Joining the student council is a thankless task, so why should you attend

Oh, I'm you! I've been in the student council for three years! From an officer to a minister, just retired a few days ago!

Joining the student union in the first place is a contribution, but it is not definitely thankless! You can learn a lot, even if someone says how dark the student union is, it's not. Of course, it is not excluded that some people can't eat grapes and say that grapes are sour.

Of course, if you are interviewing, don't say the above words, just know it in your heart!

You can say: you can open up your social circle in the student union and increase the opportunities for learning and communication! You can increase your knowledge, and you can only know more when you see more.

At the same time, it can do a good job of service for teachers and students. So the argument that it is not flattering is not entirely true. On the other hand, if there are classmates who don't understand, that is, the so-called offending people, it's not a big deal, as long as you sincerely serve your classmates and teachers, misunderstandings are normal!

There are no such thing as perfect villains, only those who strive for perfection!

Participating in the student union is to train yourself, and the second is to serve the teachers and classmates mentioned above. In this way, you can not only exercise yourself but also serve, the best of both worlds, why not!

Hope you're happy with the above! I also wish you success in your .........

The first emphasis is on the sense of service. As a student cadre, serving classmates is my job, if you say that your efforts are thankless, you have to find out the reason first, is there something that is not in place? Secondly, entering the student union is not for fame and fortune, but to train yourself and serve your classmates.

Psychologist: It's not too late to understand why you're thankless.

The thankless explanation is that you help others do things, and others are still complaining about you!

This is a common phenomenon in the workplace! Don't take it too seriously, the current society is a society of people, and doing things is only a small part of it! Be clear about your personality, plan your career goals, and achieve it step by step!

Comparing yourself to others or caring about what others think will break you! Going with the flow is king!

This question is a good question, in fact, when you ask this question, should you ask yourself a question, do you want the other party to give you something in return, if so, you should have a good time to help, help with the idea, usually you should know more about the other party, so that you can know why you have contributed to the other party is not happy

I think you have to think about what motivates you to contribute, or how well you perform in your actions. If you are sincere in giving, there is no need to feel sentimental, even if others do not accept it.

In addition, when you are helping, you should observe what kind of help he needs, or try to ask if he needs help. On the other hand, there may be no understanding of you and doubts about your motives for helping. Therefore, we should communicate more and cultivate more feelings in ordinary times.

I also run into this issue often and have been plagued by this issue for quite some ...... timeFirst: The most important thing is your motivation to contribute, if you have bad intentions, don't contribute...

Second: Be sensible, some jobs can help, and some can't, otherwise you will often be used by colleagues and others.

Third: Don't let these things affect your emotions, let them go, be happy and safe...

Additional answer: just entered the company, are a little bullied, there is competition between colleagues, everyone can cooperate to do a good job, you are estimated to be better than mine, I want to go to the AA system once a year to get together, can not be organized, as long as the work is completed, the rest by him, after all, everyone has their own personality and lifestyle, don't offend people ......

Yingying, your personality is more challenging, maybe this is also your strength, believe in yourself! Xin.

Because you're sending the force in the wrong direction.

Grievance, anger.

Hu Bingyan was whipped hard when the ox ploughed hard, and the dog barked and the man stood up with a cane.

The Hummer galloped and was reprimanded, and his sincerity was really ridiculed.

Joining the student council is at least a way to train yourself. I don't believe you observe the surrounding cadres in the student council. Although I usually have a little more things to do than other students, it doesn't matter, don't you think it's better to live a fulfilling life?

When you graduate, this is a strength, and employers will look at your performance in school. I believe that you must be a good cadre when you enter the student union!

I want to make a difference.

Hope it helps.

Exercise your abilities in all aspects. Such as communication, eloquence, handling things, etc.

Do everything well on the basis of learning, and exercise your ability to arrange and deal with things (pay attention to coordination).

Exercise your abilities and increase your leverage in finding a job in the future.

It's like you just picked up 100 yuan, and at this time, the owner came. Should you admit it or not? Forehead.

On the one hand, it is necessary to pay attention to cooperation, cooperate with the team, cooperate with others, and if the cooperation is not good, there will be a thankless situation. On the one hand, if you want to help others, you must understand what others need and think in advance, and do what others need and want most. Otherwise, there will be a thankless situation.

You should first relax your mind, and then calmly explain the situation to the leader, and see what suggestions and arrangements the leader has.

What do you do? It seems that you are not very happy, have you ever thought about changing industries?

Because you are a soft persimmon in the heart of the leader.

Change your image in the minds of leaders.

The world is complex and the environment is ever-changing. One into life in this world. There are often a lot of unexpected problems and setbacks.

It depends on the circumstances and opportunities you are in. When I was young, I was a soldier in the army, and because there were few high school students at that time, I was deeply liked by the leaders and comrades-in-arms. At that time, as long as I did a little good deed, I would be praised by the leaders and supported by my comrades.

The popularity is quite good. He is often selected as an advanced pacesetter. And some people do more good deeds than I do.

Due to bad popularity. But it was not well received.

After I went to the locality, I went to work in a place where there were piles of intellectuals, and I did not do a lot, but it was always unsatisfactory. Done for decades. Advanced that is not linked to wages is still often evaluated.

There is no longer a single wage link. The same person, in different places, has different evaluations and results. So, a person should want to open a little, there will always be a chance.

Angry (thankless).

Hu Bingyan. Oxen plough hard and are whipped, dogs bark and people stand tall with rods.

The Hummer galloped and was reprimanded, and his sincerity was really ridiculed.

Just have a clear conscience, good will be rewarded with good, and evil will be rewarded.

Hello, so happy to serve you. I am a teacher in the workplace, with 6 years of career planning experience, good at career planning, advantage mining, interviews, resume revision and so on. More than 1,000 hours of consultation. I've seen your question, and I'm going crazy about codewording.

Thankless because you are too emotional, and you have a kind enthusiasm and help for people, some people always want you to do things for him, and if you do a good job, he will say hello; If you don't do it well, he will say bad things about you. There are also people who are willing to help others and others don't know that you are helping. Imagine a normal person, when he knows that there is someone who is trying his best to think about him and do things for him, will he not say a good word about this person?

Under what circumstances would he not say? Either he didn't know, or the person didn't convey to him his own "give it your all". Either way, it's because there is a problem with "communication", resulting in information asymmetry.

There are things you want to help with, but he doesn't need it, so don't help him repeatedly. Treat the difficulties and troubles of others, calm down, calm down, and think clearly about the cause and effect before doing things.

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