How to change yourself and become a confident and temperamental girl?

Observing the rules of etiquette: rampage on the road, noisy public speech, and pointing at others are enough to blacken a person from the word "fashionable" and turn him into a fashionable insulator, even if he is dressed brightly, but it is not enough to hide the rudeness of his heart, and the elegant person can wash and sleep except for a hundred thousand urgent things.

The most important thing is to be curious about the world, the most basic thing is to read books, as the saying goes: there is a ** house in the book, and there is Yan Ruyu in the book! Best of all, keep smiling!

Confident but not proud: a delicate makeup, a fashionable dress is easy to make people feel vanity, think that no one can compare, if on appearance, maybe this person is indeed very beautiful, but compared to the real fashion, then this person is a failure, no elegant woman will always show off her appearance, eager to attract the eyes of others, only a woman who is finally fashionable once will have this kind of psychology, and those who are extremely elegant, the cultivation will naturally be higher than these people, They generally don't use their appearance to attract people, but only use their own self-cultivation, conversation and demeanor, which is enough to attract others, plus the same fashionable dress, beautiful and confident, but not proud.

Read. Reading is the lowest cost investment to improve yourself. Maybe it won't be effective or rewarding for a while, but if you keep going, all the reading will be integrated into your thoughts, infiltrate into your bone marrow, and slowly you will find yourself slowly growing, from your words and deeds, to your thinking, to your style of doing things.

Talk. We often meet such people in our lives. They are very beautiful in dress, but when they say it with one mouth, they are not so good.

Words are the sharpest of weapons. Therefore, on any occasion, you must pay attention to your words and deeds, and don't be a slave to your emotions. Bear with it, let it go, and everything will pass.

Moreover, over time, your attitude towards life will also change a lot. You will also see things from a different perspective.

Appearance. Feeling clean when a person is first and foremost on the outside, not to mention what's inside is the most important time. Your filthy exterior gives you a glimpse of your pure heart?

It's important to repair both inside and out! Wear clean and neat clothes, preferably to highlight your elegant temperament. Don't wear too much makeup.

Proper light makeup can add extra points. Hair should also be clean, not shiny, dry and manic. White** makes people feel cleaner.

It is also important to speak and behave appropriately.

Clean and elegant, depending on how you dress. You can choose plain, elegant, and simple clothes, and simply handle neat and natural hair and light makeup. The simplest is to read more books, dabble extensively from shallow to deep, and gradually improve the level of appreciation, comprehension, and personal cultivation.

Slowly gestures, and the temperament gradually emerges between conversations.

Apparel. At every age, people should wear age-appropriate clothing. Money has to be used wisely.

Save up the money from buying a few stalls to buy a piece of clothing of high quality, simple style, and generosity. I guarantee that you will definitely not wear the clothes you buy again in the second year, but you will wear the classic models bought for one or two thousand, and you will wear them for three or two years. Most importantly, clothes will show a person's taste in life.

<> "How can girls become more confident?

1. First of all, you have to know what you want, you can use a piece of paper to list all the things you want, and when you achieve them one by one, you will become super accomplished and more and more confident on the way to achieve your goals!

2. The most difficult thing to understand and explore yourself is not to understand others, but to understand yourself! Although he is so close to himself, the hardest thing to see is indeed himself! So you have to try to know yourself:

Your character, your true view of things, your real needs, what things make you happy and what things make you sad.

3. Self-discipline and self-discipline make you free, when you begin to be strict with yourself and control yourself, self-confidence is exuded from the inside out, and you have achieved yourself.

4. Learn to put on makeup that suits you, and you will make yourself more beautiful! Appreciate yourself, please yourself, recognize yourself from the inside out, and do everything that can make you happy!

5. Find clothes that suit your styleOf course, style is not set in stone, and you can change it at any time.

6. Economic independenceEconomic independence can make you not have to rely on others, you can be brave to be yourself, follow your own heart, and follow your own feelings!

Preamble: In life, most women will have confidence on their faces, and women want to improve their self-confidence and make themselves more confident. Women should be aware that when it comes to improving their self-confidence, many people lack self-confidence because they look ugly.

And women should know that when it comes to appearance, don't be overly anxious about appearance. Only by making yourself aware that you are the most beautiful can you reduce women's appearance anxiety, and at the same time, make women realize that their beauty will make women more and more confident. <>

For the vast majority of women when it comes to their appearance, most women will be unconfident about their appearance. But women should know that if they want to become more confident, it is definitely not because of their appearance that girls have low self-esteem, and they want to make themselves more confident for women. You should be aware of the correct understanding of beauty, and only by recognizing that your appearance is unique in the world, can women slowly become more and more confident.

As a woman, when you want to improve your self-confidence, you should know that through knowledge reading and education, you can also improve your self-confidence. In fact, there are some women in life who are very confident in all aspects of their work ability due to their higher educational qualifications. Especially when faced with problems that they will and others will not, a woman's face will be filled with a confident smile.

As a woman, you should be aware that there are many college students in today's life. However, it is also very necessary for women to have more self-confidence and improve their academic qualifications. There are many women who are still going to graduate school after going to university, because they want to improve their abilities by taking the graduate school examination, and the excellence in academic qualifications will also make girls smile confidently anytime and anywhere.

First of all, self-esteem and self-love are the premise of self-confidence, because only if you recognize yourself and affirm yourself, you will be confident. And to have self-esteem and self-love, then look at your own strengths and don't always look at your own shortcomings. In addition, there is also to improve your overall ability, because the higher your ability, the more confident you will be.

I think girls must walk with their chests up and their heads up, their eyes not wandering, and they must dress well, so that they can be confident.

I think I have to encourage myself more, praise myself more, wear more clothes I like, and go out shopping with others more.

For a person to be successful, one must have self-confidence. ......The so-called self-confidence, simply put, is to believe in oneself, in-depth understanding, is the self-affirmation of oneself to solve complex problems. ......A person's success depends on self-confidence, and where does a person's self-confidence come from?

What do you need to get it? Clarity on this issue is of great significance for us to build self-confidence.

Specifically, a person's self-confidence is obtained by the following factors:

1. Self-confidence first comes from the strong strength that you have.

Fundamentally, self-confidence is generated by one's own ability.

A person with mediocre ability and who can't do anything well is destined to lack self-confidence. ......Only those outstanding talents will have strong self-confidence. ......For us ordinary people, the skill we are best at is our own self-confidence.

Therefore, the foundation of self-confidence is the strength you have.

2. Self-confidence requires strong willpower to produce.

Self-confidence belongs to the psychological and conscious level of existence. Therefore, it takes the support of willpower to produce.

It is impossible for a person with weak willpower to have a confident ......This has been proven countless times in real life......And those who have strong self-confidence and do not give up even when they encounter difficulties are all people with strong willpower. Therefore, a self-confident person must be a person with strong willpower.

It can be seen that another important aspect of self-confidence is your own willpower.

3. Self-confidence can only be generated by self-reliance and self-improvement, and can be maintained for a long time.

Self-confidence is the spirit of self-reliance and self-improvement.

Self-confidence comes from one's own strength and relies on strong willpower, but it requires the spirit of self-reliance and self-improvement to produce and maintain ...... long-termThe spirit of self-reliance and self-improvement is the correct demonstration of one's own strong willpower, and only with this spirit can we establish self-confidence, let ourselves have self-confidence, and maintain self-confidence for a long time, and will not retreat because of difficulties.

Therefore, the spirit of self-reliance and self-improvement is the concrete support of self-confidence.

4. Only those who work hard and keep forging ahead can produce and have self-confidence.

It is impossible for a person who does not want to make progress to have self-confidence.

Those who have strong self-confidence are, without exception, motivated and ......constantly improvingThese people continue to work hard for their own development and progress, and their motivation is strong self-confidence. ......Because of this, self-confidence is generated from these people and sustained for a long time.

From the above analysis, it can be seen that the generation of self-confidence is a multifaceted ......Only by having these conditions at the same time can you generate and have strong self-confidence for a long time, provide a steady stream of motivation for your own development and progress, and make yourself finally successful.

Change your appearance. In fact, appearance is also one of the important points to help improve self-confidence. While it is not easy for us to change our appearance, we can change our appearance by putting some thought or time into it.

If we want to look confident in our appearance, we must start with the most basic personal cleanliness and hygiene. In addition, girls can also choose makeup or find a style that suits them to make themselves confident.

Don't deny yourself lightly.

If you're not confident in yourself, try to do everything you need to do every day. When you do your part, you feel like you're good. You have to give yourself some time and opportunities to build self-confidence.

When you encounter difficulties or failures, remember not to rush to deny and underestimate yourself. When you learn how not to deny and underestimate yourself, this is your chance to build self-confidence.

Stop the habit of pleasing others.

If you have a habit of trying to please others, please get rid of this bad habit, because a confident person will not always think about how to please others. You will want to please others because you lack self-awareness. Girls should remember that the people who love you don't need you to please them, and you don't need to shout Zen to please them.

Know how to be humorous. When you smile at others, they will smile at you too. Sometimes a person who knows how to humor will release his attractiveness in various situations, so as to make a lot of friends and become more optimistic and cheerful.

When you know how to be humorous, you will enjoy the joy that your words can bring joy to others, easily resolve some awkward situations, and make communication more relaxed and enjoyable.

Improve your temperament.

On the road to self-confidence, a key word that cannot be ignored is temperament. There may be some people who are naturally good-looking and therefore have a strong sense of self-confidence. But more ordinary people can also improve their temperament through some ways.

For example, to achieve a good posture by correcting some bad sitting postures or habits, holding our heads up and chests are familiar to us and easy to ignore. On the other hand, we can enrich our experience by reading more books, which is full of poetry.

First of all, some of He's makeup skills before learning online are not exquisite, but you also have to learn basic makeup, and you also have to wash your hair and wash frequently, which will make you more confident.

Confident women must first be self-reliant, especially in terms of economic independence, no longer rely on anyone financially, and they can live a very comfortable and beautiful life, which is the first step that will make us confident, we don't want to realize our dreams by marrying into a wealthy family, blindly relying on others will only make you look down on yourself and make yourself inferior. When talking to others, it is best to face up to other people's eyes, not always looking around, dodging, this is not only a sign of disrespect for others, but also a sign of our own lack of self-confidence, indicating that we dare not have eye contact with others.