I met a divorced man who had been divorced. 70

Updated on psychology 2024-02-08
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    From the practical point of view, I don't recommend you to accept him, because why should you, a pure girl, marry a divorced man.

    From the boys' footsteps, I think it's unfair to you. And the reality is true!

    From the ideal footsteps, if you are happy with each other, it may not be impossible to accept him. As long as you feel right and you feel happy, then what's not good?

    It is recommended that you test him for a while longer, after all, he is much older than you, he is more mature than you, and you have to admit that he is scheming more than you.

    Calm down and take the time to see through him.

    The most important thing is your own feelings, whether you are short of an excuse to accept him or an excuse to leave him!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's hard to say, it's hard to explain, and sometimes it's hard to control, but I don't think he's suitable for you, I'm 88 years like you, but I'm a man, I feel like you don't want to get too close to him, find someone who is about the same age as your cultural thoughts. Of course, if you really like him very much, I have nothing to say, after all, people have feelings, and no one likes you except him? Why do you have to choose him?

    If you love him, choose him, believe in him, and leave him if you don't love him!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Your current troubles are not as simple as you say.

    You don't know he's bothered by the fact that he's a divorced man. You also care if everything about him is true. Will his promise be fulfilled. What are the consequences if it is not realized.

    I advise you to be cautious. Love is irresistible. But the path of love is your own choice.

    It's not easy to fall in love with someone, and the feeling of love is rare. But you are in love for the purpose of getting married. As well as you are thinking about your feelings, you should also consider whether you are suitable to live together.

    I'm starting from the perspective of someone who has come before. Divorced men are nothing. But you have to know what he left for.

    Your age gap isn't an issue. But you have to make sure that you are compatible with each other and then together.

    Don't leave yourself with regrets.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You have not known him for a long time, and you do not know him well enough to evaluate him correctly and comprehensively. And you're not big, there's no need to get married too early. I think you don't promise him anything easily, it's better to get to know him more comprehensively before deciding, it's best not to introduce him through him, to get to know him through other people, and you have to find out about his last marriage, don't take the initiative to ask him, and have more contact with him.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    In fact, you just have to follow your feelings Whether he meets your standards Do you have feelings for him I know your concerns In fact, you are not very satisfied with his realistic conditions For example, he is not a local and the house is not allowed to say that he is divorced and so on My personal opinion is that people say that second-hand men are treasures This is not unreasonable He will pamper you more But I hastily proposed cohabitation with him so quickly I think his character still needs to be verified You have to be cautious You are still so young It's quite possible to meet someone better than him.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I don't think your family will agree. It's not that I'm biased, but I just think that men or women can't get through it and won't get divorced, so divorced people have some problems that are difficult for ordinary people to accept. Or think twice, and at the same time don't be too blind, you must consider the problem in many aspects, and also listen to the opinions and suggestions of your family members appropriately.

    Or don't live together, the man's assurances can't be believed, and when he really goes, it's too late to regret it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Do you believe him? A divorced man who can ask for cohabitation after just knowing each other for a month has already made people disbelieve him, you are very young, don't get carried away because of a moment of love, you must not be discouraged by the heart of others, protect yourself, keep your guard to slowly understand, who can prove that he has a house without a real estate certificate.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I don't know, but I always feel that this man is not sincere to you, otherwise he would not propose to live with you, I should say that I want to marry you.

    And those promises of his lie to me, no man can be with the woman he likes and not want her.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    From one point of view, you can find a better one because you are still young....You are too far from his level of thought....

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The benefits of marrying a divorced man are:

    1.Divorced men usually have more experience in marriage and are better able to deal with problems in marriage.

    2.Divorced men generally have stronger financial power and are able to provide better financial support for their families.

    3.Divorced men are usually more willing to communicate and are better able to resolve problems in their marriage.

    4.Divorced men are more responsible and able to provide better support to their families.

    5.Divorced men are more honest and are better able to deal with problems in their marriage.

    6.Divorced men usually have more sexual experience and are able to provide a better experience for married life.

    However, there are also some disadvantages to marrying a divorced man, such as:

    1.It may be difficult for a divorced man to get out of the shadow of his previous marriage, which may affect the current married life of a quiet friend.

    Overall, there are pros and cons to marrying a divorced man, and you need to make a judgment based on your situation and needs.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    A man's divorce experience, I hope everyone can be alert through this story, and can also learn to cherish their family, cherish their wives and your common children, now you have been studying for a year, when a stepfather cherishes other people's children so sorry, I tried hard to answer that the child can't do it, three years ago I quarreled with my ex-wife because of trivial matters, and I gave her the divorced child in a fit of anger After the divorce, I found life. It's not as simple as I imagined, at first I was lucky that I wanted to go home every day, and no one nagged when I got home, the most important thing was that there was no child's racket, but it didn't take long for me to start feeling very lonely, for example, other colleagues after work every day, I went home to pick up the children and pick up the children, and I didn't care about it.

    It's really after losing it that I really understand how beautiful that kind of fireworks is, so it's only been a little more than a year since the divorce, and I decided that I care about you being a divorced man, and if you want to find an unmarried woman, you don't, unless your conditions are particularly good, so most of the women I contacted, and most of them were with children, and I met a 35-year-old woman at that time, very beautiful, very prominent. He has his own house, car and job, he doesn't have any material requirements for me, the only requirement for me is to be mentally handicapped for his child, I was full of confidence at first, but when I lived with this child for more than a month, I realized that those men who treat other people's children as their own are really ah, at least his son was at that time.

    Nine years old, but every time I eat, I still like to grab vegetables with my hands, and dig around on the plate, regardless of whether there is anyone next to me, I thought, if it was my own child, I would have scolded him with a face, but I saw that he didn't speak, and he couldn't say it himself, when I regretted that I still robbed others and bewitched me, a few times I went to school to pick him up from school, and when a classmate asked him who I was, he actually said that a man who eats soft rice. I really can't imagine that such a young child can say such a thing, in order to ease the relationship with him, once I spent half a day of effort, at home for him to make his favorite pot meat, when I smiled and served it to him, he actually pushed it away and almost opened the shell, and once, I bought her a set of Lego toys, but the next day she actually brought it into the school and deliberately threw it away, and said with disdain that it was not a set of broken toys?

    My dad bought me better, I really can't accept this child, I think if I buy it for my own child, the child may say, Dad, you are so good, I love you but someone else's child, no matter what you have done to him, Bi Chun not only does not appreciate it, but also has something to say to you, this feeling is really not something ordinary people can bear, although ah, he criticized the child very harshly after he knew, but I know that this will not solve his own child at all, beating is pain, scolding is love, and other people's children are inferior to please, I can't accept it.

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