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There is an idiom called "fallen leaves return to their roots", which means that the leaves fall and eventually return to the root system that gave birth to it. And this idiom is also often used to describe people, people will want to return to their hometown when they reach a certain age. Some people ask, why do people miss their hometown more when they get older?
In my opinion, it is mainly because of the following three reasons.
First of all, when people reach old age and experience the wind and frost of a lifetime, they will miss their hometown even more. Hometown is the place where people grew up in childhood, and it carries all the good memories of our childhood, with parents and friends. And when we go to school and work, the unfamiliar environment always makes us miss everything before.
When people reach old age, they will begin to want to spend the rest of their years in peace, so they will miss their hometown even more.
Secondly, "blood is thicker than water" is also a reason, no matter how good other places are, the hometown where the relatives who are connected by blood are the warmest existence. The reason why relatives are called relatives is because no matter how far apart they are, the bonds in the blood will never be opened. When people reach old age, they have nothing to ask for, and their only wish may be to return to their hometown and reunite with their loved ones.
Finally, when we're still growing, always want to lookThe outside worldBut in old age, you still want to go back to the place where you can settle down. When I was a child, I looked forward to growing up, and longed to go outside and see how good the outside world was. But when we encounter setbacks and understand that it is not easy for us to work hard, we will miss the old days, we will be nostalgic, and we will prefer our previous carefree days.
Therefore, when people get old, they will miss their hometown even more, and their leaves will return to their roots and their souls will return to their hometowns.
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Because when people get old, they are particularly sensitive to what happened before, and they are especially nostalgic for their childhood life.
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Because the idea of "returning to the roots" has always existed in China.
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Because they all want to go back to their hometown to live and put down roots.
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The so-called landing is the root of this truth.
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When I was young, I was always running around and working hard, I didn't have time to see my parents, and I didn't have a good taste of the beauty of my hometown; As the saying goes, the hometown is homesick, and the wanderer is always like rootless water, wandering everywhere. When people reach middle age, their careers reach the peak one by one, and people are easy to be nostalgic and always want to return to their roots, which is also the traditional nostalgia of the Chinese. Homecoming is even more relevant.
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I miss my hometown more and more, because the life in my hometown is simple and fulfilling, quiet and calm, not romantic but very real. Writer Yang Daxia expressed that hometown is the soul of the heart.
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First, under the influence of culture, we have always emphasized the return of fallen leaves to the roots. People are more susceptible to the influence of nature, and they are especially eager to live in familiar places when they are old. Hometown is the root of each of us, there are relatives, neighbors and friends that we are familiar with, there are familiar tastes, and there are familiar water and soil.
Second, looking back on a lifetime, no matter how pleasant the sufferings are, the most beautiful should be the childhood with few memories. Even in the days that followed, I found that my childhood was the most memorable, and the childhood that I couldn't go back to happened in my hometown, and my hometown became beautiful along the way.
Third, the local accent that can't be changed in this life can only be expressed heartily in the hometown. Wanderers can't speak the local accent, because the people next to you can't understand it!
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People tend to miss their hometown more in middle age, and it is also because home and hometown are always part of their concern, and there are people and things they miss in their hometown, so they miss their hometown more in middle age.
Everyone wants to win a better life through their own hands in life, for their hometown is a sense of belonging, people will treat their hometown more and more nostalgic after middle age, will be eager to return to their hometown, this is also a common thing, so we must learn to relieve their emotions in life, often go home to see, help parents brush chopsticks and wash dishes, in order to make our lives better.
1. Why do people miss their hometown more and more when they reach middle age?
For people who are far away from home, after working and living outside for a long time, they will have deep thoughts about their hometown, because home and hometown are always part of their concern, and there are also some childhood friends in their hometown, not everything can replace the emotions of their hometown, so people will miss their hometown more and more in middle age.
2. What should people do after middle age?
At the same time, it should be noted that no matter how mixed outside, whether it is poor or rich, after returning to his hometown, he still does not forget his original young man, and hopes that everyone can correct their position in life, and find the right position to shine and release heat.
3. What is my personal opinion?
Everyone's living environment is different, but the purpose of the investigation is the same, when you can't get recognition in a city, you can also choose to return to your hometown in time, so that we can find our own value and meaning in the future growth, and it also has a very positive role in promoting our future life.
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When people reach middle age, they are far away from the words childhood, parents, and hometown, and they are already parents, and they can no longer enjoy the freedom of childhood. I understood a lot of the love of my parents at that time.
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Because when a person reaches middle age, he is generally successful or his body begins to feel unwell, and at this time, he especially misses himself when he was young, and he will start to think about this.
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Because people have experienced a lot of things in middle age, they feel that the outside world is really bitter and want to go back to their hometown to rest and rest.
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I'm only 30 years old this year, and I always think about my hometown.
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Walking on the trail of my hometown, eating childhood food, sitting by the pond, climbing the hill, walking the field, everything is so beautiful. Although living in the city now, all this can't stop the love for my hometown and the feeling that my hometown is the best place in the world.
In fact, what people think about is not their hometown, but their youth that they can't go back to. I'm in my hometown, my parents are by my side, and my children haven't grown up yet. I often recall the brothers and friends who mixed in those years of youth.
Occasionally, I go back to my alma mater, but only in high school, because I have the most memories at that time. Most of my classmates are not in their hometowns, and they have settled in big cities. Every time my classmates came back to pick up their parents, they were sad and happy for them.
Happy because they have settled down there and lived and worked in peace, sad because picking up their parents means that they will not come back for the Chinese New Year in the future. Looking at the graduation photos of high school, many people turn around for a lifetime. Cherish it!
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Why do people miss their hometown? The main thing is that there is that kind of homesickness, first of all, my hometown is my native place, I am very familiar with it, I have a lot of beautiful growth stories, and there are some friendships, loves, and family affection, I will feel very missed.
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Because my hometown has too many childhood memories of my own, and these childhood memories are so happy. Whenever I encounter difficulties, I will think of the carefree life when I was a child, although I can't go back to the past, but there is still a kind of expectation and yearning in my heart. There are still my dear parents in my hometown, my parents are in**, **is my home, the world is big, not as big as my parents.
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Because there are parents in our hometown, they are the source of our longing. The concept of hometown is too abstract, in fact, in the minds of many people, hometown is just an inherent noun, and what they miss is people, not that place. When I used to work in other places, I always missed the water and the food in my hometown.
But when I returned to this place, I found that the water was also very ordinary tap water, and the food was not very special, and it tasted no different from being in other places. Later, when I came home, I realized that I just wanted my mom to cook and drink tea with my dad face to face.
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Hometown in people's psychology may be a symbol of warmth and home, and when a person leaves home, he is always lonely, when he is lonely, it is easy to miss those warm destinations, so he will naturally miss his hometown, and his relatives are in his hometown, and he will miss the days when he once lived together in his hometown and grew up.
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As the saying goes: home is your eternal haven, no matter where you are in the future, home is there waiting for you to come back. As we get older, we go home less and less, maybe once or twice a year, although we say that we are working hard outside, but when we are tired, we will think of our hometown, parents, and have been worrying about ourselves.
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When you reach a certain age, when you reach a certain age, you will understand more and more the importance of belonging and identity. At that time, you will miss your hometown more and more as you get older. In fact, everyone living in a foreign land is the same, hometown is always their closest place, no matter how the appearance of the hometown changes, it can't change a person's nostalgia for hometown, concern for hometown.
When a person does not agree with his city and does not feel a sense of belonging, he will miss his hometown more and more, and his desire to return to his hometown will become stronger and stronger. And often people who have this kind of emotion are people who have reached a certain age, and the fallen leaves always have to return to their roots, and the people always have to return to their hometowns. That's why the older you get, the more you miss your hometown.
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Because the place where you grew up and grew up is your hometown, and your outlook on life, worldview, and values have been deeply integrated into your hometown. You are familiar with everything in your hometown, identify with it, and you will not feel lonely here. So when you leave your hometown, you will miss your hometown and everything about your hometown.
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In fact, people will always think of their hometown when they are most difficult, think of their parents in their hometown, think of their parents in the village, and think of the parents and villagers in the village. Whenever I encounter difficulties, I will think about my parents very much, no matter what difficulties I encountered, my parents were the first to stand up to help me solve them, but now that I have grown up, I have to face everything by myself!
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Hometown is the place where we were born and raised, and everyone has a special emotion for their hometown, and they will always miss their distant home in a foreign land. The golden nest and silver nest are not as good as their own kennels, perhaps because they have that familiar memory in their hometown, sweet, happy, and sad ......
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Homesickness, because of the familiar native sound, from the mother taught the first pronunciation, left a deep imprint in the young heart.
I miss my hometown, because of the strong nostalgia, the neighbors remember my name as firmly as the time when I planted the seedlings and threshed, and kept shouting until my hair turned gray.
I miss my hometown, because of the simple and unpretentious nostalgia, the soil I have stepped on, the weeds I have pulled, the old soil bowl that I have complained, and the distant mountains I have looked forward to, especially the second girl who has been provoked. Always at a certain leisure, jump out of memory, and dangle back and forth.
I miss my hometown, because the distant water can't quench the thirst of the nostalgia, no matter how high the mountain is, no matter how long the water is, it will always betray me intentionally or unintentionally, and go to visit relatives alone.
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Personally, I think that when I am far away, I feel that family affection is very valuable.
1. Youth and ignorance at a young age.
In the time of youth and ignorance, most of us are based on friendship. I believe that when you are rebellious in your youth, you are very troubled by the nagging of your parents, and you think that you have no common topic with them. In fact, the love of parents is only expressed in different types, and occasionally they will cause misunderstandings between each other because of love.
Some parents and children are not good at expressing themselves, and this misunderstanding is getting bigger and bigger. In the end, it leads to the fading of family affection in our hearts when we are young, and friendship becomes more and more important in our hearts.
2. Discover the importance of family affection in the process of growing up.
Later, when we went to high school or went to college to work, we found more and more that the world is very realistic, and there is nothing more important in the world than family affection. So now when we look back on the mistakes we've made in the past, we become more and more annoyed, so much so that when we want to make up for something, we find that we can't fix it. In fact, as long as our parents are alive, we still have a chance to get along.
3. All the love in the world is not worth the love of relatives.
The world is sinister, and all love is not worth the love of family affection is real. Too many things in this world are complicated, and the love of our relatives for us is the simplest, purest, and most selfless. Especially when we are far away from home to work or study, we miss this love very much.
Therefore, we should be kind to our parents in time and enjoy this love.
Family affection is intangible, it may be like a mountain as our firm backing, but this letter can be like water like the softness of our hearts, and no one can describe what it looks like.
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During the seven-day National Day holiday, my husband didn't have a day off, and the work of the people's servants never stopped, so my children and I stayed at home sullenly. If you have more time, you will inevitably think more, and the people around you will naturally not think about it, just think about your relatives in your hometown. Make a ** to find out about your family's situation.
Everything is good for those who go out, but it is not so good for those who stay at home, they don't have more and better opportunities, they will worry about making money from work. When I was in my forties, I seemed to suddenly realize that only when the economy is good can people live.
Yes, if the economy is not good and life is tight, how can you think about poetry and distance? It turns out that I really am the one who lives in a honey pot. I've never had to worry about the economy.
All the financial burden is borne by my husband alone. I don't have too many ideas, I don't need extravagant things, I've always been content with the status quo, and my life is very comfortable. But I still have dreams, and occasionally I think about poetry and distant places.
Last night, I wanted to go to the treasure island of Taiwan for no reason. That has to take time, and I can't find time at the moment, so it needs to be funded. It's not good to trouble my husband to meet my selfish needs like this, so I spent more than a year studying finance and economics, hoping to learn some skills and harvest leeks all over the market.
I'm fighting my own world step by step, I'm afraid that time is too tight, I'm afraid that my father will age too fast, I'm afraid that I can't make money faster than my father's footsteps. I have been studying hard, hoping to return as soon as possible.
This year has been the hardest for me and probably the hardest for my family. I hope that everyone is growing up silently, and when we meet each other, we have all gone through our own hardships, and we can talk and laugh and have a good time.
I raised two ducks in the summer vacation, and they were much bigger in a blink of an eye, and they had already been complained by the neighbors upstairs, saying that they were noisy, and I repeatedly apologized and promised not to raise them for too long, hoping that the other party would have a lot of letters to calm down. Now that I have grown up early in the morning, I can't stand it, I really want to eat them but the ducks with no full wings are not suitable for food, and I want to send them to Xiangshan Lake Park to release the baby is also reluctant. The ducks are really cute to swim in the yard, and they are reluctant to eat or release them.
I really want to have my own villa that can accommodate these two cute little lives. It turns out that I have always wanted a villa because of my love for nature and my attachment to life.
Halfway through my life, will my wish come true? Will I be able to repay my fellow villagers and elders with enough strength? Pray that God will take good care of such a little woman in the world, a little woman with great ambitions.
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