Reject premarital fears, when will couples get married?

Nowadays, more and more prospective couples want to get married, but are afraid to enter the "siege". Some couples who are about to have a wedding turn their yearning and desire for the marriage hall into anxiety and hesitation before the wedding, and even find it difficult to face and fear marriage. This is not because there is a problem in the relationship between the parties, but because one party has a "premarital phobia".

A happy married life requires two people to work together to create.

When lovers walk into the marriage hall with wonderful and colorful imagination and naïve wishes, they find that there is no romantic mood behind the dazzling light and shadow of the white wedding dress, only an ordinary and monotonous "pot and pan symphony". From the whimsical to the down-to-earth, the huge gap between the ideal and the reality can easily leave newlyweds confused and confused. Therefore, newlyweds need to face up to the psychological changes and conflicts after marriage, and make timely adjustments before marriage.

The period after the wedding is a "period of adaptation" for the two. Personality needs to be adjusted, and lifestyle habits need to be adjusted. Life is made up of many concrete life trivialities.

Two people have different family backgrounds, cultural backgrounds, personality traits, interests, and hobbies. There will inevitably be conflicts when living together. For example, one party likes to be neat, while the other likes to make things messy.

One side is unkempt, while the other has a "cleanliness fetish". One is thrifty, the other is extravagant. Wait a minute.

After marriage, the "adjustment period" takes at least six months to a year.

During this time, both husband and wife should correctly understand the inevitability of the contradiction of the "adaptation period", try to look at the problem from each other's point of view, appreciate each other's strengths, and accept each other's shortcomings. Don't be too stubborn, learn to be tolerant and flexible, as Franklin said, "Keep your eyes open before you get married, and close your eyes when you get married."

I'm talking about mutual tolerance after marriage. Marriage is not a grave of love, nor is it a fairy tale of romantic love. It's real life.

You can't live without pots and pans, oil, salt, soy sauce and vinegar. Adaptations and conflicts in marriage should also be resolved by both spouses.

No matter how much you run-in, you will still be afraid of marriage, because marriage requires too much preparation, and everyone is the first time, and they are inexperienced, so they will definitely be afraid of marriage.

It doesn't matter how far they run-in, the key is when the two people plan to get married.

Run-in until you don't speak, and she can know what you're going to do.

That is, they all tolerate each other, and they all know each other's tempers very well.

Two people can tolerate each other's little faults, and then they can get married.

I think it will take at least half a year before you can get married.

If you have lived together for a period of time and can still get along, you can get married.

When love runs in to the point where it comes naturally, it is natural that you will not be so afraid of getting married.

Understand and tolerate each other.

The run-in time should not be too long, the longer the run-in time for people who are afraid of marriage, the more afraid of marriage becomes, and only a quick marriage can be slowly run in.

I think as long as the other party is sincere to her, one day he will agree.