How cruel can parent child domestic violence be?

A child in Jiufulu's family in Wufeng Town, Zhenxiong County, was beaten by his father, and Xiaohao almost drowned when he took his younger brother to play by the river, and his father angrily beat him with a skin.

Should we rely on the law to keep our children safe? I hope there will be no more tragedies like this.

There were many children who were beaten to death, and many of them were often bruised.

Jiabao is not good for anyone, it is not good for everyone, it is not good at all.

The effects of domestic violence on children are:

Clause. First, it exacerbates the occurrence of bad behavior. When asked about juvenile offenders, "how do your family treat you?" there are those who choose "often beat and scold".

Correlation analysis shows that the proportion of children who are "often beaten and scolded" by family members has higher bad behaviors than those who do not choose to be "often beaten and scolded". In fact, hitting and scolding the child not only did not stop it, but exacerbated the child's bad behavior.

Clause. Second, it exacerbates parent-child conflicts.

The direct consequence of parents beating and scolding their children is not only to cause minor children to suffer physical pain, but the more serious problem is to hurt their hearts, rejecting their parents, and becoming the direct cause of "running away from home". Surveys have shown that more than half of juvenile offenders who run away from home are related to beating and scolding by their parents.

Clause. Third, it is a child who often lives in the beating and scolding of his parents, and it is very easy to produce bad character traits.

In the survey, when asked about juvenile offenders, "what do you think are the characteristics of your personality" and "how do your family treat you", the correlation analysis of the two sets of data shows that the children who are "often beaten and scolded" at home have the most obvious bad personality characteristics. Irritable personality is the internal motivation of juvenile crime, and parental beating and scolding is an important source of juvenile bad character.

Clause. Fourth, it is the violent behavior of parents that becomes a model of aggression for children.

Children have a strong tendency to imitate the behavior of others, and family members, especially parents, are the earliest main objects of imitation in young children, and the more important and authoritative parents are in the child's mind, the more energetic the child imitates. Children who have been beaten and scolded by their parents for a long time will imitate their parents' punitive behavior, learn to be rough, fighting, cruel, and attack others according to their parents' examples.

The impact of domestic violence on children is subtle:

1. Because the child is very imitative, his parents beat him at home, and he will beat other children outside, especially children younger than him. Once this rough personality is formed, the child may become violent when he grows up.

2. After being beaten, the child will become overwhelmed and uneasy, and over time, he will become more and more inferior.

3. Children who are often beaten will feel lonely and helpless. In particular, when parents hit their children in public, their children's self-esteem will be hurt, and they will often doubt their own abilities and feel that they are "inferior".