Am I taking her too seriously? There was a sense of loss

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
47 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Why are you so stubborn?

    People are clearly not interesting to you.

    Women are soft-hearted and don't know how to say cruel things to their faces, I'm not interesting to you, don't pester me, you'll be embarrassed, not to mention that you haven't made it clear that I like you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    People inevitably have low times, and if you are happy every day, it is not a real life, and it is easier to feel lost when you are alone, and it is normal for emotional fluctuations. That's when we need to find something to do!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In our lives, we will meet the people you love the most, the people who love you the most, and the people who will spend your life together.

    First of all, you will meet the person you love the most, and then you will experience the feeling of love;

    Because you understand what it feels like to be loved, you can discover the people who love you the most;

    When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.

    But sadly, in real life, these three people are usually not the same person;

    The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;

    What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;

    And the longest-lasting, it's not your favorite or the person who loves you the most, it's just the person who appears at the most suitable time.

    How many people will you be in someone else's life?

    No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;

    In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

    When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him, and if you don't love him anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;

    If you still love him, you should want him to live happily, hope that he is with the person he really loves, and will never stop him, if you prevent him from getting real happiness, it means that you don't love him anymore, and if you don't love him, what right do you have to accuse him of changing his mind?

    Love is not possession, you can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you only know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to accompany you;

    The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.

    After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;

    Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment. So in the end.

    It is to choose which one to believe in fate, and everything will go naturally.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The sense of loss is something that everyone has, I think, your sense of loss should be just a kind of depression, a kind of heart that has been suppressed for a long time, maybe your heart is very fragile, maybe you should just feel lost for this temporary separation, feel that something is missing in life, I often have this feeling, but as long as you relax your mind, have a good time, forget this depressed psychology, time is the best antidote. The sense of loss can't last long, so let time dilute it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It was a feeling that something was missing. It's good to get used to being alone

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I often have a sense of loss, when I see my friends having a good time, and I feel ignored, in fact, the sense of loss** internal factors, since I am lost, then look for accomplishments, live polka dots, tell jokes to others, or something, so that others are happy, and you will be happy.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Find something to do

    Something that allows yourself to be serious and distracted

    Or、A cup of strong coffee in the warm afternoon、

    Add a warm **、

    Calm down and read slowly

    You'll be less lost

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Actually, sometimes ......Time washes away all ......Maybe your life isn't fulfilling enough right now or you're stressed......Adjust the ...... yourself

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    All worries, insomnia, emptiness, depression, boredom, stress... All have hearts.

    So you should regulate yourself:

    1.Less desire, 2Climb less, 3Mindset balance point, 4Be content and happy.

    5.Change what you can, accept what you can't, don't lose yourself, 6Live according to your abilities and don't let other people's living conditions dictate your mood.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    External substances cannot change your personality, they may change temporarily (such as when they are drunk), but they cannot change for life.

    Suggest that doing something you like to do with your friends and having fun will eliminate the sense of loss.

    Watch some books, movies, etc., which have a positive attitude towards life, to counteract the mood of decadence.

    Try to do something that you haven't done before, and you'll feel fresh and cheer up.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Introverted personality?

    Make more friends with friends or go out together, or get in touch with nature I used to do this occasionally, but it seems to be serious Wow Hehe, in addition to relatives, friends are really indispensable, and share their personal world with them, maybe there are other gains!!

    Good luck, friends!

    1000 words omitted here].

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I always feel this way from you, so I'm guessing that if you've been like this, there's a good chance you're suffering from depression. So I suggest you go to see a psychiatrist, or go to the library and look up some books and do some psychological**.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's not really about feeling lost, you may be too impetuous right now to settle down your feelings and moods, that is, it's hard to meditate

    Maybe the sense of loss can make you think about the pain, and then you can think about something quietly and give yourself a little learning atmosphere, but think carefully about whether this is the only channel

    As for how to have a sense of loss, it depends on what you care about most, if you care about love, in that case, imagine that the person you have a crush on can't see you at all, if you feel that your parents care about you so much, but you don't know how to reciprocate, do you feel a little ashamed Actually, I think that when I am most disappointed, I am thinking about how young a child I am, and I have to spend such a time in school, and I am very sad at such a time

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You think cranky, you think about your childhood, you think about weird things.

    There will be a sense of loss, not only a sense of loss, but also sadness, happiness and so on.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Listen to a sad song and think about the things that made you feel lost before.

    Then once you're in the groove and hurry up and learn.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Do more things that are too demanding to be done! Your sense of loss will appear! It is better to fall out of love or blow - your own self-confidence! ~

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Go to every contest and you'll be constantly feeling lost!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you really want to rely on a sense of loss to sustain it, then you may soon find that it is only for a short period of time, and the real motivation comes from your own efforts and making a plan that suits you

    Take it one step at a time.

    I wish you to find your true self soon.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    In this case, you should think about how your teachers criticize you when your grades are very poor, how your classmates snub you, and how your parents scold you, which may stimulate your motivation to study.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Think about it, what would happen if everyone else was in a good college and you went to a little-known university? Will you still feel no sense of loss? Can you still be happy?

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Shopping alone, turning off the mobile phone for a whole day, not going online for a day, and ignoring you, so there is a sense of loss.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Possess something beloved, and then suddenly lose it.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Ay! You're really troublesome, and I don't know what to do, so I guess I just have to listen to the songs.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you don't obey at home, it's good to let your parents scold you, and that's how I am.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    When I saw this HB problem, I felt so lost.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Loss is not a good thing! Why do you want to let yourself be lost?

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    First of all, it's worth recognizing that you're dedicated. This can be seen in two ways, one is that every time you do it, you will give it your all; Second, I am worried that I will bring losses to the company if I do not do well. Dedication is a valuable quality as a practitioner, and I sincerely hope that you will stick to it.

    Secondly, when the company assigns you an important task, this is your trust and importance, if the company assigns you, although you have pressure, but you will have a sense of accomplishment after success; And once the company is handed over to someone else and not handed over to you, your sense of loss is very normal, I said before that you are very dedicated, a very dedicated person, once you do not accept the task that the company should assign you, you will doubt yourself, and there will be a kind of "whether he is more appreciated by the leader than me" question.

    Thirdly, as for what you said, there will be a feeling of reluctance to give, which is also very normal. People have selfish intentions, especially their own hard work for a few days, how can they be willing to give it to others easily? Just like me, I worked hard to do the best design, but in the end it inexplicably became the fruit of other people's labor, and the reluctance and unwillingness in my heart are very normal reactions.

    In the end, I hope you can fight for it, although tired, although stressful, but think about the achievements after success, it's worth it, isn't it? People do a job not only to get a salary, but also to realize their own value, increase their experience and knowledge, and get exercise from it.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Not really. After the first success, you're afraid that one day you're going to fail, and now you're just afraid"Don't be a child"Nothing more.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You're very ambitious but you're afraid to be responsible, it's okay! Don't worry about doing it boldly, you are very powerful.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If people do not do it for themselves, the heavens and the earth will be destroyed. It's normal, you don't want to do it yourself, but once someone else does, there's another feeling of being belittled. It's the same as when I was in school, I didn't want to be the class leader, but when someone else was the class leader, I felt that the teacher looked down on me, and it was best for the teacher to ask me to do it, and I refused.

    It feels the same. It's just that the company can't afford to refuse.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    People will have a period of confusion, don't they all say that people are emotional animals? I don't think you need to care too much, there are joys and sorrows, this is the law of life.

    I've graduated from college, but when you think about your life in high school, it's hell on earth, and I think the reason why you feel lost is because you think about the two years you have left in high school, and you still don't know what to do in the future.

    High school study, as long as you carefully follow the teacher's rhythm and study slowly, there is generally no problem, there will be a lot of review time in the third year of high school, and some knowledge will be studied a lot of repeatedly, and that is the best time to improve yourself.

    And then there is, in fact, everyone can go to college in the future, 200 points, 300 points can go to college, it's just that the question of the quality of the university, don't think too much about the future, after all, you still have the whole sophomore year of high school to learn new knowledge.

    The hot weather now may also be one of the reasons.

    Hope it helps!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I'm also about to go to high school 2, and when I'm on vacation, I'm having a lot of fun, but sometimes I feel weird and a little sad. Summer mood disorder, this is a change in your heart during the holidays. Just relax! Chat with friends, read books, listen to songs, and cultivate sentiments.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Nothing. It is estimated that I have watched too much TV and more on the Internet. Just walk around for a while and just sleep.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    It doesn't matter, just get a little more sleep, it can be boring.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    It's okay to call**, contact and contact feelings.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Make friends again and chat together.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Give her them a ** slowly old.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    The things that make you dissatisfied in reality are mapped to your inner world, and the disadvantages are contrary to your original idea of defeat, and if this happens all the time, there will always be a sense of loss. Learn to be content.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    It's normal, just get some sleep.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    You have to live your life to the fullest! That way you won't have time to feel lost!

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Just keep yourself busy.

    Labor is a good medicine.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    It's that you feel that you have lost too many things, and there is also the relationship that you have not received what you have asked for, so adjust your mentality, which is "calm" in the words that are more popular now

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Because you haven't adjusted your mindset.

    It's good to take everything lightly (although I haven't done it yet).

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Everyone is like this, there are cycles. There will be a sense of loss.

    It may be better to go out for a walk

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    In fact, everyone will have the same troubles, but everyone has a different attitude towards them! Think about how many seventeen or eighteen people have in this life, and how many tribulations are waiting for us, laugh at life! It's not easy to live, so why not be happy?

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Everybody is like this If you are happy every day There is always 1 day You don't feel joy because you are used to joy Just like tasting the food you love is the same Eat it every day, one day you will feel that what you like to eat is not delicious Only by feeling the ups and downs of life is the real life No need to be discouraged and not lost You should get used to being plain and vigorous

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    The mood is poor and lost, and sometimes people think too much. Always thinking about something that will happen in the future puts a strain on one's psyche. Why think about something you can't do?

    Take a break for a while. Make the most of this time and do what you want. If you think it's right, do it.

    If you talk to your close friends, you will naturally feel better. Usually, you should often decompress yourself, and when you have troubles, don't drill the horns of the bull and think about the benefits. Slowly, the knots in my heart melted.

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