Very depressed. I can t find a job, and I feel unhappy every day

It is recommended that you choose a job before you find a job. This way, you can have a period of time to clear your mind and not have to be upset about not having to work well in the future.

Choosing a job after employment will make the employer feel that you lack patience for work, have no perseverance, and are easy to change jobs, etc., and will feel insecure for you or the employer. And the depression of this sense of security is not much better than the irritability of not having a job right now. After employment, it is impossible to change anything easily after choosing a job, and even if you change, there will be a price.

In addition, you can now find a job that is more mobile in nature, so you can survive and change immediately if you have a good job.

Also, you don't have to decide what job to do, the one that suits you is the best, you have knowledge of English, it will help you a lot after working, and you don't have to find a job related to English. After all, in the legal range, the one who makes more money is a good job

May it help you, I wish you a good job and be happy every day!

I can understand your feelings, because I also have your experience, and I have been looking for a job for nearly three months, at that time I was really confused and annoyed, but I still persevered, so don't be discouraged, to be honest, now there are many talents, it is really difficult to find a satisfactory and stable job, especially for students who have just graduated, no work experience, even if you have a specialty, it is not easy to find, of course, it depends on the opportunities of each person, so I think you don't have to be depressed, first find a job and slowly accumulate experience, As for you not using your strengths, of course, you can't give up, you must consolidate as soon as you have time, but you can find a job with your own major, of course, it is better, even if the salary is low, the key is that you can learn knowledge and accumulate experience.

Depending on your current situation, you should work first and then choose a career, work for a period of time to accumulate a little work experience, no matter what kind of work you are engaged in, you will learn a lot of practical experience from it. While working, you can continue to consolidate and improve your English, and when the time comes, you can find a job that you are satisfied with, and you will not be so depressed. Good luck!

You should find a job before you choose a job. Work can also be unattainable, not what you want to find, you have to have confidence. Once you find it, hurry up and learn!

No, I don't think you're in a hurry, why are you still here asking such boring questions?

One of my classmates is studying programming, and because he has no work experience, there is no place to use him.

But he said that if I found another job, it would be in vain for me to learn how long I had to go through the program. So he was looking for a job every day, and if there was no interview, he was studying the program at home.

In this way, he looked for half a year to find a job, and I also studied programming, I only studied at home, and rarely went out to look for a job. Then I didn't find a job as a programmer, but I was introduced by a classmate to work as a printer. Now do the typography.

And I would study the program on my own in the evenings. I want to be a programmer one day.

If you're really looking for a job, you don't have time to worry about it.

Monday, Wednesday, Wednesday, Friday and June job fair, more than an hour a day, 2 hours to find information on the Internet to send resumes, after some time, someone will ask you for an interview, sometimes there will be three a day, interview.

Then what kind of time do you have to look at English at the end**, of course, you have to understand it, English is not a skill to transfer money, he is a necessary skill. In the new century.

If you don't know English, you won't have any future, if you understand English, you can go directly to a foreign ** to find a job! ~.

That's it! ~.Are you really looking for a job? Or is it just a sigh for not working.

And then the root himself said, don't bother, play CS SC wow to relieve boredom.

I think it's better to find a job first, and it's easy to do anything when it's stable.

Take your time to find a job that suits you. Believe in yourself, there will always be yours. Room for development.

Employment first and then career choice With your current situation, it is more important to support yourself first.

It's safer to wait until you have social experience and then jump out.

Personal opinion.

Choose a career first. We don't do it. You can't do it otherwise. It's still very depressed.

Alas, like me, I quit my previous job and haven't found a job yet, and people are lazy and depressed, and I am also a ...... of people who have fallen into the world

In modern society, there is a lot of competition pressure, and it is normal for work to not go well, and everyone will encounter it. If it doesn't go well and it's particularly uncomfortable, talk to friends and relatives. Be cautious about whether to change jobs. Because you have changed to another unit, you will also encounter similar problems.

When encountering difficulties in life and work, we must know how to persevere. As long as you persevere, all difficulties will be a thing of the past.

A person's abilities are a line. Endurance is a line. Between the two lines is the living space. If you can't. Endure what people can't bear. There will be more room for survival.

Difficulties are temporary, hold on for a while and it will pass, I wish you happiness.

It is inevitable that there will be difficulties in work and life, we must maintain a positive and hard-working mentality, when encountering difficulties and setbacks, try everything to solve them, don't care too much about the results, just do your best. In many cases, mindset can change the outcome of dealing with problems, not to mention that there are always more solutions than difficulties. Don't get entangled, don't be discouraged, adjust your mentality, and work hard.

You should first find out the main reasons that are causing your work to be unsuccessful. Then adjust it. Your state of mind.

You can talk to friends and colleagues when you have nothing to do. See how they think about these problems and how they can help you solve them. If you still can't solve the problem of not working well.

You can try to switch jobs and. Workplaces are fine. This way you have changed your job or changed your work unit.

The environment has changed, and the mood has improved. The working condition is also good. The work will go smoothly. :

It's tiring to be alive though. It's better than dying, it doesn't matter if you have nothing to do, it's just that the opportunity and your experience are not in place, I hope you will face it bravely in the tree with confidence.

Face the reality, don't talk about the big truth, grasp your own future.

When we pursue our ideals, we certainly cannot ignore practical issues. The most perfect thing is to be able to combine the ideal with the reality and find a job that you love the most. When there is a disagreement between the ideal and the reality, you have to take three steps.

1) Face the reality, as long as you can get food and clothing, and have a certain income, you can get material enjoyment from it.

2) Be realistic and do a job that you don't love the most. Do the work you don't like to do "good enough", and then talk about what ideals to chase.

3) Gradually realize your ideals, do the job you don't love the most, and work the job you don't love, earn enough money, solve the problem of eating, and then go to do the job you love the most. 。

Ideals and realities can be both. But you have to have a plan, you have to give, you have to be persistent.

Three hundred and sixty lines, the line is the champion, so you can't say what work is good and what work is bad.

Many people who make achievements actually start small, work hard, and then succeed.

As long as you like a job, and the job is especially suitable for you, and can maximize your strengths, then it is a good job. I'm not much in favor of not getting a job if you can't find it. Of course, it is good to be able to choose a job at the same time as reemployment, but it is difficult to choose a job while re-employment is in a situation where the employment situation is relatively severe.

In this case, it is not necessarily a bad thing to find a job first and then choose a job, in the process you will find that you have accumulated a lot of social experience, accumulated a lot of vocational skills, and now companies are more and more interested in experience. So gain experience first, which will also help you find a better job later. Part-time work, practice, savings, and develop yourself after certain conditions.

It should be said that it is not easy to do any line, as long as you work hard, you can do it well!

This is life, it's not always smooth sailing, work is not going well, find the reason, try to find a way to solve it, there is uncomfortable time, it is better to study the problem solving and difficulties, all this is temporary, don't be discouraged, it will always pass.

It is not easy for people in this life, and there will be difficulties and unsatisfactory results. You need to overcome and self-regulate, participate in more meaningful activities, communicate with others more, relax your mind, don't drill the horns, there is no problem that cannot be solved, as long as you are willing to work hard, everything will be solved. Come on!!

If you make a mistake in your work and are criticized by the leader, then you will accept the facts to correct, if there is a problem in the company, the benefit is not good, change the job or go out to relax and find a friend to talk about, so that you can relax yourself, and cheer up your spirits.

I think when your work is not going well, when you feel sad and very helpless, at this time you can do something you like to do, for example, you can listen to some good ** to relax yourself, watch some good movies to adjust yourself, because everyone will encounter such problems, we should all have a good attitude, but deal with these problems.

If the work is not going well, you can change jobs again, and there is no endless way.

Hold on, persevere, "victory comes from persevering a little longer", the days are not static, always pass between good and bad.

Recently, the work has not been going well, it is very uncomfortable, and I am about to make up my mind, I must change my work methods, seriously study the work technology, overcome all difficulties, and I will always get better.

1.Sort out what causes your work to go wrong, find out the cause, come up with a solution, or ask a colleague for advice.

2.After straightening it out, I really felt that I couldn't adapt to it, so I had to look for a new job.

Take a change of scenery and relax! Taking a few days off to go out for a walk is the best way to release!

Work and life are not going well, annoying! But this is reality after all, so it is better to face setbacks optimistically, as the saying goes, after the wind and rain, the rainbow appears.

I thought you should take care of your mood, don't be pessimistic, and continue to work hard.

The sun is always after the wind and rain, and it will be kept until the clouds open to see the sunrise.

After reading his text messages, I happened to see a post about Hu Ge, in which the story of how he got out of the car accident gave me a lot of energy when I was depressed.

Think about the unemployed and the unemployed, aren't you satisfied?

It's normal to feel depressed during the job search process, after all, job hunting is a very hard thing. You can try to change your job search strategy, and after looking for a job for more than a month, you can't find a suitable job, and you're feeling a little depressed.

It is normal to feel depressed during the job search process, after all, job hunting is a very difficult and prudent thing. You can try to change the strategy of job hunting and filial piety, go to more job fairs in the industry, communicate with more chaotic people, and send your resume to companies with more knowledge files to increase the chances of job hunting. At the same time, you can also try to do some things you like, such as exercising, reading, making friends, etc., to relax your mood, maybe this will make you more confident to face the job search.

I submitted a lot of resumes and didn't hear back, my friends said that I didn't know who I could talk to, and I had a girlfriend chatting about how good I was, and I was even more depressed when I heard it.

You can be more proactive, such as asking the company to contact the company again to understand the progress of the recruitment, and you can also go to social **, such as LinkedIn, and send a message to the hiring manager or HR to ask about the recruitment. In addition, you can also participate in more industry activities, such as business conferences, job fairs, online gatherings, etc., to expand your network and increase job opportunities.

When chatting, you can quietly talk about some of your own thoughts, things you do, things you like, and your dreams, which can make your friends give you more encouragement, give you positive energy, and make you more motivated to continue to find a job.

It is an immutable fact that modern people are faced with more and more opportunities and competition, and therefore need to withstand more and more pressure.

If you want to live an easy and happy life, you have to face the challenges of stress and reduce your stress in an appropriate way.

Here are the happy tips for reducing stress:

1. Be clear about yourself.

Many times, it's not the hard work that makes us dizzy, it's the lack of clarity about how much work we have to do and what we should do in the first place. Good work habits can make you feel "less tired" without changing jobs.

Start by cleaning up your table and removing all the paper from it, leaving only what you need to do.

2. Accept yourself.

People who have a lot of extra demands and pressures on themselves tend to be perfectionists who are very themselves and not very happy with themselves. So, from now on, accept yourself. Strive to appreciate your imperfect appearance, your imperfect way, and your imperfect state of work.

Sometimes you should be open and honest about who you really are. This will definitely make you feel more relaxed.

3. Keep happy friends.

There is an old Chinese saying, "With ink as a companion, the blush will always increase; With ink as a companion, it will turn black. ”

If you are surrounded by people who make you feel depressed and frustrated, you will also feel frustrated and frustrated over time. If you are surrounded by happy and relaxed friends, you will become happier and more radiant before you know it. A person's appearance and attitude are contagious, just like measles.

Then, let happy, relaxed friends infect you with happiness, and you'll feel less heavy in the face of stress.

4. Speak and release.

If you wish, you can confide in your trusted friend about your troubles, tell him what he is doing and how you feel. If you prefer to face it alone, find a quiet and beautiful place to let your emotions unleash in the deepest fallen leaves. Cry, shout, run, jump, and don't think you're polite enough to give up that feeling of being out of breath.

Set yourself free to take on the next challenge.

5. Get close to nature.

Man is a child of nature. If you are close to nature, your mind will be relaxed.