How do you think about the giant baby in society?

Adversity quotient cultivation, that is, the ability and wisdom to face adversity, emotional intelligence training, speak well, at least respect others, IQ training, learning ability and thinking ability will determine the direction of people! Values are cultivated, values are not cultivated to be honest, most of them are cultivated by themselves, including art appreciation, economic knowledge, survival value, love outlook, outlook on life, etc., spoiling and aggression are the source of all giant babies, but also the origin of all crimes, mental health and physical health are the most important.

We find that this phenomenon is most manifested in the only child. The only child enjoys most of the family education and economic resources. Therefore, there is a greater probability of parents over-educating, over-paying and over-pampering, and there is only one child, and parents will put all their energy on him, so excessive attention and education will make children default to everything around themselves, and everything is what they deserve.

Coupled with excessive spoiling, a selfish and selfish paranoia will be born, so the only child is an educational problem, but also a social problem, parents consider that as long as a child, the economy is not necessarily much easier, but the education will be a big headache!

I think this kind of phenomenon is first of all the incomplete family education, excessive spoiling of parents, low popularity of social morality, and low altruism of people. Then there is the lack of education. People have refined egoism.

Caused by various reasons, as for how to face it, it is just a matter of being a person and doing things. The world is inseparable from the word "reason". It doesn't matter who he is, it's up to him how he deals with you.

You're not a person, and you can't do what your parents did.

Giant baby, it's nothing more than that you can do whatever you want, and others must follow yourself, otherwise it's someone else's wrong, right? What's the problem, if you try to fight for your own interests without affecting the interests of others, then there is no problem at all. The question is to encroach on others to satisfy oneself, why?

Either you don't want to put in the effort, or you can't do it at all.

How so? It's just ha...Personally, I think that giant babies are the kind of people who rely too much on their parents and can't do anything themselves. I don't really like it.

It's not necessarily that they don't know how to do things, they don't have the ability. Personally, I think they are too lazy and too dependent on others, and they will eventually be eliminated by society.

Nowadays, there is a special concept spread in real life and on the Internet: the so-called "giant baby" problem, the so-called "giant baby" problem, actually refers to a person's body has grown up over time, but some of his psychological states and personality development are still like a child, staying in a naïve state.

Some seeds of change are difficult to sow, maybe the popularization of law or universal morality needs to pay an unimaginable price, the giant baby = I gain + care about you, under the existing model, the giant baby lives very comfortably, why change. As for who wants to cross sentient beings, they are a little mentally prepared.

Inaction, brainless and habitual thinking are very meaningless.

Discoveries are all blessed, and you can emulate them.

It's all said that it's a baby, what else can you expect him to do?

1. Almighty narcissismAlmighty narcissism is a typical psychotropic trait of infants, babies think that they are the center of the universe and that all their needs should be met. The all-powerful narcissism of the adult giant baby is hugely lethal, and in his eyes, he is God, all right, and everyone else and everything is wrong.

2. Some netizens believe that parents' excessive doting on adults makes them form a giant baby mentality; Some netizens also believe that the phenomenon of giant babies is a manifestation of the lack of personal socialization, and socialization education should be strengthened.

3. Nowadays, there are more and more giant babies in society, and some of the characteristics of giant babies are that they obviously have the body of a normal adult, but their thoughts and behaviors are the same as that of children, they never consider the consequences of their words and deeds, and they have done a lot of things that are incredible, lack of social responsibility, lack of good education, and lack of independent thinking ability.

4. Giant babies are characterized by selfishness, narcissism, and self-centeredness. Not caring for others, not taking responsibility, not being responsible, gnawing old is one of its distinctive features. In my Changtan seller's current society, the giant baby can be said to be not an exception, but a universal existence, and the appearance of the giant baby has a lot to do with the family.

5. To treat such people, I just want to say one thing, don't be too naïve, this is society, not your family.

1.Parents spoil their children excessively, causing them to develop bad habits of self-centeredness and selfishness.

Since childhood, he has been overly pampered with children, and he has been full of requirements and has been well cultivated, and he has made unprincipled concessions, and he has given his children all delicious food to eat alone. Once he can't meet his needs, crying and fussing, sprinkling willfulness, parents can't resist the child, although they are not able to achieve it, they will do everything possible to satisfy the child. Slowly, children develop the habit of being self-centered and selfish.

Taking his parents' dedication to him for granted, once he can't meet his requirements, he will yell at his parents, and even add punches and kicks, which is the "giant baby" phenomenon of Chinese-style family education.

2.Parents' words and deeds, words and deeds, all have a subtle impact on children.

Parents are the first teachers of children, parents respect their parents, and children will also be filial to their grandparents. If the child has lived in a family that has been grateful for the kindness of his parents since he was a child, the child will definitely follow his example and follow his parents' example. It can't be an ungrateful.

On the contrary, the parents are not good to the grandparents, and the siblings are not united and calculating. These children also see it in their eyes and remember it in their hearts. When he encounters a similar problem, he will follow your example without thinking. Therefore, the influence of the family on the child is often deep-rooted.

3.A good mother is the foundation of a child's physical and mental health, and a loving mother and a strict father can form a good family style and pass it on from generation to generation.

Mothers spend more time with their children than fathers in family life, and the words and deeds and qualities of mothers have a greater impact on children, and a good mother affects three generations of the family. The child's bad habits also have a lot to do with the mother.

Of course, the influence of the father on the child is also self-evident, "the father is not the fault of the father", so the father should also participate in the child's education, do not throw everything to the mother, especially after the child is sensible, the father's role in the child's education will be more and more.

4.Changes in the general environment, doting on parents and elders.

When some children go to school, they will show off the "spoils" they have obtained from their parents in the lead school, which will attract the attention of their classmates, which leads to "children who show off are more show-off, and those whose family conditions are not good, if they are not sensible, they resent their parents for not being able to satisfy themselves".

5.I am reluctant to let my children suffer.

After the child is frustrated, he does not carry out the correct guidance, but adopts the way of protection, which leads to any problems in the future to seek help from parents, and if the child's purpose is not achieved, the child will complain to his parents.

Only oneself and others are pawns and can be used. I think.