How to make friends with children Urgently, how to teach children to make friends correctly?

You can lend a helping hand when he is in trouble, and talk to his parents when you have time, but this matter is also related to ...... social climateThere are ...... of abductions everywhere right nowHey, there are good people and bad people, and if they are very protective of you, it is understandable. You just have to help them a lot. Soon they can become friends.

Don't treat him like a child, treat him like a peer, if you want to get to know him, it's not easy, what he likes, like football, table tennis, and so on, and then talk to him while playing, talk to him, cross him a few words, and everything will be OK

Think of yourself as a child, deliberately lower your IQ to the same age as him, first you obey him, gain trust, and then he will obey you, and you will become good friends.

Encourage your child to learn to be brave and introverted. It will be slower to get to an unfamiliar environment. If you want your child to integrate into the environment quickly, teachers and parents should guide these children to greet them bravely and smile when they are nervous.

This will make people look friendlier and increase their self-confidence. When we want to play with friends, we should politely say: Can I play together?

Shall we play together? I want to join you, okay? Encourage your child to learn to be humble.

Some children are overbearing and love to steal children's toys. Teachers and parents should guide these children to learn to be humble and share, so that they understand that only when they learn to be humble and know how to unite will the child be willing to play games with him.

Encourage your child to learn to communicate. There will always be all kinds of conflicts and frictions between children. When children have conflicts, teachers and parents should encourage children to use language to communicate with children, solve problems independently, and enhance friendships between friends.

If you make a friend angry, you can continue to be friends after apologizing. I'm sorry I shouldn't have said that about you! I laugh at you, I'm sorry, it won't happen again, I beg your pardon, will we still be friends in the future?

I'm sorry, please accept my apologies!

Encouraging children to distinguish between right and wrong is something that many parents worry about when their children make friends. Teachers and parents should establish a good concept of making friends in general education, what kind of friends can be made more, and what kind of friends can not be made. In many single-child families, children are encouraged to learn to be strong, because they are spoiled from an early age, especially girls can be more squeamish.

At this time, parents should encourage their children to be strong, and sometimes they should tell them that they did not mean it, although it hurts, but they must be strong. I believe that with our encouragement, children will grow faster.

It is very important to encourage children to be themselves. Each child has his own independent personality and always has strange ideas. In the absence of friendship, adults should establish a correct view of making friends, and guide them not to pretend to like themselves in order to cater to others, but just to win the favor of others, and understand the truth that flowers come from butterflies.

We want to tell our child that the best way to make friends is to take the initiative to show that you want to be friends with them, rather than waiting for someone to come close to you. Teach your child to be honest with everyone and to do their best to help others appropriately.

You have to have a pair of bright eyes to understand what kind of people are worth making friends with. At the same time, we must remember: don't do what you want to others.

First of all, tell the child the principle of making friends, then observe the friends around the child, and at the same time point out the problems of these friends, and then correct the problem of making friends at any time, so as to teach the child.

Telling children that they should have a correct mindset is actually to help everyone with kindness and to become a broad-minded person.

It's a good thing to constantly guide your child to make friends, but you have to learn to choose friends, don't choose friends who have bad habits, and let him make friends with the good students in the class.

1. There is no close relationship between conduct and performance.

Some children often show the following symptoms: frequent countdown to exams, easy to get distracted by lectures, not handing in homework on time, skipping class and surfing the Internet, and participating in fights, ......Therefore, he has become a poor student in everyone's eyes. In fact, there is no close relationship between a person's conduct and grades.

There are many reasons for poor grades, it may be because of innate IQ and acquired learning methods, a child with poor grades can only say that he is not familiar with the ability to take exams, but this must not be linked to his conduct. A high score does not mean that the child is imbecile, and in the same way, a low score does not mean that the child is bad.

Any poor student has his own shining points, such as: uniting classmates, being helpful, respecting teachers, honoring parents, etc., or painting, singing, dancing or sports are very good. Children are good at socializing with different partners, so that they can exercise all aspects of ability.

Walk with people who are helpful, and you will also enjoy the joy of helping; Socialize with kind and simple people, and Chinai will also maintain an innocent and pure ...... to the worldWhen parents tell their children who they can associate with, it is the conduct that matters, not the grades. Scores only represent the quality of the grades, but not the level of conduct. If a person only has good academic performance, but is a low-quality person, such a person will fail!

Socializing with children with poor academic performance does not mean that it is a bad thing, from another point of view, children can contact different people, learn different things from different people, and learn from each other's strengths. At the same time, children can also learn how to interact with different people.

2. How can parents correctly guide their children to make friends?

Interactions between classmates may be affected by other children's bad habits. However, parents need to understand a truth: to let go appropriately and let children distinguish right from wrong by themselves, a sound personality also needs to be constantly trained.

We parents should be a good guide and teach our children social skills. It is inevitable that there will be various problems in children's interactions with friends, and they should be carefully observed and given guidance. At the same time, it is also necessary to teach children to be more kind to others, start from greetings, learn to appreciate and praise others, and try to express themselves tactfully when encountering problems, so as to enhance the goodwill of the other party.

Teach your child to pay more attention to the strengths of their classmates. Children who are not good at making friends often make negative comments about others, which is a way for children to seek psychological balance and release anxiety in their hearts. If a child has a particularly stubborn personality and always behaves in a calculating way when getting along with others, it is inevitable that there will be some conflicts in the process of interacting with other classmates, and he will not be liked by his classmates very much.

Children get along with their classmates at school, everyone has their own little problems, parents should tell their children to learn to tolerate and tolerate the shortcomings of others. Because, you may also have shortcomings that others hate, and being more tolerant is to give yourself more opportunities to get along with others. Also tell the child that even if he grows up in the future, there may be such people around him.

Patience means understanding, and it comes with tolerance. No two people are the same in the world, everyone and everyone is different, so learn to be tolerant.

The education of parents has always been one of the topics that people will never forget. As for the friends that children have, some people think that they should avoid spending time with children who do not do well in school or misbehave, while others think that this practice is not conducive to children's growth and acceptance of new things. The following will address this issue from two aspects.

First and foremost, don't belittle a child who has academic performance or misbehaves. It's true that there are some bad things about these children, but we can't put a bad label on them. If parents only put their own children together with equally excellent students, then it will be difficult for their children to understand and experience the joys and challenges of getting along with people from different backgrounds, and it will be difficult for them to learn how to respect and understand each other with people from different backgrounds, and it is easier for them to form prejudices and narrow thinking.

We should encourage children to join a variety of different teams and organizations so that they can better understand and explore the world.

Second, get to know the friends your child is making. While parents can't judge a person by their children's friends' grades or behavior, we can't simply pull their children away from bad friends. Parents should carefully observe the attitude of the child's friends, to see if the child is kind, polite, energetic, etc., if the child's friends are too slow, too negative, too negative, then it will have a negative impact on the child, at this time the child's growth needs to be guided and helped by parents.

Therefore, parents should let their children learn to distinguish which friends deserve to be good friends with them. Parents can share their views and thoughts with their children to help them identify and establish positive, positive and stable friendships. You can use specific examples or wording to tell your child how to look at the strengths and weaknesses of your classmates, and better guide your child to understand the world.

In general, the educational task of parents is not only to make their children excellent students, but also to make them kind, caring, and responsible people. Being able to vigorously develop the "strengths" of the child, balance or even make up for the "weaknesses" is the key to parental education, including how to treat the child's friends correctly.

Here's my opinion:

From an educational point of view, parents should guide their children to choose positive and good behavior habits and partners, but this does not mean that children should not be taught not to play with children who are not good at learning or have poor behavior. Conversely, many studies have found that appropriate social interaction is important for a child's development, including playing with children of different backgrounds and abilities. Here are a few reasons:

1.Develop tolerance and understanding: Playing with children who are not good at learning or behaving poorly can deepen your child's knowledge and understanding of different backgrounds and abilities, which can help develop a spirit of inclusivity.

2.Promote social skills: Interacting with different types of children can also promote the development of various social skills, such as cooperation, communication, sharing, and conflict resolution.

3.Improves self-esteem: Spending time with children who are not learning well or behaving poorly can help boost their self-confidence and self-esteem because they can feel the value of being attracted to others.

Of course, this does not mean that the child can play with any bad child in Sunna. Parents should teach their children to distinguish between good friends and bad friends, and guide them to build healthy and beneficial friendships. Parents should pay attention to how their children get along with their friends, and how they behave to behave to ensure that their children's relationships are beneficial, healthy and safe.

Don't let the child be self-righteous, two-faced, Tong Xinluo likes to make something out of nothing, says bad things about the rest of the bureau behind his back, and likes to bully weak Tanqing children to make friends; You can communicate with your child to identify who they want to befriend and keep them genuine and kind.

People who have some bad habits are burning, people who have problems with the three views, don't make friends with such people, He Duanye guides the child to Zen things positively, tells the child what kind of practice is correct, and let the child understand what kind of person can play better with himself.

People who are very autistic and selfish, people who are cautious, people who have a very poor character, people who often swear in their years, and people who often lose their temper. It is necessary to establish a correct value for the child, tell the child the standard of making friends, and let the child know more people.

Don't make friends with someone who is selfish, has no sense of responsibility, and likes to lie. You can choose to have a good talk with your child, tell him why, and find some examples of this kind of answering for your child.