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Can excuses make up for mistakes?
Throughout history, people have had a common weakness, that is, they can always find thousands of excuses for doing something wrong. Can excuses really make up for mistakes?
At the U.S. Military Academy at West Point, there are only four ways to ask an officer: "Report to the chief, yes." "Report sir, no.
Report sir, I don't know. "Report sir, there are no excuses. "West Point is another name for the U.S. Army Military Academy, named after the town of West Point, which is located on the banks of the Hudson River.
For more than 200 years, West Point has trained 3 **, 5 five-star generals, 3,700 generals, and countless elite talents for the United States. The fine tradition of the United States Military Academy at West Point, mentioned above, is indeed worth learning from. When you don't complete a task or do something wrong, all you can say is:
There are no excuses. "It's not impersonal, indifferent, on the contrary, it can bring out the best in a person. Zhuge Liang, who "covered three parts of the country and became famous in eight formations", sent Ma Tan to guard the street pavilion, but the street pavilion was lost.
If Zhuge Liang found countless excuses to perfunctory this matter at that time, it would indeed be a failure to Liu Bei's trust and weight. However, he didn't, he analyzed his mistakes and regretted not listening to Liu Bei's last words, and it was precisely because Zhuge Liang dared to face failures and mistakes that he had the feat of tearing and slashing horses.
In the same way, the action of making excuses after mistakes and failures is also everywhere in our lives now.
There is a news report that a doctor killed a car accident patient who could have been treated because of a mistake in the meal, and the doctor later refused to admit that it was his responsibility, and used the excuse that the patient was not taken to the hospital in time and could not be rescued in time.
In this way, it may escape the punishment of the law, and it may escape the spitting of everyone, but can it escape the condemnation of morality? One of his excuses pushes the responsibility far away, but at the same time, what is covered under the excuse is a person's life, just ask: even if it is carried for a few days.
Can ten, hundreds, or even tens of thousands of excuses make up for the mistakes he has made?
It's the same with us, in the process of studying, we have to go through many exams, and there are gains and losses in the exams. Many students will make countless excuses for themselves after failing the exam, such as carelessness, insufficient revision, lack of time, etc., but this is just a little more comfort for themselves after failure. If we find excuses to perfunctory after failing every exam and do not analyze the gains and losses of the exam, then we can only be greeted in the end
Failed the college entrance examination. In our life, we will inevitably encounter difficulties and failures, if we find an excuse to give up the difficulties, find an excuse to perfunctory failure, maybe we will get a moment of ease and pleasure, but afterwards it will bring you countless troubles.
So, friends, in life, whether you fail or do something wrong, don't spend your time and energy looking for excuses, because even the most beautiful excuses can't do anything.
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Is excuse excuse a derogatory term? I say it can be a compliment.
Inscription. Excuses are used to cover up one's mistakes and inadequacies.
In social life, people inevitably use some reasons to excuse themselves in order to maintain their image in the eyes of everyone. It can be said that who did not find a reason for himself when he was a child, and even now we still continue to defend ourselves, for example: if the homework is not completed, we say that there is no time; If you have poor grades, you will say that you are stupid by nature; If you make a mistake, you will pass the buck to others.
And what I'm going to talk about today is another thing.
Our family is very ordinary and very plain. I would argue with my parents, I always thought they weren't up for it, and today I found out that my mom was also an excuse-making person, and they had a place in my mind.
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Excuses are a strict topic and should be written**!!
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There are no excuses.
The flowers did not bloom, it said, that the east wind was not warm enough; The shrub is dwarf and thin, and it says that the pines and cypresses block its sunlight; The girl who picked the lotus was empty-handed, and she said that it was the lotus flowers in the pond that did not grow well.
The warm breeze smokes the tourists drunk, and the purple and red are always spring. In the season of a hundred flowers, the flower with the excuse that the east wind is not warm misses the most beautiful moment of its life; When people praise the tall and straight pines and cypresses, the shrub that uses the excuse of being blocked from the sun can only live in the shadow of its companions, looking up at the height of others; Lotus leaves He Tiantian, fish play among lotus leaves, when the hard-working girls are working in the beautiful landscape, the girl who does not grow well with lotus flowers loses the joy of harvesting lotus seeds.
Losers always like to make excuses for themselves. A failure may only lose a spring flowering season, a summer sunshine, but when all kinds of excuses are used over and over again, and you continue to slack off and ignore the real reason for failure, you will lose irretrievable time, and you will fall into the swamp of mistakes again and again.
So, there is no excuse for failure. Wang Guozhen said: "Since we have chosen the distance, we only care about the wind and rain, since the goal is the horizon, what is left to the world is only the back."
Lincoln's success was based on his failed life experiences: failing in business at the age of 22, running for state legislature at the age of 23, and having a nervous breakdown after the death ......of his wifeHe had enough convincing excuses not to challenge the heights of life, but he chose to face the ups and downs of failure and set off on a journey. From the moment you are ready to do something, you have to do it without hesitation.
When you encounter difficulties, you can only think about how to overcome them. Even if you smell the smell of failure at the end, you can't stop moving forward.
So if you fail, just straighten your waist and simply say loudly: "Report life, there is no excuse." "All the consequences of failure are borne with a smile. It's just that, after turning around and closing the door, you should still find the real reason for your failure in your heart.
If the loser starts from the real cause of failure and faces life honestly, he can discover wisdom in the experience of failure. And to find excuses for his failures and use all kinds of words to cover up the truth, then he can only forgive his mistakes again and again, tolerate his ignorance, and linger forever in the trough of failure. In the biography of planting trees Guo Luluo, the tree planting method of Fengle villagers harms its strengths, and in fact, compared with Guo Luluo, it is undoubtedly a failure, but they use the excuse of worry and love to cover up their ignorance, and in the long run, the wrong understanding will lead to endless failure.
Flowers don't accumulate enough energy, so they don't bloom colorfully.
The shrubs are afraid of wind and rain, so they lose their upright posture under the shade of the trees.
The girl who picks the lotus only cares about playing with the light rain, so she misses the lotus seed that is as warm as water.
However, in the coming year, as long as the flowers are recharged, the shrubs are vigorous, and the girls who pick lotuses work hard, they will surely reap the new spring breeze and summer rain and full of joy.
There is no excuse for failure, as long as you have the courage to face failure and reflect on failure, you can succeed!
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There are no excuses for failure, and there is no reason for success.
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We are always making all sorts of excuses and asking for a break. However, there are many excuses, so as long as we want to rest, we will have excuses to avoid studying and working. When people live in the world, they should have the spirit of an old scalper, and work diligently and tirelessly.
But not everyone can do it, because there are always people looking for excuses to rest, maybe you don't know that if you take a break for a while, you will still think about taking a second break and a third time, but when we have an epiphany, we have rested forever and lost a lot of even your life.
It's good to take a break, which relaxes the brain and relieves fatigue. We need to rest, work, and study without rest, but do you really understand the meaning of the word? People are different from each other, and the excuses they make are naturally different, and people use excuses one by one to cover up their hearts to find a reason to rest, so that they can rest with peace of mind.
If you take too much rest, you may find it boring. Today, when human beings have developed from primitive society, it is the continuous labor of human beings that has led to the development of science and technology and the progress of human beings. Without human labor, if people all went to rest, maybe we would still be in that backward primitive society.
Each of us has hopes and ideals. We are moving forward in a certain direction, we don't have much time to rest, today we rest, tomorrow we still want to rest, then your hopes and ideals may forever become a mirage in the excuses you make. Life is limited, in a limited time to strive for more rest, we may think that we are very smart and think that the excuses we make are perfect, maybe we don't have to make excuses to anyone, sometimes we may make excuses to ourselves, sometimes we may make excuses to ourselves to find some self-comfort, in fact, we are completely stupid.
We should strive to move forward and continue to explore, these are the only way for us to find hope and ideals. Without the goal of achievement, we can only rest, and without rest, we can have our success. Diligence is the most important thing.
Zhang Yimou said: "I dare not say that I am the best director in China, but I can say that I am the most diligent director in China." "It is precisely because of diligence that classic films are born.
Excuses are never perfect, and what we pursue is not eternal rest, but ideals and hopes. We need to be diligent in achieving them.
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The video store across the street was playing songs. The singing voice is familiar, because I have heard it before, I like it, and I joined hands and laughed at that time.
It was because of that song that she and I met, got to know each other, and became good friends. At that time, the two "trees" that we had made a wish in front of the Buddha in our previous lives were still each other in each other's eyes. We danced together with the daylight when the sky was clear and the rain when it was cloudy.
Together, we swore that we would be good friends for life.
However, a small thing, a small thing, caused a rift in our friendship. My misunderstanding caused her to leave me resolutely. "True friendship is trusting each other," she told me as she left.
This made me swallow thousands of words that I wanted to redeem. What can I say to redeem her? It's my mistrust that causes all this, and how can I easily make an excuse to excuse it?
The singing gradually turned low-key, it was a cheerful song, but I heard sadness. The mellow singing floats not far away, inspiring: find an excuse, let the friendship start again, let the laughter of the past come again, let each other's cool hearts warm again.
I walked briskly through the street to the house I had been to a thousand times and had never dared to knock on the door.
Take a deep breath, then use all your strength to gently press the doorbell.
The door opened, and she looked at me in surprise, suspicious, but I felt that there seemed to be a surprise in it.
I ......I hesitated, blushing, bowing my head, and talking about the excuses I had made up from the day of separation.
Is it? She listened, still expressionless, and I looked at her nervously. Then, she smiled at me, "I knew you wouldn't misunderstand my ......."”
As we walked hand in hand again, laughed again, and when her clear eyes were once again full of trust in me, I secretly made up my mind that I must cherish this friendship.
Find an excuse to make your heart warm again. Many troublesome and sad things in the world may have changed like this. It's true, as long as your heart is still passionate, as long as you still have excuses....
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Excuse is a tall wall that can help you withstand the difficulties you are about to face. An excuse is a euphemism that solves an embarrassing situation where you can't help it; Excuses are a kind of self-deception, which can bury the disdain and indulgence in your heart.
In the process of studying, it is inevitable that there will be many difficulties and bumps. When some people are brave and desperate, when some people are sinking and silent, there are still some people who are afraid of failure and cannot withstand setbacks and choose to escape, to escape a reality that should be faced. Don't say you don't need a reason to escape.
Escape requires a reason! And there needs to be a definite reason! There is difficulty.
Right! But only for hypocrites. So they used their brains to prepare to consume the most precious cells and essence in their bodies, and began to conceive day and night.
The words woven are as beautiful as **, as beautiful as the lines outlined by art, and as tactful as Flamenco's voice. But that's always just a reason, a pure excuse. Although it is harmless to others, it loses itself a chance to challenge.
In life, sometimes excuses can reduce the tangled in some things. Like neighbors, it is generally recommended to help each other, but when you are inconvenient or really don't, you can find a tactful reason to excuse yourself, which is completely more acceptable than rejecting others directly. But this kind of love can't help, if you change the scene, it may be embarrassing.
When you are with a close friend and are asked for help by the other party, you should try not to shirk. Since he is a close friend, he should know you very well, and his requests are generally not beyond your ability, but accidents are not excluded. In this case, using excuses to excuse the other party will not be understood, which will lead to conflict and embarrassment.
Psychologically, students who do not restrain themselves, excuses often become their best**. If the specified learning task is not completed within the specified time, psychological comfort "It doesn't matter, there is still time." "Wait for the day to come to an end," "It doesn't matter, I'll talk about it tomorrow."
Over time, year after year. A series of excuses, a thousand and ten thousand reasons, in exchange for what? Is it hope, is it light, is it beautiful, or is it that overjoyed smile?
Neither. In exchange for pain, darkness, mutilation, and a tearful face!
Friend, stop looking for excuses, it is like a demon standing in your way to hope. We have to break through it, find and challenge, and what we will get in exchange for the wings of happiness!
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