married? Careful! Either that, or your lack of communication! Let's talk to him! If he feels the same way as you, you'd better be separated!

It's not difficult to fall in love at all, the point is to see how two people get along.

In the process of two people falling in love, some people may be particularly pushy, and at the same time, they will often quarrel with each other because of emotional problems.

In fact, if two people always quarrel over these small things, the relationship between the two people will be seriously affected, and sometimes it will even lead to the final breakup of the two people.

In my personal opinion, falling in love is not an easy thing to do, but it is also far from being as difficult as we think, and we need to find the skills to get along with each other.

1. It's not that hard to fall in love.

For me personally, when I was younger, I would often struggle with relationship problems and sometimes quarrel with each other. But when I started to summarize my problems, I found that many of them could have been avoided. In our love life, we need to be as tolerant and understanding as possible with each other.

If we can do this, we will find that it is not difficult to fall in love.

Second, two people need to understand each other in their relationship.

As I said above, falling in love is not as difficult as we think, provided that both people know how to manage relationships. When we first get to know each other, we may be with each other because we simply like each other. When two people start to live together, two people need to go through various run-ins, and at the same time, they also need to get along with each other through understanding.

Third, two people also need to respect each other.

For those who have a smooth relationship experience, many people will respect each other in their relationship. In a sense, when our relationship with the other party is getting better and better, we will unconsciously violate the other party's principles and bottom line. If we can't get along with each other with a real attitude, we will often provoke each other because of small things.

I think we need to look at relationship issues with a more rational attitude, so that most of the conflicts in couples can be resolved, and it is naturally not difficult to fall in love.

Ay! First of all, my wife and I are exactly like you!

We are arguing every day now! Because of the influence of her family, she thinks I'm poor! Don't believe it, it's an absolute fact, people are terrible!

Your question is, what exactly is your boyfriend? Is it good for you? Do you have the ability to do so? Do you have a sense of responsibility? Enterprising?

Nothing matters now, the key is in the future!

If he is a great man and loves you very much, then you should stick with him!

Your parents are angry, they will be unhappy in a short time, and when you have children, the relationship will immediately improve! Time is the antidote!

Finally, it's important to remember that choice is important!!

If you decide to choose him, you must not complain and regret it later!!

First of all, it is necessary to take communication as the principle. Confide in each other what you think, you say that you are sincere to him, and now you want to marry him, and you want to meet his parents, and then discuss marriage. As for him, tell me why he doesn't want to take you to meet your parents.

Express ideas and communicate with each other, so that each other can know their attitudes and opinions about meeting their parents and getting married.

Second, get the communication results at the end. There are several results of communication, one is that he is willing to take you to meet your parents, that is a good thing, and you will follow the trend. The other is that he is not willing to take you to see your parents now, but he is willing to marry you and love you, but he feels that the current relationship is not yet the time to meet his parents to talk about marriage, at this time, you can give him a time limit, such as half a year, a year, etc., after this time to meet his parents to talk about marriage, if he agrees, a year later to meet his parents to talk about marriage, if he does not agree, you will calm down for a period of time, see if you still need to go down, do not need to go down, just break up, after all, talk about four years, It's been a long time, and you girl can't afford to drag it out.

Third, I have been talking about it for three years, what kind of love is almost mature, and marriage is also a natural thing, those who are under great pressure to get married, the family burden is heavy, and they still need children, etc., most of these are excuses, they have been talking for four years, understanding, knowing, trusting, identifying, running-in, before and after marriage, there is pressure and burden, and there is responsibility.

Therefore, you need to be clear about your boyfriend's attitude, when to marry you, breaking up is painful, but it is not good for anyone to drag it out, the long pain is better than the short pain, you are still young, you can find a good family to marry. If your boyfriend still wants to play, you can't afford to accompany him, you are older than him, and women will age very quickly after they reach the age of thirty, and men are just mature and stable at thirty, and there is no guarantee that he will not like other girls at that time.

on 21 Jul 2021